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I've tried to download AIM on my laptop, seriously, about 9 times now, & everytime I try to sign on, it says The AIM Service Can Not Be Reached.

And a couple of times that I've tried, it says that there were errors during the download.

Does anyone know what the problem is?

..its still not working. could something be stopping it?

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you know the song gold digger by jamie fox and kanye west? well i know this sounds stupid, but what is a gold digger?

A woman who is only after a man for his money and sometimes sex.

Ex. - Anna Nicole Smith with that guy who had old wrinkly balls. XD

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Ok so I've known this guy (we'll call him Jay) for about 3-4 months now and I reallllyy like him!! And one of his friends told me the other night that he liked me too and was wondering if I was feeling the same. And Jay asks for hugs from me alot and he really sqeezes me hard and he won't let go for a long time, you know? but I don't know if he's for real or if he's just doing this..and the other thing is his girlfriend from 3 years ago is around him alot..and he dosen't really talk to her but shes REALLy pretty..and he still might like her. maybe not. And today I was really mean to him because I didnt' know how to react to him liking me you know? no hugs, yelled and him, and yea i really regret it now. but i need help on what to do!! i rate 5's!!

Dude, cupcakes. Its the way to go.

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Recently me(14f) and my boyfriend(15m) broke up. We had plans to go to homecoming together, and everything so now that we are broken up I pretty much have NO date for homecoming, I do know a few people that like me... But I don't think any of them would want to go to homecoming on such short notice, but my friend wants me to go with their (her and her boyfriend) group of people including his extremely hot single brother, that thinks i am "Beautifully Stunning" so do i just see if he wants to go with me or sit this homecoming out? Please help xo

When you say BOYfriend, I think it's pretty clear it's going to be a male..You have two choices:

Sit it out and become an anti-social loser.

Or

Go to homecoming and possibly enhance your social statis because you're going with this 'extremely hot single brother'.



You choose.
Hm, I wonder which one you'll pick.. :\

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OK there is this boy who rides my bus & we are always fighting & picking!! I have one class with him & during the class when i have like nothing to do i am always looking & him! I wanna keep telling myself i dont like him but does all of this mean that i do?

You are always looking and him?

It doesn't mean that you like him. It means you're ignorant. :]

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You know how most girls like dating guys that are older than them. Some girls at my school like dating younger guys. And I was just wondering how many years apart do you think is 'too old' or 'too young' to date?

-13/f if your wondering

-Sorry I didn't know what to put this under.

Too old - 54 years.
Too young - 12 years.

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Does anyone know a free anger management therapy in clearwater, FL?

Yeah. It's on Main Street two stop lights past the deli.

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Ok well me and my friends hang out in a group of four. None of us can buy costumes anymore, so we need a good Halloween costume for four people. Can you give me some ideas? We need all the time we can get to put together stuff. We have makeup, but we don't know what to use it for, we have normal clothes in the closet, old Halloween costume parts, and maybe some acsessories. Please help.

You have make up and don't know what to use it for? I use mine for snacks when I get hungry.

Jesus..

Be hobos. It's the best way to go. Inexpensive, comfortable, and dead sexy. The guys will be all over you. And it really draws them in when you smell like a 3 month old carton of milk. It drives them wild. :]

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***** first of all i rate 5's unless the advice RLY sux!!!*****

OMG! IM TIRED OF THIS! okay this guy a rly like, well i rly like him and so i asked his best friend ( my cousin) who he liked and he didnt like anyone so he told this guy and now he knows! and my bestest friend chel made a deal with him that she would tell him who she liked but he couldnt tell anyone or else he would have to go out with me! So if he asks me ( if he tells someone ofcourse) should i say yes? i mean i rly rly like him but i rly dont wanna go out if he doesnt like me! Thats my first question and my second one is well how do i attract him and other guys? ive only had one boyfriend in my whole life and im in 7th grade... what do i do!?!?!?

How about.. Learn to spell? Use puncuation? Write sentences?

You're in seventh grade - The relationship won't last. I wouldn't even bother. :]

And I'm a freshman, 15, and I've never had a boyfriend. Stop whining. The world is not going to come to an end because you're 13 and have never had a boyfriend. LYK OMGZz!

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ok i`m a qood cheerleader.. like i`m on an allstar team but my jumps suck wicked bad. like i`m extremlly flexable and can do both spilts att the way down and i can do a bow and arrow and i`m the most flexable on my team. but my jumps suck. how cna i make them better besides just practicning? thx

HAHA. You have the NERVE to call me stupid when you can't spell. That makes such perfect sense. Dumbass. Here's some real advice: Fuck off.

