Hey there I' Nicole Lynn Pietruszewski!!! I'm in 8th grade and go to Oltman Jr. High!! I play softball for Cottage Grove, Minnesota, and I'm having a blast just living my life one day at a time!! I hope you are too!! Well if you must know more about me, e-mail me or IM me!! Hope you have a great day!!! And I want you to know that i love yo help people out, I tend to know what people are going through, especaily girls, and I liek knwoing I amde someoens else's day...So ask away..ask anything..go ahead!! Here To Help...Nicole!
E-mail: Swtepie_05@msn.com
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Hey nicole! This is Katie F.!!! hehe But yeah so hows it going I was going through your thing and i think its really cool that your doing this for people and i agree youre really funnay! I have soo much fun with you in 3rd hour and 5th hour! But i better go now but just thought i would say hi! (link)
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Hey Baby Girl!! Thanks so much, I have lots and lots of fun during 3rd and 5th hour also, they woudldnt be the same without you!
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**Just want to thank everyone who responds to this. I know it's a long post and if you give me great advice, i WILL rate you HIGH**
There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(
-Crushin' (link)
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Well frist of all..going to a movie doesnt alwyas singal a date..so you guys could either jsut you two go, or go with some friends...and if you guys go, just think of it as a friends night out...and some tiem to get to know each other, and catch up and sutff..plus you dont need to rush into thinking about there being an "us" with you guys..play it by ear..i mean you can think about and everything, but maybe if he brings it up first then it would make it less stressful...i guess my advice is to just take the time to get to know each other more, and ahng out, and maybe call eahc other, so you cna tlak without other people ehairng...just play along with everyhtint as it happens...Good Luck...And Have fun...Let me know how thigns work out...
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im go to school with you and i love your personality. i really wanna be like you your kinda i dont know how to say it buit your kinda me role model every day im very quiet in most classes. but i just love who you are your always so outspoken and loud. i mean im like that at home but im no where close to that at school and i was wonderin if you had any tips for being more out going around people i dont know as well as my fanmily and best friends. i dont wanna be a impersinator i would just like some tips so that im not so self concious
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Wow..your very sweet...Anyways, to be hoenst with you, just be your self..i guess what i do is when i feel like saying soemthing i say it..as long as i know it isnt going to hurt someone else...and when i want to be funny i make a comment or joke, that also wont be hurting someone, cause jokes arent funny when there mean..anyways i wish yopu would tell me who you are...you dont have to tell me on here, but maybe at shcool, kay? Well only if you want to, and dont worry being shy is always somehting you can overcome, but dont forget your real freinds are gunna be real because you will be real around them, dont chgange yourself, be sure yourm happy with who you are...i hope i helped ya out...c ya later...
-Nicole-
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about four months now. We are both 15. I like him a lot and I thought he liked me too. For the first 2 months we were really close and we talked all the time... but now he hardly ever talks to me and when he does he doesn't ever seem like hes interested in what I have to say. I don't feel that we are that close anymore, and I don't know if I should dump him... (link)
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Well you dont have to dump him to fix this, maybe you shold jsut tlak to him about it, askki him whats going on, but go into the conversation with an open mind...let him know that all you want is for him to be happy, ask him whats wrogn, and if tehres anything you can do that will help him out, for all you know it coudl be anything that coudl be bugginh him, and it jsut could be effecting your relationship...anyways ask him what it is he wants out of you guys, i think maybe this will help, ive been in the situation before, but you are the one whoo chooses the ending, you have to approach everything the right way-->If its meant to me, it will happen
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Ok i know this guy online and he thinks im rich .I met him because he made this site called y terror and i went to it and ever since then we became good friends.Well to get to the point he is selling ALL his sites that he worked so hard @ to get money for a car and i dont even think he is using it for a car so i LIED i know i feel really bad now .. and i said i would give him the 800 dollors so he wouldnt have to sale his site now he thinks since i promised him i would send him money from western union that he will get it but the truth is when he goes the money wont be there because i dont have it either and when i lied and said ill give it to him he said
Thank you so much your really nice my mom kicked me out ( he is only 17 ) and i live in my buddy's attic and eat mac and cheese every night and then he said now i wont have to eat mac and cheese every night
i really want to be his friend but i cant tell him im not giving him the money so what do i do ??
