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what happened?
Last month, I was kinda into this guy and I kinda thought he was into me. The more I talked to him, the more into him I got and I thought the same for him. Everday for 3 weeks, he'd call me at night and we'd stay on the phone for 2 hours, just talking, and i liked how close we got within a couple of weeks. Eventually, he told me that he liked me and I admitted I liked him, too, but it didn't change a thing. He still called me, we stilled talked. A week later, he told me that he was thinking about when he was gonna ask me out. I was really excited...the next day (Thursday), he called again as usual. Friday, he didn't call me. Saturday, again he didn't call me. And then on Sunday I finally caught him online and he apologized for not calling because he was too busy. On Monday he was kinda weird and he didn't call me, and I told my friends I thought he didn't like me, but they told me not to worry about it so I shrugged it off. Then on Tuesday he avoided me completely. He didn't walk me to class, he didn't talk at ALL. After school, me and my friends were hanging out and he had basketball practice, so my friend decided to talk to him about "us." And he told her he didn't like me anymore. The next day he again, was being distant, so I called him up and asked him why he was avoiding me, why he didn't call me or anything, and he said, "Because I lost interest in you." I thought that was a lame excuse, he told me we should just be friends....bbut I'm confused as to what happened? Because jsut a week before he was thinking about asking me out, how did he change his mind so fast?
One reason is because...this is kinda stupid but, before he mentioned to me that he didn't want a girlfriend right now because XBOX360 was coming out.....and he's getting it next week? so that might've been a prime reason.
honestly though, he wanted to be friends but...he's not even trying. he's avoiding me. and he's all i think about.
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Dear What Happend,
He probly is just really scared to be in a close realationship and wants to wait a little.If you catch him with another girl don't sweat it tell him to his face he is a fat liar and just wanted someone else.Ask why that someone else wasn't you and take the stand, walk away and find yourself a new man!!
Signed,
Chantsy
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WOw I am sorry for you but sometimes things just don't work out. Maybe he is avoiding you also because maybe one of your friends told a little secret and he doesnt want to be around you or something but I would talk to him again and say like how can we be friends if you keep on avoiding me.... hope I helped
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