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okay so i heard my boyfriend cheated on me recently and i'm not sure if its true. i talked to my boyfriend and he told me it wasn't true that the girl people say he cheated on me with has been trying to break us up since we first started going out (i know this) so i just brushed it off and dropped it since i have cheated on him myself. there's a possiblity its true but lately ive been SO paranoid about him cheating on me, alotta girls talk to him and whatnot and i can't trust him. i don't know what to do.. he know's im really paranoid about him cheating on me but i dont think he knows i dont trust him. i dont want him to think that either. what do i do and is there anything i can do to stop worrying so much about him cheating on me?
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You can't really trust guys now a days, because they'll say they weren't cheating on you..then you'll see them with some other girl. If I were you I'd sit him down and talk to him.
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I have to agree with what xcandycrush said.She is right those girls could just be friends.Now,to trust him is a whole different thing.If you feel he is cheating on you,and that he is not telling you the truth then maybe you could ask him,why he has so many girlfriends in stead of guy friends.If he gets mad at this then just use a different approuch.Tell him that you do not feel close to him,and you feel not as important as you should in a relationship.If he really loves you,and doesn't want to lose you then he will understand.Good luck,
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you have to ask yourself if the person you heard this from is a reliable source. would you believe anything this person says? are they honest and do they want what is best for you? if that is the case, then they could be telling the truth, but if not, then it could just be a lie.
you also have to ask yourself how much this relationship means to you and him. you cheated on him once already, so do you really want to be with him? do you think he likes you enough and cares for the relationship to the point where he won't do such a thing to you? if you have doubts, then you should consider ending the relationship for the time being.
you asked him about the cheating and he denied it. you should be able to trust him, because if you don't have trust in a relationship then you don't have anything. have you told him you cheated? sit down and have a heart to heart with him. tell him what you did, and tell him that if he cheated on you you would rather know now than find out later if it is true. both of you should spill all your secrets, because that will make your relationship stronger. vow to never keep anything from one another. if the talk goes well and you are both sensere and want to make things work, you can deffinitely do it. but if you still have doubts an d can't trust him, ask yourself if it is worth it! let me know if you need more help! good luck :)
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if you cheated and you think he has you dont have a good relantionship and aer both looking for something more.. i think you should serously consider breakin up with him b4 he does.
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