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i got a new sn it is no longer lildevildri666 it is violetkisses24.... if you need my advice you can im me there! THANKS ... Love To All!!

~*+*Adriana*+*~

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Hey all i have AIM 5.9... Well the other day i was sitting here and everything was fine working great then all of a sudden my buddylist names disappear but the little notebooks/cellphone icons were still showing.. so it turns out i had to change my font from century gothic to tahome so i could see. well that was problem one.
Problem two now whenever my friends talk to me it looks like this:
Me: Hey whats up?
Friend:
Me: what?
Friend:
and so on its reallly annoying and i dont know how to fix it! so if someone could pleeeeeease help me id luv you forever! thanks i rate 5s

OMIGOSH this exact thing happened to me except everyone got mad at me and blocked me, but You have to change your font color. Some people cant read your font... You can sure see it but it always comes out different on your buddys computer... so i would change it to a white backgound and a sort of dark colored font...


~*+*Adriana*+*~

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recently, ive been cutting. i cut because i have so much emotional pain, it relieves me when i cut. it makes me forget all about my emotional pain because i focus on the physical pain. well, just this morning, i found myself thinking of suicide. this afternoon during health class too. We were talking about cutting in health class today and i just wanted to die. i was so uncomfortable. only 2 people knew about me cutting in my health class besides me but i still wanted to die. I dont have a boyfriend. I dont think im pretty enough to. My life is fucked up. no one cares about me. my parents are never home and when they are, they just yell at me. They always fight too. But the thing is, i wouldnt trade my life for anybody elses. its the way that i know life. I wouldnt trade it. and im serious. I wore a belly shirt to school a few days ago. Bad choice. some people saw my cut i made on my stomach and they said stuff to me. No one understands me. They think that i have the ideal life and they even tell me that. i dont. every one thinks i am perfect (or have to be) becuase my dad is a pastor of a small hick church... which i hate. I dont believe that shit. w/e. i wanted to stop cutting until today. i did it again today. its just a bad habit. any suggestions? anything anyone wants to say to me?? yes i have contemplated suicide. several times.

Well actually cutting never helps you can get seriously hurt from doing it my friend does it ... So I will tell you the same thing i told my friend...listen to music that will make you happier, talk to your friends and have a good time,Or better yet to try and enjoy life ..to read between the lines of life, dont just look at things and think they are something you have to get to know it first.... (if you know what I mean), but also talk to your parents and tell them to stop fighting... Usually almost all cutting and suicide habbits start with parents and boyfriend problems... just talk to them about it.... Hope I Helped!

~*+*Adriana*+*~

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How do you get text to scroll across the screen? Like say I typed:
I ♥ iCEP0PS!
I want that to scroll across the screen.
Thanks if you can help!

I found this site for like myspace and your own websites and it shows you howw to make things go across the screen, change colors, go back and forth like a bouncy ball, All sorts of cool things... go here
http://whateverlife.com/myspacebasics.php

but if you dont want to go to the site and you just want it to scroll you do this

Your text goes here


~*+*Adriana*+*~

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So I am pretty much head over heels for this guy. I made an an ass out of myself, but I told him he was a total hottie. I've been wayy too nervous to talk to him. Whats something that I can talk to him about? Sorry, this is kinda hard to put into words. He is friends with my neighboor and might come over this weekend. Any sugesstions of what I could do?
Thanks in advance.
All answers get a 5 =]

you can talk to this guy about the weather... how school is going...just anything your interested into talk about.... and when he comes over to see your neighbor, you can ask to go like get something to eat or you guys can watch a movie all together... Hope I helped A little...


~*+*Adriana*+*~

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Okay I'm 13/f and I have liked this one guy scince last year. Me and my one friend talked to him about it. He said that I'm prude and weird to my friend and when I asked him about it he said that He loves me and never would say that. Then he asked if I could give him a hand Job. At first I said sure but I didn't really feel like doing it becuase I was neruves. After that he asked my friend if I would let him eat me out and let him finger me. Then my friend asked me if I would and I said I dunno and she told him IDK[I odn't know] and then he asked if I would give him head[blow job]. I wanna do this stuff to him. Like I've fingured my self before and like I want him to do it. I'm just kinda worried. Would he like it shaved. Would he like me after. Should I do it?
13/f

I don't think you should do it because you arent really old enough too yet, you shouldnt have sex or do any of that stuff because like you are supposed to be marry to do that....


