im 15 male and im gay ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and well we had an argument the other day i was talking to this guy were friends only friends weve talked a bit lately but my boyfriend seems to think theres more to it he asked me why im talking to him all the time i think he maybe jealous but i told him were friends nothing else i told him i love him hes the only one i do love my boyfriend is he jealous what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Uniqueme answered Sunday March 20 2011, 10:10 pm: We could definitely be jealous, but it's normal in a new relationship. Give it another month or so, and if he doesn't trust you what-so-ever, it won't work out in the end because trust is the key to a GOOD relationship.
I would continue talking to this guy, depending on how much you love your boyfriend, if you start to develop other feelings for this guy, you should either:
1: cut off all communication.
2: tone it down a bit.
I suggest the first. :)
Talk to your boyfriend the next time you see him. I mean, a serious talk. A sit down, no interruptions, talk.
Tell him HOW you guys are just friends, and tell hm he doesn't have to worry, tell him how much you love him, tell him how you would NEVER cheat on him EVER. But most importantly tell him that if he doesn't trust you, then it won't work out. Trust me, it won't. You two will get on each other's nerves way to much. :P
Anyways, good luck with your boyfriend!
I wish you two the best! :)
If you need anymore help or you want me to explain more my email is on my advice column.
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