OK, so my dad has cancer, my mom needs 2 hav surgery, my sista is a diebetic, my other sis just had a baby, and we hav alot of other things like that going on in my family. I really need an additude ajustment. When ever some1 else says somethin negitive, i become negitive, and every1 gets mad at me. How do i change this?
well first of all i have had a time in family recently that was like that and i found that its best to comfort those who are negative give them advice and just try ur hardest to b happy no matter wat.
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i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =)
listen, i havent been on this site in a while because my life had a few umm....complications. but anyway u shud dump him because apparantly he duznt no wat it meens 2 have a dating relationship with a girl. its not all about sex its about commitment, love, caring, comfort, similarities responsibility, and if u both want maybe some sexuallity. but its not alll about sex otherwise it mite get out of control and lead 2 date rape
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I know that guys love outgoing girls, but what about the shy ones? Ive heard from someppl that some guys think that shy girls are kinda cute.. what kind of guys think that? Like outgoing guys? Or shy guys? Or what? And how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her? thanks
well there is no specific type of guy that likes shy girls. if a guy likes a shy girl its probably becuz their hot. thats bcuz thats the only way they notice them if their not outgoing. if a shy girl like a guy well u can leave him notes asking him 2 meet u alone somewhere like in the skoool library or something and youll hav to look and wink at him in the halls. just make sure its a guy that wont humiliatye u cuz theres almost nothing worse than that. hope i helped
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sry this is a lil drastic and stuff lol... but, hav u ever had sex? i mean, if so, wut exactly do u do? and how do uk if a guy likes u or not and wut he wants to do? ur a guy so i thot u wud kno sum of this stuff. i nvr had a bf b4 but just for further reference i was jw. like wut are the bases and all that stuff. plz answer my ?'s. thnx alot!!!
if u wanna talk to me online my s/n is
OnTheEdge7290
but answer it here too cuz my aim isnt workin rite now. lol. thnx so much! ur sooo sweet!
well i have a few experiances and it is pretty obvious wen a guy wants 2 do it trust youll no wen. and wen ur doin it just ask him wat he wants u 2 do and just go w/ it and just make sure hes got a condom and dont do nething to stupid lol
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ok well theres this guy who always flirts with me and he knows i have a boyfriend and all. and also my boyfriend is a very jelous guy and wants to protect me in any way he can. but i dont want to hurt the guys feelings because hes nice and all, i dont know if he'd be hurt if i told him i dont like him flirting or what, what do you think?
just talk 2 him online and dont tell ne1 about him
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hi. im in 9th grade and theres about 5 or 6 girls who are obsessed with me! they are ny best friends but they treat me differently than everyone else ib our group. they fight over who gets to sit next to me, who gets to b my partner and stuff like that. like if i ask someone to do me a favor they jump to it like their life depends on it. im glad they love me n all but its kind of annoying and obsessive what should i do?
thnx
well let me just first ask u WAT R U COMPLAINING BOUT?!?!?! just ask them ut u can get so much ass ur probably the luckiest kid in the skool so trust me just go w/ it
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Hi. I'm in the seventh grade and am terrified about what I might get as a result on my reprot card. I never got off the honor role in my life of being in school. I get all A's and 1 B, and other times just all A's. I'm not trying to boast or brag or anything. I got 3 zeros in science, 1 D, and maybe I think 3 A's. My grade's shouldn't be going down like this because I know I can do better than that. The 1st quarter ends on October 20. Is there anyway I can improve my grade to an A by then. If so, please respond to this question. Thanx!
wo wo wo hey take it easy u dont always have 2 get good grades. i was liek u i never got nething below a b. but then things got hrder and i was struggling so much and spending so much time doing work that i lost som of my friends. i realized i just need 2 ease up a bit and ot try so hard. my grades went down a little bit but at least i hade a life and now i was gettin As Bs and Cs and i only got a D once but it was in cookin so it duznt matter. just dont try so hard and live a little. and if neccessary lie and do ur work in the morning and enjoy the night thats wat i do and i tworks wonders. tell me how it works out and good luck
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(Sorry, I wasnt sure what category to put it under) Ok, ever since 5th grade I really started to hate my life. I mean, this large group of girls were doing petty things and were lying to the principal. Alot of people hate me. I lost 25 maybe more, friends. I cant take it anymore. My friends are starting to ignore me and "snub" me! Im starting to feel very depressed and lonely. My self-esteem is 2. Not alot. I cry myself to sleep. My family life isnt any better. My mom is SUPER paranoid, so I cant tell her anything. My dad wont understand. My mom wont let me go over to my friends house and such! Please help!
12/f
dont worry, forget parents, just stick w/ wat ur doin. ur friends will com around eventually, things will get better b4 they get worse. if u want som1 2 talk 2 just IM me at WinterX2690
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I am a cutter and my friends all say i should stop and blah blah blah... BUT I DONT WANT TO!!! And i think someone told my Guidance Couselor and i dont know what to do...? Should i deny all or what?
~Help me out!~
listen to me, listen 2 ur frineds......i my frineds cuzin used 2 cutt and we kept tellin him 2 stop or else somthin bad mite happen.a month later my friends cuzin died from cutting he bled 2 death.....this boy was only 12......plz think about ths and try as hard as u can n ot to cut cuz it just brings misery 2 all remebr "it is not our abilities that show who we truly are it is our choices" choose wisley
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i know yall played truth or dare b4.
