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i'm a 14 year old guy and a couple of months ago i started masturbating and it feels really good i've started to masturbate more recently it feels so good is it normal to masurbate a lot?
Yes it is normal to masturbate a lot. It's perfectly fine because you are just exploring your body to see what you like.
If you start feeling uncomfortable down in your penis area, you should cut back, but other than that! You are perfect doing what you're doing.
i need advice. . I am from india. I m seeeing sexual dreams, from few years. But sex in my dreams is, willingly, .after night mare, i realy feel that somebody do that realy with me.
Sexual dreams are essential for the human body to relax. If you don't have sex, your sub concious will have sexual dreams to relieve some of your sexual tensions.
It really isn't a nightmare, you just have to use it properly. Of course it is willingly in dreams because that is what you body wants and needs at that time.
I am 15 male and well i'm not sure if it's normal but my penis is really small i'm really worried
will it grow? is there something wrong with me?
No nothing is wrong with it, depending upon your race it might just be because of that, but during an erection it gets bigger, so there isn't anything to worry about at all. A lot of people have small penises, but that hasn't stopped them.
Take care,
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hello my name is phelgrace i intirested with emo nickname but i dont know what nickname ???please help me
First of all,
you should never call anything EMO. That is stereotypical and can get you into a lot of trouble.
Second of all, I am not certified to tell you any nicknames, because I do not know you, and I know you well enough to tell you that you shouldn't even be on here asking for an emo nickname, or even a nickname.
Have a nice day.
Uniqueme.
Hi i am thirteen and i play with myself! I dont know why i do it but i try to find anything that vibrates and i stick it down there it feels so good tto me but it makes me feel funny! but i love the way it tingles down my body and i am addicted to it what do i do???
It is completely normal to experiment like that at your age. It's called "masturbation" and every one does it at one point in their life. It's actually really healthy and can shape you the way you want, just make sure you don't overdo it (meaning, 12 hours every day) because you can rip tissue. Also make sure everything is sterile, so asa to not get any infections.
I really think im gay im almost 16 im male and i was 14 when i became attracted to guys i kept looking at guys and it turned me on and even now i still like guys im not really attracted to girls i havent told anyone yet but i really like this guy he seems to like me he friendly towards me makes me thinks he likes me more than a friend
im a bit nervous about telling him how i feel
so im not sure if hes gay so do i tell him flirt a little to let him know how i feel what should i do?
Well, if you aren't attracted to women that is fine. You should try hanging out with him A LOT more. Hangout with him after school and things like that. Once you guys get closer, you may want to flirt but if you aren't comfortable with that then don't.
If he becomes your really good friend, why don't you just tell him the truth. Tell if you are gay, that you aren't attracted to girls.
But at first dont come off to strong because you are unsure if this guy is even gay or not.
Good luck!
I finally had my first kiss. It felt like a suction on my lips, so i'm not sure if thats right. was i supposed to use tongue? i don't know, i think i was really bad. was it supposed to feel like a suction on my lips? please help
17/ f
Well, have you ever kissed a family member or something? If you use just lips, then the kiss you did with a family member should feel about the same as your first kiss. I'm not sure if "a sunction on my lips" is what it is supposed to be like.
You don't have to use tongue until you feel you already. Don't stress about it otherwise it won't be good. A lot of people say the first time you "tongue" a guy, it just comes naturally. But some people say that their first time sucked, it all differs.
Congrats! By the way. :)
Good luck!
Recently I asked a question about a girl, titled "getting some vibes from a girl has a boyfriend, but is sending me pics and stuff".. I took all of the feedback into consideration, however this past weekend we got to see each other.
We had a great time together, we made out and fooled around a little, but nothing too far. She after the fact told me she waa quite fond of me and enjoyed our time together. She wants us to get together again, but I'm hesitant because of her boyfriend. I'm a decent guy, I wouldn't cheat on a girl, I think that's really greedy and ignorant and I take good care of those I appreciate.
Basically now what I'm looking for is how do I get her from her boyfriend? I want to win her over. I really enjoyed our time spent together this weekend and I want it to happen again.
