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I met this really cool guy at a party a couple of weeks ago and we had like everything in common. He seemed a little bit interested in me that night, but it was hard to tell. He got my screen name from my friend and he IMed me and said he wanted to do something that weekend. Plans didn't really seem to work out 2 weeks in a row. He definatly seemed interested like a week ago and he kept trying to see me. I kept telling myself not to get too hooked on the guy because I just met him and I need to get to know what he's like. Plus I didn't want to get hurt if things didn't work out. So my friends asked if he liked me and he said he wasn't sure because he doesn't really know me, but that I'm an amazing girl. So naturally being a girl, I plan out this whole relationship in my head not being able to control myself. The past week we haven't talked much and when we have he didn't seem to still be interested at all. He didn't say anything about maybe doing something this weekend, which he normally would've done at this point. I'm sooo mad at myself for falling for him because now I'm feeling really sad about the whole thing. I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years and I've been searching for someone, but I didn't like anyone until I found him. Do you think he still likes me and I'm just reading too into it? And am I crazy for being so obsessive? Like maybe he's just busy this weekend or something... I don't know, but I'm confused and I just want to get over it! (link)
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Talk to him. Tell him how you feel maybe he is scared and guys get scared too. So just tell him how you feel and ask how he feels
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I have liked this guy for ages over a year and nearly all my friends have dated him. I think one still likes him. I have a strict policy not to date guys my friends liked, have liked or have dated. So I ask should I ask him out or stick to my policy?? Ps I am no glamour model
Thanx (link)
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Umm Well if you really like him I see no reason why you can't date him you know? Your friends have all done it but maybe talk to them first about it
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My heart is broken. My friends do not speak to me. People at school believe I won't fight back. What do I do when nothign is right anymore? It is impossible to be myself. This world is full critics. You think this is overreacting? You're wrong. I don't know how I go from day to day. All eyes that land on me judge me for what I look like. Well, that is completely incorrect. If only you could hear what they say. It does not make me depressed, It is not the people out there, but in my own home which make me weep at night. My own parents! People accuse me of witchcraft, drugs, cutting, and stealing(among other things that don't even cross my mind). How would you feel if everyone you thought loved you, began to look on you with pity and disgust. It's unbearable! What should I do? My nights are dark, but my days are even darker.
Signed-
Longing for the Stars (link)
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First I'm sorry and no I don't think you are overreactting because the same things basically happen to me. I don't know how I stay here. But I think I must have a reason to be and even though my life is so messed up it makes me stronger and Im guessing it making me stronger for a reason for something in the future. Have you tried telling them how you feel? Just don't worry about them. Everything will be okay in the end trust me.
-Everything will be okay in the end..If it's not okay then it's not the end.-
Good Luck
Adriauna
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ok well i have a boy singing partner, and we spend alot of time together, and well my boyfriend thinks i like him. and hes all mad at me because, well, i had to kiss my partner for this song, and my boyfriend didnt know that it was part of the song and he got really mad. (link)
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Well if he won't believe you then you don't need him. Maybe just resurre him that he is the one you like and the one you are with. That you have no feelings for your singing partner and that the kiss was just a kiss it meant nothing to you unless it did. Dont lie to him but tell him straight up how you feel and stuff.
Good Luck
Adriauna
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Ok, this might be kind of long but here goes...I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months, and we are really getting on eachothers nerves, we fight over little things a lot and its getting old. He's always by my side and following me, hes really clingingy and hes just getting annoying. Don't get me wrong, he is the best boyfriend I have ever had--literally--and the longest relationship, but I just want to be friends right now. I don't want any boyfriend at all, but I have issues with breaking up with people. I don't like to hurt people's feelings I hate makeing people feel bad or cry, and I need some ideas as to how I could break up with him, but let him know I still love him, we still have a very big chance, I just need a break and want to be friends for awhile?
I rate high to answers that don't offend or piss me off.