p.s. he told my sister he wanted to go out with me (link)
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Well for one you may think you know this guy, but in the long run he coudl be some sorta creepo tryignt o get money from you, adn you should never give your money away to someone you dont really really know, even if you do have it, so just tell him you dont have the money, its better to be honest with him, even if it may be hard its the right thing to do, you never know what this guy could really be using teh money for, and im sure he will be jsut fine, dont let it make you feel bad, because its not your fault he's in the situation that he is, so jsut let him know the truth, and it might make you feel a little better. i hope i helped you, and let me know how things worked out!
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ok well im 13/m and i have feelings for my friend. The problem is that she has been going out with her boyfriend for a long time (year and like a month) andso i've been trying to be there for her and be her friend but now her and her bf are going through some rough times and she doesn't think he likes her anymore. I want to make a move but think that might be taking advantage of her and her situation. Should i go for it? Is it taking advantage of her current situatuion? (link)
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Umm well yes in a way, but instead of making a move, jsut let her know that you are there for her, and that you care about ehr feelings, and that you deserve the best, and sometieims jsut hearing those thigns will get her to start thining of other possibilites, and let her come to you, cause she wont be happy if you screw thigns up for her and her boyfriend, if they happen to work there thigns out, just let her know that your there and comfort her, and if she doesnt come to you then jsut give it time, you cant rush things, and sometiems thats a good thing, the wait could always make it better in the end, i really hope everything works out for you and her and the whole situation, jsut give it time, and paitnece, and try to handle thigns thinking about whats best for her, and not yourself, love is never selfish. Good Luck, and let me know how thigns turn out!
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my best friend and i have been like really close since freshmen year and now like everytime we want to do sumthing she always has to bring someone else along i mean sometimes i just want to hang with her like we used to because its no fun when the people she brings im not friends with and i end up getting ditched...i dont like it what should i do?????????? (link)
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OK, you have prolly heard this before, but you should talk to her, let her know you and her need to spend some time togother like "old times" and let her know that you kinda just wanna it to be you and her, try to find a nice way to put it so that she doesnt feel hurt though, and then maybe when yuo guys are hanging out you cna tell her whats on your mind!
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ok, theres this guy I LOVE. And, it doesn't seem like he likes me at alll...... So I'm VERY VERY VERY mad/sad. (We're not goin out though.) When I talk to him online he says "hey, brb". That's why I think he doesn't like me at all :/ Please, help me because it feels like my hearts being torn apart and stomped on. It's the worst feeling I've ever had and I want it to get better.....Thank you EVER so much for all of your help........ (link)
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I've had many of these feelings before, and yes it is the worste, but in a way you got it a lot better them I or some other had it, think of it this way, you love him, bbut he may not love you, you dont lose anything, but me and other have been in the situatuion were i love him and he loves me back, then all of a sudden one day he doesnt love me anymore, not only did i lose my first love but also my pride and strenght, and diginity, at least you still have all of that, and if it just doesnt work for you to then i guess it just isnt meant to be, you never know there might be someone out there thats in love with you, but you dont know it!! Give eveyone a chance! Hope I helped!!!
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should I be proud of what i am? (link)
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Yes you should!! you should always be proud of who you are and what you are, never should you ever feel ashamed or embarrressed!! And dont let anyone make you feel that way, you should always be your biggest hero!!!! I really hope i hlped, and if you need anything else let me know!
