Hey, my name is Kate. I am from New York. I am a totally open and outgoing person. I love to make people laugh, and make people feel better. I am always (well most of the time) in a good mood. I can look at the bright side of things in any situation. ;)
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Location: New York
Age: 14
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i was considering going on birth control, and i was woundering what the side affects are, and what the pros and cons are of being on it...
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Different Birth Control has different symptoms. I recommend Yaz, because it works well and there aren't as many symptoms. Plus you get shorter, lighter periods. ;)
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I met this guy last weekend at a place where everyone in my town hang out. we hit it off really well and started dating a couple days later. everything was going really great but then i found out from a few friends i have in the grade above that he did ectasy oxy cotton ect. i definetley am not into drugs, i called him and told him i never wanted to see him ever again. he started crying and said i havent cried this much since my mom died of coursr i felt awful so i agreed to have him drive over to my house and we could talk i told him that i thought we rushed into going out and that i couldnt be with somebody who does drugs i want to be a dancer in high school and i cant be associated with drugs. he also told people that we were going to have sex on our one month anniversary. which made me furious because im not like that to know a guy for like 5 days and agree to that. i broke up with him and now hes threatning to kill two of my friends that told me that he did drugs. hes physco..he drives past my house twice a day and it freaks me out he says we will be together no matter what and he'll stop at nothing to get me even if he has to hurt people that we are meant to be together im really scared and i dont know what to do. (link)
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I am so sorry, and I understand. That has to be so scary for you. What I would do is tell someone. People say crazy stuff all the time, and there are special kinds of people that specialize in the kind of help you need. You should report him definitely. And you shouldn't go out with someone if you only know them for a couple of days. You should get to know them first. IF you don't then thats when you end up in situations like this. Good luck, and sorry if I couldn't help.
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what does everyone think are good baby names for a boy and a girl. give as many as u want. thanks to all!! (link)
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For girls:
Victoria (I like tori for short, not vicky)
Jenelle (pronounce like juh-nell)
Nevaeh (Heaven spelled backwards)
Skylar
Ava
Corryn
Madison
For boys:
Joshua (love that name so much)
Jayson
Justin
Micheal
Cameron
Hope i helped ;)
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I was wondering what running shoes are best to run the track with.
I have Nike Shox, but they really hurt my legs when I run the track with them. However, they are good for running on concrete, like a bike trail. I also have other Nike shoes, but they offer no support. I've heard that asics are good to run in. Should I get them? Or should I get another brand?
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I would definitely go with the Asics. They are so comfortable and I've had mine for like, almost two years. They are so awesome. I used to have nike shox too but i had the same prob as u. But yea i'd go with the Asics. ;)
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I have to get up at 6:00 A.M for high school... In your opinion, is it better to shower the night before, or when you wake up? Because, I have P.E...and when I take a shower, I preferably wash my hair. So, which way do you do it? This is a really weird question LOL (link)
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I have a lot of hair, and when i sleep it gets all messy. So i like to take a shower in the morning, because i style it the way i like. So i would shower in the morning. Hope i help. ;)
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ok so like people always say you cant get STDs if you havent been sexually active unless you were born with them, but like is that really common to be born with STDs or is it rare? if your parents had any are you gaurenteed to have them also? (link)
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If your parents have an STD while giving birth to you, the chances are very high that the child will get it too. But your not guarunteed to have them. Good Luck. ;)
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ok so i had sex earlier today around noon and ever since i've had cramps in my abdomen and it especially hurts when i pee. is this normal? (link)
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Not to scare you, but this can mean a few things. Either one, you're pregnant. Two, ask your partner if they have a disease, because that could be dangerous. And if you are virgin before this, then its common to have abdomanal pain. Good luck. ;)
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I am a 14yearold girl with a bazillion guy friends. ok maybe like 10 and only 2 gal friends. Some people think i am weird but i honestly feel more comfortable around guys. These guys are not the hunky-hunky-baywatch guys they are more the nerdyish-computer-advanced classes-bandgeek guys. Now i have to tell you that i am much like them besides the computer part. Everyone else besides my friends talk about me and my gal friends and think that we are gay because we hang around guys. and that we are "nerdy girly girl virgins". I hear them talking down the halls and in the classroom and at lunch.
But now that summer has come i have mostly forgot about besides the fact the Drivers Ed. came up and i am now constaly reminded. It drives me crazy.
Should i drop my guy friends or what?
HELP ME PLEASE!!!! (link)
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NO!! You shouldn't give what people think about you. If it gets to you, just brush it off. Its not right to ditch your friends because of a bunch of people who aren't even worth it. Screw them, and tell them to get over it. Just like me and my only girl friend. We hang out with like, all guys. Dont worry about what other people think. But if you feel more comfortable with the guys, then why ditch them? ;)
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OK this is the situation i broke up with my bf we hadn't been going out long. This girl in my class had liked him all the time we had been going out and about 2 days after we broke up she asked him out (which is really lame!)He said yes and they are going out now should i be angry that it had been only 2 days since we had broken up or should i get over it?
Please help!!!
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If you broke up with him, then u shouldnt b jealous at all. Don't get mad. When you break up with someone, you have no role in their life any more, so get over it. Good luck. ;)
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Also, what does it mean when someone has medium texture?
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You know how a horse's tail is? Thick and straight. Well thats what coarse is. As for medium, its kinda thick, but also can be wavy, or curly. Good luck ;)
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I feel like drinking BLEACH
So, my best friend got this IM from this random guy, so I added him on my buddylist thinking I would just IM him later to see who he is... and stuff.