Thanks for you help. (link)
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There is really no easy way to do this. You just have to tell him how it is straight up no lying or anything. I am the same way I hate hurting people but sometimes you have to do things like that. Don't beat around the bush you have to tell him because the longer you wait the worse it will be. Good Luck
Adriauna
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Hello!! I hope ya'll can help me! I'm sorr its so long but its a long story!! Okay here is my scenario. My birthday was at the end of January, and my boyfriend had already been planning our Valentine's date. He asked me if it would be alright if he gave me my birthday gift along with my Valentine's gift because it would make it easier on him, so of course i told him yes. Well, On Saturday (which was our Valentine's day because i had to work Monday) he took me to dinner, then he blindfolded me and took me to... a hotel. BUT before you judge, it was very romantic. He had his friends come and light the candles he had set up EVERYWHERE and rosepedals, the whole deal. And we had planned to have sex for our first time, not necessarily then but we had stopped ourselves a couple of times because we wanted to wiat until it would be special. Which this was. Okay, well moving on, besides all of this, he didn't get me like flowers or a bear or even a card. I spent like $70 on him with gifts and whatnot. But i wasn't too mad because i assumed he had sent me a carnation at school (Our school has sales where you can buy a carnation for someone for V-Day and writea message and then we got them on Monday 9*) Well i of course sent him one, and i waited but he never sent me one. I went to his house after work and i brought over peanut butter heart shaped cookies (His fav!) and still nothing. This made me really mad because he didn't even get me a stinkin carnation!! I got pretty upset and left. Now am i overreacting? I mean he did spend money on me but i'm the type of person who appreciates little things like a flower or a box of choc, he didn't have to go buy a hotel or anything, i just wanted a carnation :( Lol, AND he still hasn't given me anything for my birthday!! Shouldi be mad? (link)
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In my eyes you have every right to be mad but then again maybe you don't I mean I don't know you or your boyfriend but maybe you should talk to him about it you know? tell him how you feel before you get really mad and when you are in a fight or w/e something you dont mean and ruin everything you know? hope i helped
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Im going to my school dance tonight and I got this strapless dress and it has glitter all over it and at the top, it has glitter on it too. So when I wear the dress, the glitter scratches against my skin and I have very sensitive skin so my skin turns red around there. I've tried putting lotion on it, scraping the glitter off, I can't think of anything else and I need help ASAP. If anyone has any tips on how I could deal with it or get the glitter off fast(its on that dress pretty good. I tried using a steak knife and it took a while to get some off) I'd really appreciate it. Thanks so much (link)
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Just wear like a slip or something under it
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There's these really cute kids in my neighboring town, Dan and I don't know the other one's name. I went to see my mom to get stuff for dinner, there my age and so sweet. Is it wrong to like them? (link)
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No there is nothing wrong with liking them
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I don't want to be just cool with this guy that I really like. I want to be more than friends, but I don't know where to start. It's usually not that hard for me to talk to somebody. But he really makes me weak and when I try to talk to him, the words won't come out right. I don't know how to tell him. Because if I'm the only one feelin, he might not want to talk to me anymore. I don't know if I only feel that way. I think he likes me, but I'm not sure. How can I tell him how I feel with out wreckin our friendship? (link)
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Sweetie,
OMG It sounds like you are in love *but don't tell him that you just might scare* But do tell him that you have feelings for him. Write a letter to him explaining everything and it may make things wierd for a coupld of days but that's it..Just you have to be open with him and hope that he feels the same
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Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o) (link)
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That would be cute! The orange or a light pink!
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(17 yr old female)so theres this guy i really like. Hes my best friends cousin. She set him up with me one day over christmas break and we hooked up...well we just made out. His mom found out and got really mad and said that if he ever talked to me he would get grounded. Ive tried a couple of times since then to get togeather with him but it just never seems to work out. Hes and awesome guy and i know that he likes me alot. What should i do, should i keep at it or just forget about the whole thing? (link)
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Get your man sweetie! Trust me I was in the same thing with my ex for the last two years!! My ex's parents did not want us to talk or see each other so if they found out he was on the phone with me he would be grounded from only talking to me on the phone...so it really sucked but they finally dont care now...so just hang in there
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i love to cook but i cant because i have a game to go to and i want to go to a cooking compittion of my friends but my other friend has a cheer game that she wants me to go to they both asked me to go at the same time so i dont know what to do there both fighting over whos im going to go to plz help fom bree (link)
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That's really hard. Maybe go to one and then next time go to the other you know? Because your friend will more than likely have another cheer game so maybe go to your friends cooking compittion and then next time go to your friends cheer game...or go half the time to one thing and half the time to the other
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I'm 16 and in high school. Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up at the beginning of September. I had broken up with him because I wanted to be with someone else. It didn't work between us and I have been single for quite awhile. I really like this guy that I know, but recently me and my ex have been spending alot of time on the phone. I don't like him as a boyfriend anymore cause I like someone else. My ex flirts with me and calls me all the time. I try not to be mean or anything but I don't like him like that anymore. I have a feeling that he might ask me out again. I don't know how to tell him that I like someone else. What should I do? Please help me.