Also, how do I approach this with her parents? I want to consult them before we hang out, as I feel it's the right thing to do. I'm on good terms with her father, we're real good friends. Infact, I met her through him. He thinks well of me. I sent him an email asking him if he'd be okay with his daughter and I getting together to take some photos sometime. No response yet. Any advice is really appreciated.
Chase
Nice to meet you Chase.
First things first, it wasn't right for you guys to fool around since she has a boyfriend.
You should just straight up talk to her and tell her you two can't be together until she breaks up with her boyfriend. If she tells you she did, make certain that she has.
Don't try to "win her over" because that isn't fair to yourself or her boyfriend. Plus, she already said she wanted you two to be together so you already have practically won her over.
It looks to me like you already approached her father with this. Wait about a week and see if he responds. If he doesnt, go to his work or go hangout and tell him there. For her mom, take her out to dinner or take a walk with her and tell her in that time.
Or that maybe he's a little jealous when she's with someone else?
We're talking about a 17 year old guy who hasn't quite grown out of caring what other people think of him, and a possible crush on a 15 year old girl in his class who is far from what people are expected to like. He's said she's 'so fun to mess with/tease'.
I don't know who you are talking about (girl or guy) which made this seem confusing. So i'll just answer your question.
Signs a guy likes you: He'll smile shyly/or crookedly. He'll look at you a lot, especially when he thinks you aren't watching him. He'll try to make you smile a lot and will try to impress you. He'll wink at you or move closer to you and might talk to you a lot.
If he is jealous he might narrow his eyes, or look at you a lot. He might also go and talk to you more, to make sure that that other guy isn't taking you over. He may try to put that guy down, and tell you things that might not be true about that other guy.
Things like that!
Good luck!
Im a 14 year old girl and i enjoy watching lesbian porn, but im straight, am i bi or anyything? but then when the porn shows vaginas i get really turned off....
Well, it's normal for girls to think other girls are attractive, especially at 13 to 15 years of age because they are still exploring sexuality.
It doesn't mean your bi, it just means that is what you like. When you get older you'll know for sure but there isn't a way to tell.
If you really want my professional opinion, if you get turned off by vaginas, then you probably are straight, but just like watching girls.
I am fifteen and I am sort of the same way. I like reading about girls having sex, and i don't mind having dreams about things like that either,
but if I see pictures of girls touching each other or vaginas, I get grossed out.
Okay so I'm an adult female who believes they are an otherkin. how do I explain my otherkin self to my family? I have some unusual reactions to certain things they do or say...which makes me scared. One time my best friends step brother was being verbally abusive to me and I became so upset my "tail" lashed out, tripped him over and I pinned him down and did not let him move unless he crawled. I sometimes get alot of stress at the docs and im also scared I might attack them too. I'm not into lying. and im not a alternative reality seeker. Being an otherkin is very stressful sometimes and I've tried online groups and many of people are into the occult which is against my Christan ways.
Well one, nice to meet you. I am otherkin too.
Though I am young, so I don't have things happen to me like you do. Like, your tail, no, that never happened to me.
You may email me if you want, I know some people that are very supportive of our kind.
Look, I'm not lying to you about being otherkin, why would I have a reason too? Though I do doubt my abilities sometimes.
Anyways, the first otherkin rule is NEVER TELL HUMANS. But if you really have to, just hint to them. Say things like "Oh! Wouldn't it be cool if I was a lycanthrope/vampire/faerie" or whatever you are. See if they would openly accept it.
And if they can't,
you will just have to wait until the veil falls,
then they'll believe you.
Approximately one month ago, I finally decided I was ready to tell the world my biggest secret: I was pansexual. I liked both sexes, and everything in between, from transgenders, to transvestites, to...well, everything! My boyfriend was supportive from the get-go, and my close friends comforted me and were always there to talk. After the first few days, I was in heaven. I was finally on the way to becoming free of being confined in the closet.
...that didn't last long.