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My bf and i are 15 and weve been together for almost 7 months and he is quite self concious about his penis size it is quite small i told him it doesn't matter to me but he's still worried about it what can i do? (link)
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Well if you have already told him that it doesnt matter then he should belive you, try telling him that you arent in a relationship with him for his penis, but for the love you guys have for each other, and let him know becasue you love him his apperance doesnt matter. Thats what love is all about! Hope I helped!
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there this boy in my school who i have the biggest crush. Sometimes i think he likes me too but i can never truly tell. I want to ask him out but i am sooo scared of being rejected! but i mean i will never know unless i ask...right!! give me advice!! please help! (link)
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Yes!! You are right, and if the answer is no then (like i have said to someone else before) kick him in the balls and pray to God you dont trip while running away!! Good Luck!!!!
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ok.. my parents are getting divorced and i'm moving into a house in town. i've lived in the house i'm in for 10 years... is it normal for me to be feeling like this isn't real?? i feel like it's just a bad dream.. even though i know it's gonna happen
how can i tell my friends what's happening??
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Omi god!! ive been through the same thing b4, adn i was ten to, it didnt sink in until a week after i was actually in my new housem adn for a loooong time i never called it MY HOUSE, i refereed to it as the place i live in. weird but true, and i always said i woudl move back inot my my old house as soon as i can, but ive grown to love this house, but still it feels werid sometimes thinking about it, and it is normal when you have such a drastic change, just lookm at it as a positive thing, and a chance to learn and grow from, you never know there could be a cute boy next door! Lol! Hope I helped!
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I've been suffering from clinical depression for a few years, and recently started having panic attacks and mild hallucinations. The hallucinations are morbid (pools of blood, reaching hands, ect.) but clearly recognizable as they're so out of place. I don't want to see a psychologist or take medication. Is there a way to make your mind stay away from depressing thoughts or just clear it if things start getting hazy/weird? (link)
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You need help, you dont want to get yourself hurt or even dead, i know you dont want to see a doctor, but it will make things alot better, and it wont hurt anything, there only there to help, Im not sure you can exactly do that your self, making yourself forget or ingore thigns like this are only mkaing it worse, for your best intrest, get some help!! GOOD LUCK!!!
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(m/14)Ok, I'm going out with this girl, we've been going out for a little over a month now.. shes awesome, I like her a lot.. but unfortunately my parents don't. They really don't want me to have a girlfriend at all, especailly one like her they say. I mean she is a little wild sometimes, but I like that about her, but my parents don't. They want me to break up with her soon, and they're pressuring me to do it everyday. I want more of a long relationship with the girl.. but I don't want love. In my opinion, nothing good can come from love at this time in life. So do I stand up to my parents and tell them I won't break up with her?.. or take their advice and break up with her before this relationship turns into love? thanks (link)
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Your right, sometimes theres more hurt then good, when it comes to love, but if you love them its worth the pain......With that said, i would tell your paretns that they dont have to trust or like her, they have to trust you, and tell them you know your limits and wrong from right, and just let them know you got thigs under control, and make a point that you care about her, maybe not love her, but care about her, and if it does end turing into love, you wont regret it! Hope I helped!! And dont break her heart!! Tell me how thigns go!!!
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ok well I just found out that I was pregnant yesterday. I told my bf and all and he was really really really upset and he kept telling me that he wasnt ready for a baby right now. I am 15 and he is 16 and neither one of us are ready. He told me that his dad would make him drop out of school and get a full time job and all and i dont want that to happen. He was already in trouble with his parents because of his grades and all and went to see him yesterday but we just met in town when he got off of work and he wasnt suppose to. I wouldnt let him leave and when i finally did he was in a hurry and he it his cousins car cause she parked right behind him and didnt know she was there. now his dad took his truck from him and he is in trouble and he has to pay for her car by himself. I dont know what is goin to happen. I dont know what i should do. Should I break up with him so he wont have so much to worry about or what???? Someone plz help (link)
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Looks like you guys need to sit down and have a loooong talk not only with each other but also with his or your paretns, you need all the support you can get right now, this will be a very emotional next nine months, and if him and you both feel its right that break up for his benifit then do so, honestly do you feel like yiour guy's relationship will lead into the furture? Cause if you do, the do your best to work thigns out, but if you have the support from friends and family, and you feel emotionally strong enough to handle this without him then maybe it si time to let him go, and it doesnt mean he wont be there for you, and it doesnt mean he wont help you out {cause im assuming he has to do something} it just means he doesnt have to worry about even more things, it sounds like he is stressed as it isd, but really you guys need to talk befreo making any rational desicions, maybe he will want to help you, casue it is half his fault, and i dont know you guys or not, but he may love you, ya never know! I really hope I helped and good luck and God Bless you!
