hey everyone im here to give any advice to anyone. i guess im good at giving advice cuz all my friends tell me i am so yea. im going to be honest but not like mean honest----unless you personally ask me mal questions. im going to really try my best at helping you guyz and hope you consider what i have to say (unless you can figure stuff out on your own) lol jp but please if your having troubles ask away.
love ya
xo0xo0xo Christine13
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I know i'm a dumb ass cause I don't do anything about it really... and this moral thing seems like an excuse. LIke everyone else I carry on with my life ignoring these things. These things i'm talking about are the people constantly dying around the world. Mainly all the bastards killing people, rapists... pedophiles, robbers, thieves, molestors, child-killers... parents who beat their child for no reason, people who harm other people for no reason... ugh these people, I want them all dead and I also ask why God would allow such an evil to exist as this kind. My answer to this is what i've heard before, God does not interfere in our lives, he cannot perform miracles all the time and just come down and slay all those people. So therefor God created everything and merely watches us, and when we die, we return to him. So I continue to thank my blessings and all the good thigns and good people in the world, but i've stopped really believing if I pray to God for good things or to help the O-zone layer or enlighten people it will happen. What's the point, he cannot interfere in our lives, he chooses not to and its understandable considering he's God. Anyways-- my morals are breaking. I find myself going crazy especially those bastards that make my life miserable. In my high school and grade school there were these people that constantly tormented me for no reason, even made me snap and start getting violent in grade school... then burst out in tears on my first day in a new school, new city. I'm believing to not give a shit about whether what I do is wrong or not, i'm tired of this fuckign bullshit about jail or w/e i'll kill the cops then myself for all I care as long as I take down my enemies and as much of those wretched bastards in the world. I know i'm possibly not capable of such a thing as this mass murder, i'm not that strong, but seriously i'm going crazy with all this shit and all these social problems, friends backstabbing, relationships gone wrong, physical illness is consuming my life as well now and possibly cancer, but that's an uncertainty. I don't want to die with a frown, and hating the world which has destroyed me. My family knows nothing because everyday im smiling and happy, my true friends know nothing because im always smiling and happy. Im the energetic bastard that runs around like he is on crack, willing to try new things and cracking up jokes 24/7 yet it hurts so fucking much especailly the fact that i'm unable to truly trust people. This girl.. I can't get into a relationship with her, I want to, but everytime I think about it I always feel wrong. My dreams, if involve her, I remembre them all they usually involve us being together and her cheating on me, or something happening of that sort. I cannot rest in peace and it would be best if I had no exist because this is just killing me so much, it hurts, it hurts so. Yet I cannot kill myself, for one reason and one reason only, not only have I not made up to my family whom I love and cherish as my treasure. I haven't done so well in school, of lack of motivation and sheer laziness but that's changing slwoly. I want to impress my family, live up to their kindness and efforts to raise a good successful child, and make them proud and happy before they meet their end. To make money and settle any fees they have and just make their lives good, to have children and hope they do not share the same wretched fate as me. Oh woes me, I am wretched in the inside, my mind? It dreams of death and perverted incidents with some of my friends whom I care about and want to be with yet I cannot bring myself to admit my liking to them. Destroy me, free me, yet if that is so I will never be able to repay my family for being the only people who I can assure trust in. If they were to fail me as well.. I don't know what I'd do. (link)
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i would say that this problem is common with people and your not alone. But i do believe in ying and yong, meaning that for every good there is a bad and for every bad there is a good. I belive that God put everybody on this Earth for a reason and that this is part of his plan for us. have you ever heard of pandoras box/Adam and Eve? that would help too. Also, you must act on what you pray for and help the people you feel badly twards, dont just sit there at home and wish for the best, go out and help others
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YOU FINALLY GOT IT WAS ME!!!!
HAHAH i have been putting little clues in the things and u still didntg et it! or maybe u were just fooling me! whoooi knows!
hahahhaah
no im not pregent!
i miss you ! (link)
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ohkay whats your question?