~Confused Chica~ (link)
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~Confused Chica~,
The only thing you can do is tell him straight up how you feel. By not telling him you may be leading him on and you don't want to do that do you? If you ever still want to be friends with your ex leading him on may make him hate you..
Hope I have helped
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I'v been doing the whole secret admirer thing for a day or so now. I think that this girl knows its me doing it. Should I just play it off and continue with the plan or should I just forget it and go for it. (link)
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I think you should keep being her secert admirer for a little while longer and maybe come out on Valentine's Day and ask her to be your girl..Hope I helped
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my boyfriend and me have been together for 6 months...we love eachother alot...and are a really happy couple...but lately i dont know...hes been really weird...all his friends have turned on him and now their telling me hes cheating on me...i dont know if its because their just trying to get back at him and take me away from him or if its true..ive asked him and he promises me that he would never do that and stuff and i seriously cant picture him cheating on me..ever...what do i do?? i dont know who to believe anymore... :( (link)
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if you really believe you bf then believe him..but you gotta remember guys tell girls alot of lies an ex or mine told me the same thing but he ended up cheating me..so follow ur heart sweetie
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sorry, didn't know what category to put this in. i get really bad razor burn/ bikini bumps. i get razor burn on my legs too but they go away and the ones on my bikini area don't! i use shaving cream and a fresh razor blade (venus) and i put on lotion and neolsporen (sp?) when i'm done but its still not going away! so my question is:
a) how can i make it go away now
b) how can i prevent it in the future
c) will waxing or somehting else help... or hurt?
thanks! i RATE HIGH! (link)
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Man you have the same questions as me! I don't know what to do either..Maybe try asking your mom
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My exboyfriend and I have been hanging out. We're the closest you can be without being together. Valentine's Day is coming up, should I get him something because we have feelings for each other, or should I just leave it alone since we're not together? (link)
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If you guys are really close without dating and having feeling for each other I don't know what would be work with getting him something. I'm planning on getting my ex something because we are really close.
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I seem to be the only one around me who is either single or just dwelling on the oh so popular topic of love. I know we arent ment to love anyone at this age, but two of my best friends constantly talk about maybe coming close to that feeling. I wish I could feel empathy for them... But truly I cannot. This is because I always get stuck with guys I dont really care about. I try waiting and staying single, so when the right guy comes along I can like him and become close to that guy. But I cannot have patience anymore! Please try and help... (link)
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You can fall in love at any age!! I did at 12..anyways sweetie just wait thats all you can do and a crush grows into like and like grows into love...just wait it all you can do
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I have been sexually active for almost 6 months abd I want to be put on the pill. My parents dont know im having sex. I hate using condoms.. so we just make sure he pulls out. I have a few Questions.
A. How much does it cost?
B. How much do they give you at one time?
C. How can I get it without my parents knowing im gettin it? Like a place you can go without parental permission.
Thanks sooo much! (link)
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Go to planned parenthood I think you can get it there..Btw Sweetie even thought he pulls out you can still get pregnant precum or w/e can get you pregnant faster than him just normally cuming in you... and getting on the pill wont save you either if you get on the pill make sure you still use condoms because you will be safer that way
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i met this kid though my friend friday night we hung out i thought he was really hot and all that good stuff saturday night me and my friend got invited to this party she bet me 5 bucks that i would hook up with him. i did. we kissed a few times at the party he told me wow i wasnt expecting this to happen and then asked if i had a boyfriend i said no do you have a girlfriend he said technically yes but no i never see her because im not aloud to. later that night we went to his house and we all stayed the night there we kissed some more i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend what should i do? (link)
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Break it off until she is out of the picture and you know for sure she is out of the picture. Even though they never see each other and she is moving doesnt mean a damn thing he is still HER boyfriend. Sweetie put yourself in her shoes how would you like it if you were her and found that out...
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