I am a 14yearold girl with a bazillion guy friends. ok maybe like 10 and only 2 gal friends. Some people think i am weird but i honestly feel more comfortable around guys. These guys are not the hunky-hunky-baywatch guys they are more the nerdyish-computer-advanced classes-bandgeek guys. Now i have to tell you that i am much like them besides the computer part. Everyone else besides my friends talk about me and my gal friends and think that we are gay because we hang around guys. and that we are "nerdy girly girl virgins". I hear them talking down the halls and in the classroom and at lunch.
But now that summer has come i have mostly forgot about besides the fact the Drivers Ed. came up and i am now constaly reminded. It drives me crazy.
Should i drop my guy friends or what?
HELP ME PLEASE!!!!
Mr_Skittles answered Friday July 13 2007, 5:13 am: You should never drop your friends based on outside opinions.
Ignore the sluts who fuck every guy that moves in the hallway. What they're calling you would be an extreme opposite of what they are. They're most likely the kind that go to a party, get trashed, bone that "kinda cute guy" or get double teamed and every guy after hearing that is after her.
You're young, being a virgin isn't an insult, it's a choice. Ignore that completely as it holds no water as an insult.
Just smile and think about the fact that they have more STDs than Ron Jeremy could have accumulated his entire career. (I exaggerated just a bit there, but I'm sure you get what I mean) [ Mr_Skittles's advice column | Ask Mr_Skittles A Question ]
amberbritt answered Thursday July 12 2007, 9:11 pm: no you shouldent do that to your guy firends i would just stop hanging out with them that much just barly hang out with them not as much as you did and make more friends [ amberbritt's advice column | Ask amberbritt A Question ]
Redbloof answered Thursday July 12 2007, 8:48 pm: Boss up and tell the people who are making fun of you to stop and give them a reason.. or you could just beat the crap out of them.. dont drop your guy friends because that will make them feel sad [ Redbloof's advice column | Ask Redbloof A Question ]
LiTTLEGiRLBLUE answered Thursday July 12 2007, 8:48 pm: No, I say you don't srop your guy friends. You're friends with them for a reason. You shouldn't care what people think about them or you. Some of them might be jealous that they aren't that close with their guy friends. So yes, don't drop your friends just because people talk. [ LiTTLEGiRLBLUE's advice column | Ask LiTTLEGiRLBLUE A Question ]
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