HAHAH lol just playin
yea w/e i miss you to
w/e
yea w/e i do what iwwaant
peace out my nigga!
oh and j.Miller says "hEy"
(NO SHE DIDNT!!)
yes she did
bring me back some jelly beans!!!
how many you ask!?
.........................schifity-five!!!!!!!!!!!!
MeH!!..hehe
and were clear
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thanks that was a lot of help CHRISTINE13
i will ask her all those questions 2night for sure! but since im in OHIO i cant really call her on my cell because if cost to much money!
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i say spend the damn money and call your lonely friend.
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by any chanse is Christine ur name from ur church? i wanna go to a church cause the one i go to it has every1 from like my neighborhood even the paser lives down the street from me..........and like there is this guy who use to go there right? and like he doesnt go anymore because his gf (a girl scout) broke up wit him so he doesnt and then all this stuff soooooooooo
(find out yet?) (link)
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find out what? lol what is your question?!
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thanks that was a lot of help CHRISTINE13
i will ask her all those questions 2night for sure! but since im in OHIO i cant really call her on my cell because if cost to much money!
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oooo shoot! o well babycakes n boo
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since i was with my bf for a long time i did have sex wit him. and he got me pregnet. im just gonna make this situation the best. im thinking about nameing me baby Marissa Buenice, or Emily Elizebeth. im not sure what do u think. (link)
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ahahah great names but who is this?! im guessing maybe like amanda or lily or marci....??
O AND YOUR PREGNANT!?
wait a tic.......no your not....!!??
well if you are....my bets are on amanda...
HAH!! lol jpjpjpjp
but you had better call
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i think my best friend thinks im changeing and not being my old self. i mean if i am i dont want to and i guess i dont mean to but i dont want her to think that i dont wanna hnag out wit her or anything. but when we are with my other friend it seems like she doesnt even want to hnag out wit me anymore. when she calls my house or call she always asked to talk 2 my other friend it kind of hurts my feeling and i dont kno how to say anythihng to her cause it seems llike she wouldnt care
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man girl this has happend to me too. i feel your anger and pissed-off-ness and i know how it hurts our feelings. when she calls tel her. if she asks for your friend say "why dont you wanna talk to me?" she'll say something and you should say "you knwo you do this alot ad it hurts my feelings" or something like that. tell her how you feel and say "did you just call me to talk to -----blank---??" you should hang out with ehr alone and just talk one on one with her. tell her whats on your mind and about the phone call thing.
aaww good luck hunnny.
xo0xo0x0ox0xo0xoo Christine13
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see i have this frind..she is my BEST FRIEND! and i went on vacation to like EGYPE and i havnt ever been away from her for like more then a week be4 well last summer she left me and went to NY FOREVER and i was about to die! and i miss her teribaly ok well help me fix my problem
THANKS (link)
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o0okay well you can write notes to her by leters or maybe talk on the internet...or phone. get phone cards if you have a cell phone or if she does. do you have other friends? lol chill with them for a while until you see eachother again or maybe just hang with family and get to know eachther better. :)
have fun and stay in touch with her.
xo0xox0ox0oxo0xo Christine13
p.s man egypt?! sweeeeet. :)
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I have a friend who hangs out with me when we are in class and since we have a locker right next to eachother she hangs out with me. But when she is around certain "friends" she acts really mean to mean and ignores me. Sometimes I feel like i'm not her friend and sometimes i feel like we are best friends, What should I do?
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hey a bite for a bite right? when you 2 are "close" and talking like best buds...ignore her. give her a taste of her own poison. if she comes to you and says "why are you ignoring me" tell her why. say "hey you do this to me too hun" maybe it will make you closer, or maybe she will get the picture and back off. if she has no-one she will obviously be a kiss-up. dont take it..you dont need that and if she backs off shell have no-one. when she kisses up act like the queen she is treating you like. be like mmhmm and maybe even roll your eyes. be honest though if she asks. the last thing you need is an enemy. be nice but not over the edge nice.
good luck hunny
xo0xox0o0xo0x0xo Christine13
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ok so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend its not like i need one but all of my friends have had atleast one everyone tells me that i dont make it odvious enough so how do i make it odvious in a way that doesnt seem needy or pathetic i also want some advice on how to flirt not just generic stuff but really in depth please help!!!