What are sum good dares?
im 13 female and i dont want any sex shit.
what are some good truth questions 2.
thanks a lot
som good truth questions r like who do u like or who do u prefer (and give names of 2 people), wats the funniest joke u no, wats the most disgusting or emabarassing thing youve eva done, u no stuff along that line
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alright so im 16 and about a week ago i lied to my parents every night about what i did...id say i went to dinner and a movie or something like that but really i went out to party...well they found out and they found out i drank and stayed out past 12(when i stayed over at my friends house) and pretty much...im grounded for a long time until they feel like they can trust me again.this is not the first time this has happened, but its the worst ive ever done it and its the worst punishment ive gotten. i've lost my car as well and all im allowed to do is go tan,shool,dance and work.my mom keeps asking me how im going to earn their trust back but im not sure how im going to...other than talking to them, i mean really they cant test me cause im grounded and im sure they wouldnt test me cause they dont trust me. do you have any ideas of how i can get them to trust me again? thanks a lot!:)
well first of all consider urslef lucky cuz if it were my parents i wouldnt hav ne thing left. but 2 show them they can trust u just do everything ur told dont do nething suspicious or that they would prefer u not 2 do. ask if heres nething they want u 2 do for them and little by little youll b able 2 earn things back. it works 4 me. good luck and telll me how it works out. and remeber "it is not ourabilities tat show what we truly are... it is our choices" choose wisley ;)
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i like this guy and him and his girlfriend just broke up today.. if i ask him out, is taht bad? because me and his ex are like friends but not really
just give him a few days then ask him or else it will seem 2 his ex that hes been cheating w/ u
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I go out with this guy and I REALLy like him, I mean REALLY. I want to do things with him like kiss etc but all our friends follow us around and tease us and we never get to spend time alone. Like, someone will say: Izzi kiss Jon and I just can't do it with everyone there. It makes me really embarassed and I get scared that Jon will think that I don't want to when I DO. I tried to tell my friends to leave me alone and they kinda do, but everyone else doesn't.
just plan 2 meet jon somewhere w/out tellin ur friends where ur gonna meet and make sure he duznt tell ne1 either hope i helped
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How do you know if a guy likes you and if he/you does like him how do you get him to notcie you??
u gotta talk 2 him alot and and wink and smile everytime u go past him and u no just flirt naturally and if u dont no how 2 flirt then just IM me and ill sho u ;) lol my s/n is WinterX2690
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I know this might be a dumb question but waht does idk mean?
i dont know either
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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o
first of all its impossible if ur parents already no that ur gonna hav the baby. and second i think that its a crime worse than murder 2 hav an abortion. think bout it. ur taking away a life b4 its even had its first breath. ur preventing a a human being from having a life. eu shud have the baby even if ur not goin 2 keep it. just remeber this: " it is not our abilities that show who we truly are....it is our choices." choose wisley plz. and good luck
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Well I'm "going out" with this guy from school..But when we talk we have like no conversation and I was talking to him about his ex-girlfriend and he said he didnt want her knwoing about me cuz they might be together in the future...well idk i didnt say anything...i think he wants me just for stuff...and when hes sick of me he'll leave...well i dont really like the guy i mean im just going out with him to see if i start liking him and so far our "relationship" is going nowhere. hes a pretty cool guy but i think we'd be better off as friends.. Hes a druggie, he drinks (im not into that) and he likes to rush into things with his gf's...ok so heres my problem. i wanna tell him i dont think going out is a good idea and im gonna tell him why i think that but i dont wanna seem..well mean i guess..the guy has been wanting to go out with me for over a year now! he was all excited cuz i told him i would do stuff (if i was comforable enough) to him but i wouldent go all the way...sooo idk its like hes using me for a while until he goes out with his x again...i wanna break up but i dont want him mad at me..any advice?? Thanks and sorry its so long!
[I. R a t e. e v e r y o n e] :)
so wat if he gets mad. hes an asshole that drinks duz drugs and hes only goin out w/ u for pleasure and not who u r. u deserve better and actuallly no1 deserves som1 like that. just dump him b4 he duz somthin that will upset u even more. and remeber this "It is not our abilities that show who we truly are.....it is our choices" choose wisley;)
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Hi!
Im the on e who has a problem about a mom paying $5.00 per less than 4 hours.
Im thinking everybody who answer my question really help, so thanks to every single one of you.
But what if im only 14, maybe she think that im only 14 that's why she need me to pay less than.
What should I do help.
hey im 14 too and i still get paid $30 for 4 hours so just bring this 2 the mothers attention and tell her that $5 is just not enough
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Hi!!! I need your help, Im baby sitting this boy for almost a year now before her mom paying a fare salary but now I kinda don't like the way she pays me, I let her do that twice but now I don't think it's fare for me her mom paying me $5.00 for at least 4 hours, and I think that is so unfair. The boy is fine but he kinda eat a a lot so I need to fed him, because I dont want him to starve you know.
Im afraid at talkiing to people, because maybe she will get mad.
What should I say to her.
Help me!!
thanks!
holy shit ur rite that is low. i usually get $40 for 4 hrs. just say like im charging 5 dollars an hour now. if they dont liike it then u shudnt babysitt 4 them. its not worth it if theyre under payin u.
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Alright...ok I've been talking to this guy who is 3 years older then me and well the both of us are too shy to ask the other to hang out...Should I Ask him? He is also best friends with my best friend's boyfriend...but then also there is another guy who is good friends with my best friend, he is closer to my age, but I haven't known him very long...so should I go for the guy who I've been talking to for 10 months or the new boy? Should i ask them out to hang out? (seperately of course)
u shud go 34 the one that u no better and trust more. age duznt matter that much. choose the rite one. o and remeber this" it is not our abilities that show what we truly r....it is our choices" choose wisley;)
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