Do you have proof that I am a faggoty-fatass? NO? Didn't think so. (And PS. I'm not. =])

And saying that I have no friends.. Where did you come up with that? Run out of ideas in your tiny, tiny brain? One-too many brain-farts?

* And just so you know, when you make fun of other people and point out their imperfections, you're trying to draw attention to others so people won't notice your flaws.. =\ *

..Yeah, I'm afraid you're wrong. And ignorant.

-Oh yeah. If you're a cheerleader, WHY NOT ASK YOUR CHEERLEADING COACH, GENIUS.

Go die in a hole.

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hey is von dutch still in style? because i have a hoodie but i dont know if i should still wear it even tho its brand new ... and oh how about uggs? because i read in a magazine they totally arent but a lot of people in school wear them!

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OK this is for people who have maybe recently gone to a my chemical romance concert.

I'm going to one soon and I was wondering if you can bring a desposable camera? thanks!

I soo fucking wanted to go to them, but they were sold out thanks to all these f'in little people who like two songs. They killed it for the rest of us. Lucky.

But - Most of the time, they dont let you bring a camera inside. Desposable cameras suck anyway. I just use my camera phone. ( It was the whole reason I got one. :] )

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ok heres the situation..my parents said i can only get a cat if i can find a place for the litter box so my puppy wont get into it when nobodys home. i cant think of anyplace to put it, any suggestions?

If you have a screened backporch, you can put it there. Thats what we did with my two cats because my dog kept trying to eat the crap. Haha. Put it some place high up or in a laundry room.
♥ Brooke

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hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?

BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer.

I wouldn't say 'retarded' but..

I would tell the guy that it wasn't entirely their fault. I mean, they can't MAKE YOU pick up the phone and ask him out..You're the one who did it and you should take part in the blame. But maybe this kid is some physco freak - And in that case, tell the person who dared you wants happening.
♥ Brooke

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15/f *Ohhkay, so i have this amazing guy..but we're just reallly good friends."with benifits" I love him and i know he loves me and we've been talking about "doing it" i know we are both ready, and we will def use protection. But my question is..do you think if we actaully do it..we wil end up going out? I mean,I would love to go out with him, and ive always wanted to.
So do you guys think if we do it that theres a possibility that he may like me more than a friend?!

Thanks so much guys/I'll rate HIGH!! ;)

-kristen

"Friends with benefits" is never a good thing and you shouldn't sleep with a guy for the first time because you want to be with him. And if he keeps putting on the idea about friends with benefits, it will only go that far.
♥ Brooke

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okay i have this guy friend that i'm really close to. were always playing w/each other but is it flirting? like today on IM he said "omg you looked so HOT today! j/p" and i said "yeah you too ;-)" but i mean is he flirting w/me??? were pretty open w/each other and everything. but he asked my bff out and she turned him down and i don't think he's quite over her... is this flirting? thanks

He's flirting but uses 'jk' as a cover up because he doesn't know what your reaction would be. Maybe he's just shy to tell you how he really feels about you.
♥ Brooke

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PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I've been invited to a pool party, but the problem is that i've got to wear a bikini and i've noticed some fairly noticable hair on my chest and stomach and it's on ym back aswell. You can see it in the light and when it gets wet, it's REALLY noticable. Does anyone know what to do????? I will rate 5s for good advice.

P.S. I can't wear a costume, i haven't got one and it's too late to go and buy one now!!!!

If you shave it, it'll only grow back thicker and darker and become even more noticable. Try bleaching it or use Nair.
♥ Brooke

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I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do?

If she makes you feel that low, I'd think she isn't really a friend. But maybe she's not doing it on purpose and thats just her personality. Just tell her what she says and does hurts you and your self esteem and that if she doesn't stop, your friendship is over. If she's a good friend, and an ACTUAL friend, she'll lighten up and listen.
♥ Brooke

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Does anyone know any good books about like girls who are about 13 or up?

The Bean Trees
Walk Two Moons
Pretty much all books by Lois Duncan
The True Meaning of Cleavage
Izzy Willy Nilly
The Notebook - Its a little different from the movie
The Crucible

Hope I helped!
♥ Brooke

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AHH i burned my head with my straightener and i need to get something that will make the scar go away or fade drasticly...its a white spot on the tip top of my forehead! quick! school starts in like 4 days!

Haha. Dumbass. Get some neosporin.
♥ Brooke

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