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o0okay im good at this lol
first of all make sure you dress cute,smell nice, maybe even make-up if you want (dont overdue it guyz dont like that) o0o and make sure your hair is nice. up means more sophisticated and sexy, down means wild and spontaneous, whichever is more you. next make sure you knwo what to say. ask him what are his interests and dislikes. if anything sad comes along (story-wise) touch his arm and sound sympathetic. smile alot and maybe wear pink (guys are attracted to pink and the fist thing a guy notics is a girls smile...and pink goes with anything :) keep the convo going and make small talk and find out if he likes loud girls or quiet mysterious ones. then act on it. look him in the eye when you talk. o0o body language is a must. brush up against him (accidentally is neccessary) and shift your weight but no uncomfortably. play with your hair and if you 2 are realy comfortable theres always the "pretend marriage" the way this works is both of you saying (jokingly....?) that you 2 are married or already going out like "yea me and ben are married" or just funny yelling out "BEN I LOVE YOU!" maybe even jump on his back and dance!! trust me OH and when he is flirting back.....play hard to get..but not too hard...but it will make him crazier for you
good luck! have fun you flirt you!!
xo0xo0xox0ox Christine13
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okay this may sounds dumb, but is it okay to have sex if your in the water.. like a hot tub? i wasnt sure if it was alright because of the water going into your vagina ... sorry if this sounds stupid but i really want to know! thank you. will rate! (link)
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i have asked that question and the answer is no its not ohkay to have sex in a hot tub---the water has bacteria not to mention chemicals and fluids form both you and him floating around. diseases spread quickly in water--especially cloed in like a hot tub. take a hot shower instead ;)
good luck..have fun..and be SAFE!!
luv ya xox0ox0ox Christine13
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ahhh ok, basically my boyfriend fingered me and afterwards i noticed he had a ringworm on his arm..jus above his elbow, quite bigg around 5-6cm ish. and im really worried i could get it..i didnt realise it was contagious till i go home and looked it up. i had a longg bath with dettol and my clothes i was wearin are in the wash. do you know anything i could do to prevent me actually getting it/to prevent it showing upp at all or anything i should take etc? plzzzzz help thnx xxx (link)
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well clear nail polish otta do the trick! it could save you money and a trip to the docters AND an explaination to your maudray..(mom)
good luck hun
xo0xox0ox Christine13
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Okay me n my boyfriend has been dating for almost 4 months and everything has been going good we have a couple of disagreements but who doesnt.. well a couple of weeks ago he got me a cell phone but i payed for it but its in his name and everyday he goes through it. people tell him that im messing around with other guys but how could i when im with him 24/7 well last nite my bestfriend who is a girl texted me stuff she didnt want anyone else knowing and he went to go through my phone and i took it from him. i knwo it looked as if i was hiding something but im not. now he thinks that im hiding stuff and im cheating so he doesnt want to tell me he loves me anymore intill i can change and get my priorities straight or however u spell it. and he doesnt knwo right now if we are gonna work things out he just always tells me i dont know i dont know.Please help me try to get my boyfriend not to break up with me im sorry its long. (link)
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hey he shouldnt be going through your personals anyway. tel him that but also tel him the truth..your friend didnt want people knowing stuff and you took it away form him. tel him to get over it he is wrong and should let it go. tell what is on your mind tell him your with him 24/7 and no-one else. also tell him how much you love him and would NEVER cheat on him. hes being ridiculous..uh men sometimes. tell him if he doesnt cut it out maybe you shouldfind someone more understanding and less irational.
good luck
luv ya ox0xox0ox0xo0xoxo Christine13
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My sister is fifteen years old, but she acts like she is at least 30. We are the same age, but I feel that im am so much more machore than she is. I try to poin her in the right direction but She doe's not seem to want to listen. My mother just stoped careing, she let's her go were ever and when ever she wants to leave. There have been roomors about my sister from everyone, But my mother refuses to listen to them dispite the way she acts and dresses. It would be great if I could get some help with her. I have run out of opptions, and am afrade of what might happen next.
