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Well im a normal teenage girl living her life to the fullest. Ive delt with a lot of stuff so i will try to answer your questions as honestly and helpful as i can. Thanks
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E-mail: bellaitaliana54@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Burbank
Occupation: Actor
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Member Since: July 21, 2006
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Last Update: January 15, 2007
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does anyone know a website that teaches you show to do things. like it shows how to do ur makeup and hair and cooking and lots more... thanx (link)
Seventeen.com is a good place to get stuff like that. they have a section called beauty up top on the home page.


this did not happen to me but im just curious. if someone like fingers you or something against your will [say if youre drunk or even if youre not] is it still considered rape? (link)
I searched it online and rape is considered forced sexual intercorse. since you didnt really have sex with the person, i would say it is sexual assult or sexual abuse.


Okay,
I absolutley LOVE LOVE LOVE singing, and acting, but my play is this friday and i have the lead role, everyone always talks about that when they perform, they feel really good. How do i get over my fear!! I already had an embarrassment on stage once, i cant do it again. How do i distract myself from the sudience. Tips would be helpful ASAP

JANE (link)
when i get nervous on stage i just close my eyes for the first part and once i get used to it, i open my eyes and then everythings fine =D have faith in yourself.


hi im 14 f and my bf is pressuring me into having sex but again not married ad it totally against my beliefs and i cant let him get to me wat shud i do? (link)
this happens to me all the time. dump him....hes using you for sex. if he really cared about you he wouldnt be pressuring you.


I can change it and I think candice is so hott yeah i just want to hugg her. btw shes a hottie and shes gonna wonder who this is and shes so hottttttttt. (link)
haha um thanks i guess =DD well i think you should go change the oil in your car....so it doesnt leak....yeaa....haha.


okay so me and this kid went out for about 2 weeks.
i still like him, and i miss him alot! we use to talk after we broke up and we were cool and stuff and all of a sudden he turned into a major jerk, and he stopped talking to me. i dont understanddd why all of a sudden we were cool, and now its like he hates me? (link)
Boys tend to do that. im not sure how old he is but it sure sounds like hes just trying to be "cool" Yes boys are dumb sometimes but hey we love them anyway =DD well just talk to him in private and set things straight. You never know until he tells you face to face how he truely feels about you. Good luck and take it one step at a time =D hope i helped!


I'm trying to upload a picture onto my page and it keeps saying that it's over 15 something. and I noticed that pretty much everyone has a pic. not an icon like I do. so what I wanted to know was if they're a feature on advicenators that I don't have that allows you to have better things (like getting a picture) or if they're something I can do to resize my picture. I know that when you edit a picture it makes it larger. or atleast on my computer. thanks in advanced !
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Well in this situation you need to make it smaller. you can do this on paint and its simple. just go to edit the picture and it should open up paint...well mine does or just open pain and then open the picture. then all you need to do is, go to image then stretch/scew and change the top two numbers to 50, or a smaller number. =D hope i helped.


hey! i need a funny monologue for a 14 year old! thank yoU! =] (link)
Dont do monolauges from movies or anything like that. they will just be comparing you to the actor or actress who did it origionally. you could search google for monolauges. i found some pretty good ones on there. they should normally be around a minute and try to memorize about 3 because if the person your auditioning with has heard the one you do a million times you can tell them u have other ones prepared...it shows you care about what you do...good luck!


I want to put a youtube video in my myspace blog (NOT in my profile) and It won't let me. How do you do it? I've tried copying and pasting the Embed... I don't know what to do! (link)
you must check the box that says "view source". then copy the link in the space provided.


how do i get girls to notice me (link)
Just be yourself. start talking to them get them laughing and just become really good friends with them. And then they will end up telling their friends about you and how great you are =]]trust me...it works =D


Well.. whenever I'm with my best friend alone she's really nice but when she's with someone else she treats me like crap and I'm really feeling felt out because shes drifting away from me...? (link)
as i always say, "twos company threes a crowd." my best friends do that to me too. someone is always left out. I just tend to hang out with one at a time. or 4. Just tell her how you feel and hopefully she will understand how you feel and make sure she includes you on things she does.


All the time I read about how to get rid of belly fat they always say the usual sit ups and crunches but I have no idea what are crunches because I never heard of them before but by the sound of the word CRUNCH it sounds very effective. Can someone explain to me how to do it? (link)
Its simple. Its basically sit ups but you put your feet in the air at a 90 degree angle and you pull your self up just so your shoulders are off the ground. do them 20 at a time...then 40 and see how far you can go. =DD have fun!