You see, my boyfriend (to summarize) had a lot of family issues, and is currently living with his close friend. I'll call this friend Z. For easy purposes. Z is not only my boyfriend's closest friend; he is also my best friend K's boyfriend. We are all kinda connected as such. The family he is currently staying with is a steadfast, old-school Christian family. And honestly, I had no problem with that; I'm a Christian myself, and I enjoyed going to their church meetings and helping out. They seemed very open and accepting, and I felt like I wasn't being judged for who I was when I was there...
At first.
I was sitting in one of the youth group meetings they held every Wednesday, just a week or so after revealing myself to my closer friends, when the worship leader (who is Z's mother) began an oddly vicious speech which included the following:
"Trust me, I know. I had a gay best friend. And I knew from the moment he told me, he was going straight to Hell."
I admit, my reaction was a bit unnecessary, but I had to do it anyway. I slammed my chair back, stood up, and walked out of the church.
The next day, Z was relatively silent on the matter, and my boyfriend and friends were there to help me vent my frustration. However, a few days later, an annoying string of facebook comments from him sparked an anger in me I didn't know I could hold. He began criticizing me and insulting my faith, saying that I was going to burn in Hell along with all the other gays. His church friends began to join in, and eventually, so did his father, who slung so many harsh things my way, my mother was ready to slug him.
My boyfriend can't move out, even if he wanted to. His family situation is completely toxic. So now, I am constantly forced into situations where me and Z are in close quarters. We haven't spoken since the incident.
I do not know what to do. My mind tells me to confront him; my heart tells me that he's not worth it, and I had better move on and try to live with him. All I know is that if this continues, there's gonna be a point where I blow up, either at him or at myself, and it's not too far off. I have been so confident in my faith and religion lately, and I feel great about where my life is going. To have him try to take that away from me...I'm not even sure he deserves my anger at all.
Christians are so judgemental. Firstly, you AREN'T going to hell because you are pansexual.
That church shouldn't be able to say that stuff, that is harrassment and you can tell the cops that.
You should confront Z. Yes, he isn't worth it, but you'll feel better when you do. Tell him that he made a HUGE mistake when he wrote all that stuff. Tell him he really hurt you, and that their isn't anything wrong with being pansexual.
Stick up for yourself when people say stuff to you.
And join a new church, keep joining new churches if the one you are currently at won't accept who you are. You'll find one that does.
Don't lose faith in what you are and what you believe it, that's what people want you to do. Don't let them control you.
And DON'T take it out on yourself, you shouldn't punish something that wasn't wrong in the first place.
If anything, all those people who are judging you, THEY are going to hell. After all "god" is good, and good doesn't judge.
Good luck!
First of all, no judgements.
If I were to get pregnant with my boyfriend and before the abortion time limit he decides to stray(cheat, leave me, etc) and I find myself suddenly unable to go through with the pregnancy for whatever reason, does he have a right to say no? In other words, can the law stop me from having an abortion if he doesn't want me to have one?
If that were to happen, I don't see why it would be fair that he makes me go through 9 months of hell so he can have the kid when he was unreliable and irresponsible enough to cheat or leave me... once again, no judgements, please. I just need to know my options..
No of course the law can't stop you from having an abortion.
Your boyfriend can say no, but it is ultimately your decision. The person who carries the baby has the decision to abort the baby or not, because you are the one you will be the one carrying it for 9 months.
im 16 male and well a lot of my friends have had sex they talk about it a lot i feel a bit weird i dont want to hear it some of them are surprised im still a virgin but im glad i dont think im a prude im from a christian family and i dont wanna have sex until im married i strongly believe in waiting and i hope to find the right girl who also wants to wait for marriage theres nothing wrong with not having sex until marriage is there?
Of course not.
Don't let those people get to you because if you do they your pride will be taken away.
Believe what you want to believe, stay clean until marriage if that is what you want.
Hold your head up high and be proud that you are still a virgin. Of course, their are those people that'll laugh at you because they made the choice of having sex before they were mature enough.
Most of your friends are probably virgins too, or are bregging about something that they wish had happened. It's nothing to be proud of, really, unless you truely love someone.
Don't let your beliefs be broken just because your friends are weak.
