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17, first kiss
I finally had my first kiss. It felt like a suction on my lips, so i'm not sure if thats right. was i supposed to use tongue? i don't know, i think i was really bad. was it supposed to feel like a suction on my lips? please help
17/ f
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Its not really supposed to feel like a suction on your lips, and you only really use tongue if your comfortable with doing that.
Everybody gets worried tht theyll mess up kissing but you cnt really go all too wrong with it try practicing on your pillow or on your hand bcus its sumthing you get better at with practice. When you do get to kiss again when you go in for the kiss make sure your head tilts a bit the opposite way to his and have your lips slightly parted and when your lips touch his kiss him then from there you kinda just have to go with the flow but one rule is if you are inexperienced try saving using your tongue till your completely safe and comfortable with just plain old kissing.
If you do wanna kiss with tongues Open your lips slowly and just a little during the kiss so that one of your lips is sandwiched between theirs and one of theirs is between yours. As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss.slowly try to open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth. The tongue is very sensitive, and the mere act of touching your partner's tongue with your own will be very pleasant. Do not stick your tongue too far into the mouth, as this can be a big turn-off. Instead, just gently and playfully touch tongues. Start lightly. Usually, if the other person wants more, they will come and get it.Go slow. Passionate kisses are good sometimes, but to really enjoy a French kiss, you must take it slow. Do not hurry and instead, take time to explore each other's mouths. if you need any more help just inbox me :)
Hope this helps!!xx
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Well, have you ever kissed a family member or something? If you use just lips, then the kiss you did with a family member should feel about the same as your first kiss. I'm not sure if "a sunction on my lips" is what it is supposed to be like.
You don't have to use tongue until you feel you already. Don't stress about it otherwise it won't be good. A lot of people say the first time you "tongue" a guy, it just comes naturally. But some people say that their first time sucked, it all differs.
Congrats! By the way. :)
Good luck!
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