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Well,i'm a very sweet,and nice person.I love to give advice and help people anyway I can.I am 5'5 and I have short brown hair,brown eyes,and I love to make new friends.If you have any Q's or need advice please just ask.Everything is confidential and very privite.Thanks and God bless,
Kara
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okay so i heard my boyfriend cheated on me recently and i'm not sure if its true. i talked to my boyfriend and he told me it wasn't true that the girl people say he cheated on me with has been trying to break us up since we first started going out (i know this) so i just brushed it off and dropped it since i have cheated on him myself. there's a possiblity its true but lately ive been SO paranoid about him cheating on me, alotta girls talk to him and whatnot and i can't trust him. i don't know what to do.. he know's im really paranoid about him cheating on me but i dont think he knows i dont trust him. i dont want him to think that either. what do i do and is there anything i can do to stop worrying so much about him cheating on me? (link)
I have to agree with what xcandycrush said.She is right those girls could just be friends.Now,to trust him is a whole different thing.If you feel he is cheating on you,and that he is not telling you the truth then maybe you could ask him,why he has so many girlfriends in stead of guy friends.If he gets mad at this then just use a different approuch.Tell him that you do not feel close to him,and you feel not as important as you should in a relationship.If he really loves you,and doesn't want to lose you then he will understand.Good luck,

-KH


okay well i weigh around 117 pounds and im about, 5'4. I am turning 15 this year. I am convinced that im fat, i hate myself for it too, i watch what i eat 24/7 and even though people tell me im not, i still feel that i am. I am probley one of the most self concious people. so i guess im asking about what i should weigh (link)
Hi there.I couldn't help but read your question and it really made me think.I have been self-concious about my weight many times.I mean who doesn't??I am forteen too and I weigh about 119.Now,I tried going on a diet and that didn't work.All of my friends said that I wasn't fat,but I still felt like I was.So then I started skipping every other meal,and gradully the weight came off.But then I started getting these really bad headaches.Then one day in PE I just fainted.I was brought to the hostiptal and force fed.The docter said that I had been skipping my meals and that that wasnt healthy.I really scared all of my friends,and family.And I decided that I was at the right weight level I was suppose to be at my age.So,yes I believe that your at your right weight level.But,if you think your fat,then I would suggest exciesing more,maybe even going to the Gym and few times a week.But other then that,your weight sounds pretty normal to me!So Good Luck!

Kara

Yes,I did.But I went back to my orginal weight.And that was the weight I was suppose to be at.117 for your age is normal.But like I said before if you still feel fat after reading my answers then you should try exercising more,and maybe going to the Gym occasinally.Maybe even running in the morning.But to me your weight is where it's suppose to be,and if you think your fat just excerise more!It will build muscules,and make you healthy in the process.If you have anymore Q's please just ask and I will help the best I can.

God bless,
-KH




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