~*+*Adriana*+*~

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how long should someone wait to have have sex(are b.f. and g.f.)

My mom and Dad say never have sex with someone until you are married....(always listen to your parents:D hehe)


~*+*Adriana*+*~

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Ok I have brown eyes that have a little bit of green splash to them. Well all my friends say it looks really pretty because its not quite hazel or brown. They usually can't see the green unless they look closely or look at them in the sunlight. I have a lot of eye makeup but I can't find any that will make the hazel show up more in my eyes from far away. Any ideas? thanx. I RATE.

I have green eyes with some blue in them and usually I use Black eyeliner it brings my eyes out so maybe if you use black eyeliner it will do the same


~*+*Adriana*+*~

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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had.

well first of all never kill yourself over a boy...WORST thing to do EVER, but like I think he thinks your his booty call or something and you are sooooo to good for him he will soon have nobody and you will have all the hotter boys asking you out lol He shouldnt have called you a b**** I wouldn't fuss over that boy... if things get worse IM me ok...lildevildri666

~*+*Adriana*+*~

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I know this sounds really weird, but is it normal to have a little crush on a character in a movie? Not the actor, but the character. Because, I have no idea why, but I kind of have a crush on the Phantom from "Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom..." I don't know why. Maybe it's because he's so dramatic, you really feel for him, has a great voice, and/or the unmasked side of his face is goodlooking. Is this pathetic?

It is sooo normal lol I love Johnny Depps Character in the movie and tons of other people like the character in the movie and not the actor who plays it... and I mean TONS .... so it is not wierd at all lol


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Well this guy, he asked me out and then we dated, for a week and a half, until i kind of thought he was getting closer to my friend, Emma.I talked to him on msn and asked him if he liked her, but he didnt say anything and then i go "Look i dont care about anything, all i want to know is do you still love me?" and he goes "Look there is no point, you have lost my trust what more can you lose?" and i go "I just want to know Do you like Emma?" and he said "Im sorry i cannot go out with you anymore." and he dumped me. Then next week, he blocked me and deleted me on msn..oh and he looks at me alot in class. We were playing volleyball in sport, and he would look at me alot and yeah. My other friend is in his roll call class and she said he looked upset in roll call class after he dumped me..Please help!! and also he is a goth

OO lala Goth boys are SOOO cute lol but anyway he sounds mean to me but hmmmmmmmmm I don't think you should talk to him unless he talks to you first and says I am sorry for acting all weird and blocking you...


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Last month, I was kinda into this guy and I kinda thought he was into me. The more I talked to him, the more into him I got and I thought the same for him. Everday for 3 weeks, he'd call me at night and we'd stay on the phone for 2 hours, just talking, and i liked how close we got within a couple of weeks. Eventually, he told me that he liked me and I admitted I liked him, too, but it didn't change a thing. He still called me, we stilled talked. A week later, he told me that he was thinking about when he was gonna ask me out. I was really excited...the next day (Thursday), he called again as usual. Friday, he didn't call me. Saturday, again he didn't call me. And then on Sunday I finally caught him online and he apologized for not calling because he was too busy. On Monday he was kinda weird and he didn't call me, and I told my friends I thought he didn't like me, but they told me not to worry about it so I shrugged it off. Then on Tuesday he avoided me completely. He didn't walk me to class, he didn't talk at ALL. After school, me and my friends were hanging out and he had basketball practice, so my friend decided to talk to him about "us." And he told her he didn't like me anymore. The next day he again, was being distant, so I called him up and asked him why he was avoiding me, why he didn't call me or anything, and he said, "Because I lost interest in you." I thought that was a lame excuse, he told me we should just be friends....bbut I'm confused as to what happened? Because jsut a week before he was thinking about asking me out, how did he change his mind so fast?

One reason is because...this is kinda stupid but, before he mentioned to me that he didn't want a girlfriend right now because XBOX360 was coming out.....and he's getting it next week? so that might've been a prime reason.

honestly though, he wanted to be friends but...he's not even trying. he's avoiding me. and he's all i think about.

WOw I am sorry for you but sometimes things just don't work out. Maybe he is avoiding you also because maybe one of your friends told a little secret and he doesnt want to be around you or something but I would talk to him again and say like how can we be friends if you keep on avoiding me.... hope I helped

~*+*Dri*+*~

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hello i need advice should i not like d.a.???

