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I sing and dance I'm actually a dance teacher.
E-mail: DirtJumperKelley19@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Westminster Maryland
Occupation: Student, dance teacher
Age: 17
AIM: DirtJumperKelley
Member Since: May 7, 2006
Answers: 27
Last Update: May 22, 2006
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first of all i am gay and have two frends a girl called lets call her "annie" and a male frend called "calum"

i like the girl cause we have known each other since forever and shes nice

but the guy is super hot and i have a feelinbg he likes me im not sure tho the only problem is they hate each othe and i dont know which one to go with
i like have a relaxing time with the girl but i need to have some weird guy time with the guy what do i do (link)
Hey if i were you I'd talk to the girl to see how she'd feel if you went with the guy...hope that works

Kelley


okay so i heard my boyfriend cheated on me recently and i'm not sure if its true. i talked to my boyfriend and he told me it wasn't true that the girl people say he cheated on me with has been trying to break us up since we first started going out (i know this) so i just brushed it off and dropped it since i have cheated on him myself. there's a possiblity its true but lately ive been SO paranoid about him cheating on me, alotta girls talk to him and whatnot and i can't trust him. i don't know what to do.. he know's im really paranoid about him cheating on me but i dont think he knows i dont trust him. i dont want him to think that either. what do i do and is there anything i can do to stop worrying so much about him cheating on me? (link)
You can't really trust guys now a days, because they'll say they weren't cheating on you..then you'll see them with some other girl. If I were you I'd sit him down and talk to him.

Hope that works.

XoXo
Kt


okay well i weigh around 117 pounds and im about, 5'4. I am turning 15 this year. I am convinced that im fat, i hate myself for it too, i watch what i eat 24/7 and even though people tell me im not, i still feel that i am. I am probley one of the most self concious people. so i guess im asking about what i should weigh (link)
Why care about how much you weigh? Be happy with yourself. I mean come on everyone wants to weigh 99 pounds, that's going to be impossible. just be happy with what you got ok? Hope that works.


my grandma has been smoking for many, many years and sometimes when i think about it it makes me cry. nothing has happened to her yet and i always say to myself "nothing bad has happened to her yet but its just a matter of time and why should she wait" everytime she is with me i ask her why wont she stop and i give her things suggestions but she always says "tried it". how can i get her to really stop? one of my grandmothers already died I DONT WANT HER TO ALSO! (link)
Have you talked to her about it? I mean if it worries you that much then talk to her.


Ok so i am in a huge band and i am one of the dancers. When i came to the band everyone warned me about this certain guy and i dunno how it happend but he pulled me in. I totally feel for him, i dotn even know how, i knew that is i did he would want sex, and the day it happend i knew it was going to happen. But i dont understand how i let it happen. Since when i went over to his house i knew what was going to happen i lied to him and told him i was on drugs. Cause he is a huge drug addict, which is bad since i have got into drugs laitly and i am trying to quit.

anyways to the point he kept asking me and asking me finally i got mad anough and i just said ok, we used a condom and everything then we had sex. it hurt so much and i cnat believe i did it. After that i went on the pill just to be safe. But he didn't talk to me for 2 months after
it broke my heart.

now we han gout again and stuff and we talk and everyting what is srsly wrong wiht me|?
why would i even speak to him after all that.? (link)
Maybe because you still have feelings for him? I mean did he force you to having sex?


Okay so like 2 days ago i had this dream and i just wanted to ask u guys what you think it means! sorry if its too long
The people in my dream were me,my best friend, and the kid that i sorta like but ive never actually talked to him before i just see him in the halls and his myspace so i dont even know if he knows who i am but i do catch him looking at me once in a while so yeah...
Well anyways in my dream me and my best friend were at this like big cafeteria place and our whole school was their and my best friend went to go tie her shoe and i waited for her so i put both my hands on this pole like around it and then the guy i like comes over and he goes and ties his shoe so he puts his hands over mine and i felt them but i kept them their for like 2 seconds and i got one of my hands off and i tried pulling my other one under his and he smiled and kept it their and hes like uhh sorry then he started talking to us but i dont remember what we said l-o-l but yeah and like everytime he gets a new picture on myspace and i see it i get rly hott and shaky l-o-l? does this mean i rly like him or wat?! Ill rate high (link)
hun im in your shoes!!! haha id say your in love with him!! if you see him next time i would go up to him and ask him if you two can talk...need any more help come back to me im a good listner!!! Take care

K


is there any thing that makes your hair grow faster?
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Cut split ends every full moon it helps alot...


do you have to be a certain age to buy them?
i live in VA (link)
Actually that's what everyone believes, I think for my opinion that people shouldn't like buy them at the age of 14 because that's disgusting. But it's up to you!!!