And so, I IMed him today, and we started talking and he doesn't go to my high school and everything, and he seemed nice and all. Then my ex boyfriend, my best friend, and my other friend that went to school with him said that he was really weird, and he's just not my type. He always gets turned down, and I feel terrible. He asked me out on a date and I said yeah, because I didn't want to be like NO, I mean, what the heck, I just met this guy and he's asking me out?! I just don't know what to do. I'd feel way too bad just being like NO, and stuff.. I can't do things like that.
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If you've never met this guy, and you're going on a date with him, that could be really dangerous. Any one can lie about there age. You don't know me, and if i told you i was 25, or 52 you'd probably believe me. And if you've seen his picture or whatever, it's just as easy to go online on google or something and get a picture. So i wouldn't trust him. Good luck. ;)
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hey i'm a guy hust wondering what kind of hair girls might like- long, short, spiky, whatever. Just say what you would like thanx! (link)
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As a girl, i personally like guys with the "Surfer/skateboarder" look. Its hot. Like kinda long, that hangs down by your chin. Not exactly like hippie style, but not short. And most girls dont like mohawks, so try to stay away from that. good luck. ;)
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ok i know this sounds a little weird and its going to be long and i'm sorry about it.
for the longest time, i have been in love with Daniel Radcliffe. now i know that you think that i cant be i love with him because ive never meet him, but im pretty sure that i really love him. well ive thought about it, and i realized that im never going to be able to be with him. hes going to find another woman that he wants to be with, and im going to be alone. i never realized that im not the only woman on earth that likes him, and hes going to choose someone else. now the chances of me meeting him and us becoming friends and falling in love are like 1 to 5 trillion. and i FINALLY realize, that im never going to have him. i know that your going to say " its just a normal teenage obsession, you'll get over it" or " you cant really love him because you've never meet him "thats what everyone says. ive thought about other guys that i know, and i dont feel that way about ANY of them. I'm stuck on Daniel. can you please give me any adivce that you think will help me?
thanks to everyone!
Shelby (link)
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sorry but you answered your own question. just do this make a list of all the things you like about him if you really like him you'll have about 25 things then think about how you'll never meet him and some other lucky girl will get him. now burn the list along with your thoughts your day will come!!!
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my dog had to be put down a couple days ago. I can't get over it. what shall I do? (link)
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i'm so sorry! it is perfectly normal to feel this way this only means you loved it and you will never leave him he is in your heart. stay strong.
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Does this symbolize or mean anything?/What do you think it symbolizes?
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi181.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fx13%2FLittleAbyss%2Froseheart.jpg&searchTerm=heart%20and%20rose&pageOffset=19 (link)
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I think it means Love Hurts. Both the rose and the heart are a symbol of love, but them going against each other and the heart bleeding kinda says love hurts. ;)
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its on the radio alot it goes something like
i still hear your voice.....
then its like
everytime we touch... something
i reach the sky
do any oneee knowww (link)
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Lucky you that is one of my fave. songs. Its "every time we touch" by Cascada. It goes like "I still hear your voice when you sleep next to me i still feel your touch in my dreams..." Then the chorus is like "And every time we touch, if feel the static and every time we kiss i swear i can fly. Cant you feel my heart beat fast i want this to last, need you by my side..." Something like that? Hope I could help. ;)
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http://a96.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/61/l_3b76362dca6f9333ebec2db66f88982f.jpg
whats that mean? (link)
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Well if you find out let me know ;)
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If you ask someone out, and they say no, what do you do next?
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If you ask some one out, and you REALLY like them then you just say something like "Ok, well maybe we could be friends" That's what i'd do. And maybe if you start hanging out more, the person may start to like you. And you might be surprised and get asked out by them. Good luck ;)
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ok Im not annerxic ill eat if i want to im just not hungry. Im not like completly i just dont eat everything i see. My friends are worried and so is my friend Josh who i like and i told him im not so dont worrie so he took me out to eat with his family and i ate a salad and some of joshs fries and when i got back to there house he literally forced me to eat icecream qith him and i was So sick afterwards. So i dont eat as much? Who cares? ok everyone but i wanna see my toes im 14 and weigh 203 thats not normal i dont wanna be atwig but i dont wanna be called an elephant either. (link)
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You should understand that they're your friends and they have a right to be totally worried about you. You may want to be a little more active, or eat healthier instead of less, but you shouldn't care about how you look. No, 203 lbs for a 14 yr old is NOT healthy, so go on a diet. Or because you're not hungry, just eat around you're friends, and then when they leave, stop eating. I'm sorry. Good Luck ;)
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14/f. My bf is coming to visit me in august and he is also 14 and we were thinking about having sex. and we really want to and he's the kind of guy i could see myself spending the rest of my life with sense we've been dating for about 9 months. But i really dont wanna take the chance of getting pregnant. What should i do? i no we would use a condom. so dont tell me that. Am i too young? i dont think i am but some ppl do. HELP!! (link)
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I honestly think 14 is WAY too young to even be thinking about that kind of thing. I wouldn't. And 9 months isn't even that long to be dating. Im 14 too, and its really dangerous with all of the STD's and stuff out there. Just be concerned about yourself. And sex shouldn't be planned. Youre 14. No offense, but i doubt you will spend the rest of your life with him. Good Luck. ;)
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