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lol Im sorry but what is D.A.

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This guy that I'd been seeing just bought his first house. He makes about 4000 dollars a month. He also owns a nice trailer and bronco. But the thing is, although he has quite a bit of money he is still very cheap with me. For instance he told me not to phone him on his cell unless it was after 6. He was also complaining about how much money the moving company was going to charge him for moving his furniture to his new house ( and took it out on me). All in fact he ever talks about is his money, or how much things cost him. He also makes snide remarks about MY financial situation, because I rent an appartment and don't have that much money. I do have my own car that's all paid for but I don't think that impresses him too much. I also got a job that pays minimum wage but I don't think he likes that either.
I'm beginning to think he cares more about money than me.
Should I dump him? Or is this normal behavior?

He doesnt sound like bf material to me... He sounds more like Mr. Krabs from Spongebob Squarepants.... but like if I were you I wouldn't stay with him, I would want a bf who cares about me as much as I care about him.. (if you know what I mean)... Hope I helped..


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okay, well i think i kinda like this guy. i mean sometimes he can be really mean and everything.. but i just feel like hes the kind of guy that when your alone with him he would be so sweet and kind.. i want to be with him so bad! i dont know what to do or say when im around him, i mean how should i flirt with him what should i do?

Just be yourself and flirt a little like laugh and smile and twirl your hair... that sort of stuff..


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how do i know if a guy likes me? i mean, i luvvvv him soso much and he's like...perfect. but tonight he started telling me that he likes this girl and he wants to be with her soso bad and he doesn't know what to do. being an advice conumnist, i gave him my best advice, but it hurt so bad because I want to be with him. what do i do? should i tell him?

well maybe you are that girl that he likes and he wants you to think it is someone else so don't be to sure of it just yet ok... but like you can tell if someone likes you buy there eyes it is told to be that their pupils enlarge when they see something they like.. I hope it works out between you two..


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i cut myself and i hate it so much i dont know hwo to stop it is so addictive and i dotn talk to peopel who reayl understand how i feel im scared because me and my mom are best friends and i tell her everything but ever since i started getting realy upset and cutting myself i find it hard to tell her anything i know she is worried btu she has o clue i am cutting myself my realy close firend nows that i cut myself with a rubber band i told her becasue i wanted to see what she said btu she asked if i have ever REALY cut myslef adn i lied to her i just want to be happy and no depressed thanxs i hope you can help

Never cut youself.. I know how you feel, I used to do it and than everyone stopped being my friend and I was lonely and Then one boy came along and gave me confidence to stop and everything and I go over his house and all that stuff but like I have scars still but That one person made me stop so maybe you need a friend to boost your confidence so my sn is LilDevilDri666


~*+*Dri*+*~

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theres this guy.. and i think he likes me. how do i turn him on?

Flirt with him... hug him, twirl your hair... laugh and smile and everything just be a big flirt


~*+*Dri*+*~

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I had this friend who I've known since I was 7. Now it feels like she doesnt care about me AT ALL and has moved on to bigger and better things. The thing is that she moved away when she was 8 and we still live far away from eachother. Last month we were still friends, but shes changing, hiding things from me, and not the girl she used to be. I try talking to her, and shes telling me that I'm the one trying to start a fight and stuff like that, and meanwhile, I'm trying to fix it! I dont know what to do!!!

Well some friendships you can't fix... your friend is probably moving on and stuff but, I don't know.. keep trying to work stuff out with her Good Luck!


~*+*Dri*+*~

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i make/embellish my own clothes.. and yes.. sometimes they look really cute!!! im afraid if i wear them people will make fun of me.. my quesion is should i wear them to school or not?
answer this question to get a 5!

DUDE.... If I made my own clothes I would so wear them to school and even if people make fun of you just say to them... well at least I can make my own clthes better than you can or something lol

~*+*Dri*+*~

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ok i always feel like i'm comparing myself to this girl at my school, shes soo pretty and she has an amazing bf. She has the cutest clothes and she is just really really pretty and i always try to be as skinny as her or as athletic and i always compare myself to her and i don't know what to do to stop myself b/c this is not me at all and i need helpp quick i'll rate 5s for any thoughts!

Ok well I am just saying to be your self because you never know who likes you for you and not the person you try to act like... always be yourself and you never know... that girl you are immatating... may want to be like you too....


~*+*Dri*+*~

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