~Kelley~


totally random question, I know..but howcome you can always tell when a note is written by a girl/boy, I mean it's pretty obvious when it's a girl, cause we write more..bubbly? I dont know, but you get it right..? Like howcome all girls write pretty similar, bubbly and compact, and..well..girly. Like us girls, we write in more "round" forms, and guys write more squared, straight..you know what I'm saying?

WHY is that??

Is it something in the brain we're born with?
Cause it obviously has something to do with gender.. (link)
Knowing it's a guys hand writings when he writes really sloppy...Girls hand writings are always nice and better (sorry guys) haha but anyways hope that helped...

Kelley


My mom thinks I'm to young to date, ?I'm 13/f. How can I get her to think I'm responsible to date now? She said I have to wait until I'm 16!!!!!! (link)
Hun I'd listen to your parents, now a days you can't trust guys because they say there in love with you...then you say your in love with them!!! It turns out that the guy will probably hurt you, guys will get there way into your life so they can do whatever it takes to break your heart!!! Trust me I've had experience on this....I'm 17 and a female...hun I'd take my advice and listen to your parents I didn't start dating until 16. Take care.


i have an iPod video 30 gb, and i was wondering how you get photos into the ipod, i have seen people with like 100 pictures in there ipod and slideshows, i dont know where to load them on the itunes screen since there is no folder in itunes that says photos just on the actual iPod. someone help? or give a website with instructions (link)
I think you have to download them to your computer, I don't have an ipod but my friend does. Then you have to put those in a file then go to itunes.


like me and tess always talk and she always tells me she likes me and i asked her out today and she said no and im like wtf?!? you say you like me but you wont go out with me and i think its cuz im black but i dont wanna say anything to make her get mad because im in luv with her. Help

*names have been changed (link)
Hey alright you being black has nothing to do with the situation..maybe she likes you but doesn't want to ruin things between you too. Maybe she likes you but already has a boyfriend...Just talk to her.

Much Love,
Kelley


ok i am 13 female and the first time i got my period was in october of 2005! the thing is that i was masturbating when it came on and i thought it was my period ( the 1st one i ever had). then it didnt come back for a really long time now it May and it hasnt really came on. 2 days ago i say a little blood but it was only the size of a nickel and it stopped 10 minutes after. was that my period? also when i was masturbating did i pop my cherry? it didnt hurt and it bled for 2 days. then i never saw it again. i havent had sex at all ever so i know its not anything like that. please help me!
i rate high for good answers. (link)
Alright well let me just say what I think, I think your masturbating at a young age....I don't even know why people masterbate because it only makes them look stupid...but anyways your 13 hun go out and have fun, be with friends, party and go live your life. You really don't need to masterbate because to me girls who masterbate are sluts...I mean that's my opinion!!! Cya


I'm taking my dog to get put down on Friday. She has cancer and is really sick. I've had her for 10 years and it's going to be really devastating. I don't know how I'm going to handle it. Has anyone else had a pet put down, how did you get over it? What's it going to feel like, no one close to me has ever died before! (link)
Hi it's really tough after a while, but knowing our animals are in a better place with great friends is a good thing to know. Remember the memories you've had with your dog, I lost my dog who my mom bought me when I was 5 at the age of 14 and it was hard..Ask the person if you can have some alone time with your dog, and just pray to the Lord. Your in my prayers.

Kelley


does anyone know if it is illeagal for a 17yr old to date anyone younger than 17 without their parents consent in new york state???
thanx a bunch (link)
Well it depends if you have sex with him...then it's illegal...


Hey, I was just wondering, I walked 2 miles today, at a normal pace, could i have lost a pound from doing that? (link)
Yeah it's possible you could loose a pound or more...I hope I helped :-)


alright so im one of those girls who LOVES to always wear their hair up..well lately ive really been wanting to wear my hair down b.c i want to get this one guys attetion..but yah but when i put it down its always too wavy or curly!! how do i make it so it will look like normal down?! thanks!! i will rate!! (link)
Hey use a hair straightner they make your hair straight and soft!!!!


My hair is natuarally straight, and thick. shoulder length. how can i make it wavy sometimes? (link)
Two ways to do it you can go to a shop and get it down professionally, or you can use a curling iron...


Is there an age that women reach and they'll stop getting their period? (link)
Well there different ages when you start so the youngest age probably won't get done there period until there probably in there 50s


What causes the ugly red spots that show up when you shave your legs and are there alllll the time? Its really gross and ugly looking.
Anyone got any advice on how to reduce the noticeability of them or even make them go away?

I tried lotion but.. that only lasts so long and definately doesnt make them GO AWAY.

Is it just irritated skin? (link)
What red spots? I shave my legs and have never had them before...

Kelley




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