Good luck
Im a bit embarrassed about this im 16 male and ive been with my girlfriend for 4 months and well ive got a really small penis and im worried about getting intimate or doing anything sexual with her im worried about showing her my penis so will it grow is there a way to make it bigger?
what can i do?
Well yes, you could use a drug, like viagra for instance, and that'll make it SEEM big. But, when you get aroused it'll get a little bigger too. But, really, you should just go natural and tell her how you feel. If you are sure you love her, it shouldn't matter if you have a small penis or not. If she laughs, oh well, it wasn't supposed to be. To put it painfully honest, you dont want a girl who is going to laugh at you about things like that anyways. A lot of guys have small penis' but they do just fine the way they are.
Good luck!
the differences between female and male writing
The difference is that male writing is more sloppy, most of the time is really small, and it is more like "chicken scrap", which means it's kind of shaky and not-neat. Female writing looks more neat (most of the time), and they have their A's like this "a" instead of the normal A. Their writing looks bigger also.
how can you know if i guy is a virgin
You can't really know if a guy is a virgin just by looking at him. The best way to know is to ask him.
I have a friend that I talk to a lot. Let's say this is Friend A. I have another friend that I have somewhat drifted away from and I have not talked to him or hung out with him as much anymore. This is Friend B. (They're both males) Friend A is amazing, I love him to death, we never get sick of being with eachother, and I've known him for about 4 years. Friend B, we're alike in so many ways too, I've known him since Kindergarten, but he's ehh, as in, kinda flat in personality. With Friend A, I can talk all the time, and I always have something to say to him, we listen to eachother, we laugh together, and everything :) Friend B, he commented to me that he thinks I'm trying to replace him, and he's been wound up about me always hangin' around Friend A, and I don't know what to do with him. I don't know if he's jealous, I just wish he talked to me like he used to because he acts like I did something horrible and he's been acting all solemn with me. PLEASE HELP (oh and Friend A asked me out and I do wanna give it a try)
Random Fact:
Me: Libra
Friend A: Aries
Friend B: Libra
Well, you shouldn't not talk to either guys. Talk to friend B and tell him what's going on with friend A. Tell friend B that you want things to go back to normal, ask him if he's jealous. If you want to give it a try with Friend A, then do it. If Friend B has a problem with it, then oh well, you tried, and it is his loss if he wants to be the way he's acting.
xxxx
Good luck.
im 15 male and im gay ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and well we had an argument the other day i was talking to this guy were friends only friends weve talked a bit lately but my boyfriend seems to think theres more to it he asked me why im talking to him all the time i think he maybe jealous but i told him were friends nothing else i told him i love him hes the only one i do love my boyfriend is he jealous what do i do?
We could definitely be jealous, but it's normal in a new relationship. Give it another month or so, and if he doesn't trust you what-so-ever, it won't work out in the end because trust is the key to a GOOD relationship.
I would continue talking to this guy, depending on how much you love your boyfriend, if you start to develop other feelings for this guy, you should either:
1: cut off all communication.
2: tone it down a bit.
I suggest the first. :)
Talk to your boyfriend the next time you see him. I mean, a serious talk. A sit down, no interruptions, talk.
Tell him HOW you guys are just friends, and tell hm he doesn't have to worry, tell him how much you love him, tell him how you would NEVER cheat on him EVER. But most importantly tell him that if he doesn't trust you, then it won't work out. Trust me, it won't. You two will get on each other's nerves way to much. :P
Anyways, good luck with your boyfriend!
I wish you two the best! :)
If you need anymore help or you want me to explain more my email is on my advice column.
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13/f Well I started talking to this guy on facebook and he goes to the other middle school in my town and I started talking and flirting with him and he asked me if i had a skype so i got one and we chatted and then he started making fun of my friend and saying things like boooobies and i want booobies and making wierd noises. Plus he is really popular an the preps at my school no him, and Im scared he will say something what do i do??
Well first of all, defend your friend. No guy is worth hearing mean things about your friend.
And don't try to impress a guy just because you like him. He sounds immature to me, and you don't. That is a bad combination.
If you still want to be friends with him and things, do that, but defend your friends first. Don't be scared that he'll say something, because if he does, then he is just an ass, and you can't change asses.