P.S. She has already gotton pregnant. (link)
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does your mom know she is pregnant?! maybe if your mom knew she would straighten her self up. also you should talk to your mom, if not yel at her to get it through her head she needs to become more responsible. also naybe try yelling at your sister but be supportive since she is now with child. be happy for her because making it worse is never fun. also tell people that those rumors are bullshit. but you must must must talk to your mother and sister.
good luck and congradulations on becoming an aunt!!
luv ya xoi0xox0ox0ox Chrsitine13
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What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks (link)
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well one good way to avoid having a nowhere conversation ( on both the phone and internet) is to make a list of things to talk about. i do it if im on the phone with a crush so we dont just sit there and say "uummmm yea" its great. on the list write questions and topics.. its a guarenteed success ;)
luv ya xo0xox0xo0xo Christine13
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hey thanks for the advice, what do you like doing for fun? (link)
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i like taking long walks on the beach and eating icecream in the sand after sunset........ahahahah no i like listenin to music playin my guitar chilin with friends uumm giving advice ;) and going to the beach (for real) oh and shopping.. :) and your welcome write me back sometime i love fans!!
xiox0ox0xo0xoox Christine13
well give me your screen name first and i will give you mine (to make sure your not a weirdo lol ;)
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can someone please give me advice on how i can loose like 10 pounds bye aguest or sept ! THANKS YOU S0 MUCH ! ILL RATE 5 FOR GOOD ANSWERS ! (link)
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easy you can lose 6 pounds in opnly 2 weeks on the special K diet and do 50 curl ups a night (youll also get great abs ;) and if you eat 3 servings of dairy daily you lose more weight than cuting calories alone.
have funin your new ripped lean HOT body ahehe
xox0xo0xoox0ox Christine13
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well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?
no dumbass answers please
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well the best way to bring it up is when your alone...not in a resturant or anything. talk about both of your furtures and what you want out of life. maybe you 2 should wait until marriage and even still get tested together before you do anything sexual. condems and birth control my dear. (although the patch is easiest..only once a week!...the pill is everyday!) trust me.
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My best friends in the world, Kayla & Bridget are always good to me. But lately, Bridget hasen't been. She hangs out with a lot of other girls who are mean, and doesn't act like her old self. I have no idea what's going on, and Kayla is away to New York for the WHOLE summer and i miss much [i live in virginia]
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hah im going through almost the same thing. everyone is gone gone gone and some of my gal pals are changing like yours. talk to bridget with kayla. (make sure kayla thinks bridget is changing too first). if she does think so too, then u and kayla talk to bridge. tell her how you feel and maybe even make a joke of it but be like serious too. ask her why the sudden change and why she is hanging out with those girls. hey, all 3 of you should have a sleepover and watch Mean Girls! then talk about the situations and how they relate to you guyz. have a good summer!
xo0xo0xox Christine13
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I was wondering if anyone knew of any foods that make you feel full but contain very few calories?
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well did you know that eating 3 servings of dairy a day make you lose weight more than cutting calories alone?! ADN dairy makes you feel full. woah what a good diet huh? do this..
1. in the morning drink one full 8oz glass of milk.
2. for snacking buy those cheese stick thing (that you peel)
3. also for snacking have a yogurt. (healthy yogurt that is.)
4. have another glass of milk with your dinner.
oh! and dont drink soda. id rots your teeth anyway ;)
luv ya xoxoxo Christine
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