Hey, Im 13/f and I get really horny sometimes and I need something more than masturbating. I have used a stress ball and stuffed animals, but I need some other ideas. I cannot get a vibrator or anything like that. Any answers will help. I want to wait until after I'm married to have sex, but its hard. (link)
and your 13? woah... uhh okay well im sure you could have fun without actually having sex with a guy. just go to third base/oral sex if you want. dont jump into things hun....i dont want you to get hurt.


okay well I'm 14 and i've been talking to this kid, hes 18 but we go to school together and have a class together. we hang out a lot and like just kiss and at the most make-out. well we both admitted to eachother that we both like eachother very much. but the only problem is, is that he thinks im too young. like hes scared that if people found out or something or if we dated he would get in trouble. i've told him it was no big deal but he thinks it is. i really like him and want to be with him but that's the problem. i dont know what to say or do to make him realize he wont get in trouble or anything. please helpp. (link)
Hun, it is a big deal. I used to be in love with 18 year olds in fact i dated a few...not the smartest choice. The only think most of them want is sex. I know you might be saying "hes not like that" trust me....my ex boyfriend would say he loved me all the time and it turned out he dumped me cuz i wouldnt have sex with him. Please just listen to me...i dont want you to get hurt. Just be friends at the most friends with benifets. You'll be saving yourself a heartbreak and if you guys are still close when your 18....go for it. Make the right choice...xoxo.


Heii! how do you make an acting resume?

thank you! =] (link)
well my resume consists of. Name up top and centered in bold lettrs, agents name and contact info and your contact info, my moms is there on the left side up top and on the right side is your height weight eye color and hair color. NEVER put your birthday. then on its own line you put what Films youve done, skip a line, what television shows uve done, skip a line, what theater youve done, skip a line, your training, skip a line,then your special skills like dancing singing gymnastics and stuff like that and the skip a line then the schools youve attended. like this

Name
Agent Height:
agents number Weight:
my contact: number Eyes:
email Hair

Film
title character director

Television
title character where filmed

Theater
title character what/who you did it with

training
what training where taken instructor

special skills
basketball, dancing, singing, blah blah blah

Education
high school
middle school
elementary school


(=DD good luck!!!)



How do I get I guy to like me? (link)
You really cant control what he feels, but my best advice is just be yourself. If he doesnt like you for who you are....hey! it wasnt ment to be ya know. maybe you'll be lucky and get a boyfriend out of this =]]. dont change who you are just for a boy...theyre trouble i tell ya haha. hope i helped xoxo


everyone always says that you should be totally comfortable before you have sex, and that if youre nervous youre not ready.. but then people always say youre gonna be nervous your first time. so how can you tell? (link)
Im a virgin but from what i know, its natural to feel nervous when your trying anything new. Just make sure you guys have protection and be aware your taking a HUGE risk with STD's and stuff like that. hope i helped.xoxo


I am a 21 woman (living at college) and my neighbor at home is a 15 yr old boy and he got to talking to me about stuff, he calls quite a bit and that's fine, he doesn't really have people to talk to a lot because he's very popular in the high school so he has to maintain an image or whatever, you know how high school is, so he can't really open up to anybody. Anyway he calls me about stuff and I give advice whatever, he treats me like I'm his mom or something (his own mom was never in the picture really) so anyway his dad got re-married last spring and he was fine with the stepmom at first but after a while he started changing and he was calling late at night really upset. Finally he told me why, he said his stepmom's been coming in his room at night and doing stuff with him, I won't be graphic but you can probably figure it out. So I called CPS and they ended up dropping the case, and his dad thinks he was lying, but I know he's not. He's been able to keep his stepmom out of his room and is staying weekends with his aunt and uncle, but it just sucks that he has to go thru this and he's got a lot of trust issues now. Sorry to be so long but you kinda had to know the backstory in order to answer my question, which is how can I help him thru this, what do I say to him? All I've told him so far is that I believe him and I don't think it was his fault. (link)
wow...hes got the first step down...talking to someone and letting somebody know about it.im a very good listener tell him if he ever needs to talk im always here. you did a good job calling CPS and letting them know. as of now, there is nothing you can do, his father wont believe him which is horrible not to believe your own son but tell him if he feels uncomftorable just to come to your house, if thats okay, make sure he feels safe there and that he knows he can go there anytime he feels unsafe. Hope i helped i will pray for this boy =[ feel free to ask anything you want. God Bless.


hey i need some one to talk to you kno what im saying like a friend im a really nice guy im 16 mixed with black and white but yea skip that all i wont to no is will any one on here be my friend some one to talk to in the time of need and if you have a myspace that will be even better for me so just plz ladies get back at me plz and im from McKinney (link)
Im here for you anytime you need to talk. www.myspace.com/bigstar

xoxo


What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH (link)
i know seriously. girls are getting pregnat at age 11 now. kids just want to grow up faster and faster as time goes on. =\\ unfourtnally theres nothing we can do about it.




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