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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers... (link)
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Well this is really a matter of whats in your heart, and at our age its really hard to tell your sexualitly cause its all about exprimenting and finding all that out in the process, try thinking about what your beliefs are about both males and females, like what you think would be a better relationship, and if you think your are strong enough to go through all this dumb ass shit people put bi's and gays/lesbians through, but always remember to be true to yourself, and listen to your heart!!! I hope I helped let me know how thigns work out, and Good Luck!!! And if you need anyone I'm here!!
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well i had my friend talk to him about me and he asked the guy who he like and he said he didnt really like anyone adn the guy goes what about kayla shes cool as shit and he was like no i think of her more as a friend ... but i dont see him a lot like i dont usually ever hang out with just him and me so i think ill try it and see how it goes. i really do like him a lot he just needs to realize it lol. adn that whole kiss idea i was thinking about it already so thats just like a yeah go for it lol but thanks a whole bunch! (link)
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Your sooo welcome I really hope thigns work out because it sounds like a potentional relationship, me and my best freind tried going out once, it was great...i'll stop there though....Good Luck!
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will you marry me Nicole Lynn Pietruszewski
love,
the mystery (link)
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SHUT UP SHANE!!!!
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i no this may sound dorky but i have no clue how to make out with a guy. Do guys really like guys that have their tongues pierced? Because i do. And i was wondering... How old do u have to be b4 you know how to make out. Can you be any age to do that?
Like im a 15 year old male and my boyfriend doesnt like me for some odd reason!! I thought everything was ok. but i guess not. How can i make thing work between us again? I mean my boyfriend has his dick periced and i already suck it while i have my tongue pierced. He said it felt wonderful. And to me it did. THen he sucked mine. Then fingered me in the ass. But now he won't talk to me! Whats going on?
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Well, umm I've never had to deal with a problem such as this, but you let me get this straight, you have never made out with your boyfreind, but yet you have given him a blow job? And to anwer your question about how to make out and stuff, well you dont really have ot be any age at all, i mean its suppose to just come naturally, theres not much one person can tell you about how to do it, and really anything anyone tells you, you wont be thinking about when you do it cause nothing really runs through your mind, soo when it comes to techneique its all about thigns jsut happening! I really hope I helped and good luck!
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well ok i just broke up with my boyfriend after a month an i know thats not that long but like i think i made the BIGGEST mistake of my life!!! he tells me he still has feelings for me but i dont know if he really wants to be hurt again!! how should i tell him i wanna be with him still and tell him my feelings because he is so perfect in my eyes!!! how can i make this relationship keep going? Please HELP ME
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OK this one is easy, call him up or write him a note, and if he loves/likes you he will undersand....what you have to tell him is that you know you made a mistake but by doing that you have learned from it, realizing just how much you really need him, and how much he means to you, and how you know its the biggest mistake you could ever make, and that your sorry, and all you want is to be back in his arms, somehting along the lines of letting him know you care about him still, and saying you will do your best as to not be so silly the next time, adn you really want thigsn to work, and that if you guys give it another try then it could possibly make your relationship stronger!!! Hope you know what your doing now, and i know what your feeling, ive been through it millions of times before! sadly enough!! well lots of luck!!
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