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Does anyone know any good songs with piano in them and that are soft and melodic. With lyrics of course. EX: 100 years by five for fighting, Boston by Augustana. I'd greatly appreciate it. (link)
FÜR Elise - Best Of Romantic Piano Music CD
Best Of Romantic Piano Music CDS

The O'Neill Brothers piano music to inspire and soothe.


hi.
yesterday my uncle was using our pc to download movies and put them on his harddrive. he was doing complex things, which i dont understand, like formatting his external hard drive etc.

so i switch the PC off, and then go on (it was slow) and i get the usually compaq picture at the begining. then in black and white, i get:
"disk I/0 error replace the disk and then press any key"

i dont know what it means, and so just press any key, and this is what comes up:
"DISK BOOT FAILURE INSERT SYSTEM DISK AND PRESS ENTER "

what is the problem. im a student and have lots of computer work to do. im currently using a public computer, and cannot keep doing this as i had important stuff on it. help anyone? whats the problem and how do i solve it? btw, its a compaq PC, with an 80gb and 5gb harddrives (i think!) help please? cheers. (link)
It seems as though someone reformatted your drive as well.
You need to have your XP windows CD in when you boot up again.
what you need to do now is boot from the XP CD delete the existing partion create a new one and format and install XP on it.

Or take it to a local computer technician. Even the ones who don't cost much can fix this issue. Not hard to do but if you do it yourself you may lose everything you had.


(15/f)

I am redecorating my room for my 16th but im unsure of what i want. I want my room to be everything about me. Pictures everywhere, posters everywhere, inspirational things on the wall, scrapbooks on display, things like that. My room is small but i could fit everything in. The walls are white, and im going to leave it like that. Does everyone have any other ideas that i could add in my room to make it unique and different? Thanks! (link)
Try some throw pillows, a lamp with a scarf of your favotire color over the lamp shade. Perhaps some candles for decoration. Some floor chairs for example, bean bag chairs or air up ones. Some random beads like the ones they sell to decorate the christmas tree, those ornaments could be used for so many things.


hi. im 14/f and hes 15/m. so theres this guy, lets call him....mike. so mike and me have been flirting a lot and i have like an emotional connection with mike and he likes me but im not like physically attracted to him. i love talking to him but i dont really feel attractied to him. he told me he liked me and i said i liked him too but now i kinda regret it because idk if i do....like i trust him so much and i feel like i could like him but idk i just cant think about being with him...what should i do? (link)
Sometimes the best relationships are the ones where you get along with the other person and not so much based on physical attraction. Take it slow and time will tell you if he is not the one for you. But, please, don't base it on appearances or popularity.
After all, if you were to have a very handsome boyfriend it could very well be that you have nothing in common but physical attraction and the years will take that away then what would you have?

You have so much time to choose someone. Don't rush into relationships. Take it slow and easy.


I love those youtube videos of like those shows about child beauty pageants. I've already seen: LIving Dolls, Toddlers and Tiaras, Little beauties, and Painted Babies. Are there any others?

Thanks! (link)
There are so many.

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=beauty+pageant+children&search_type=&aq=4&oq=beauty+pa


Is there a site where I can download Japanese disney music from that's free? (link)
http://beemp3.com/index.php?q=disney+japanese&st=all


does anybody know a good website with ideas of art projects? not like little kid stuff though. (link)
http://www.creativity-portal.com/howto/artscrafts/mosaics.html


I aboslutely cannot stand my family. My brother annoys the crap out of me and I always get really mad when he's around. And my Dad is just like him, but worse. My Mom and I get in fights every day about the stupidest things. I can never be around my brother and Dad for more than 5 minutes at a time or I get super annoyed or really pissed. They know what they're going is annoying me and pissing me off, but yet they just keep doing it. More and more. They make fun of me, gang up on me and do whatever else they think of to piss me off. I've honestly gone to the point today of breaking down and crying in my room for hours because of them. I just can't handle it anymore. I don't like them. At all. What should I doooo? (link)
I am the mother to a son who is going on 17 years old. I hope I can help you with some of this.
He often times feels the same way. As though I am always yelling at him and that I don't listen or that something else is more important to me than he is.
I think that at a certain point where you are getting older you are more prone to be annoyed and defensive. He also felt as though he loved and hated his brother at the same time and wasn't sure what that was all about.

But it's getting better for him because when he came to me and said please to listen to him and try to understand what he was saying or going through I did stop and listen. It took him telling me, but when he tried to tell me as if he were mad already or frustrated I would think he was being disrespectful and stop listening.

At that point I wanted him to not talk to me until he calmed down. When he realized that, we were able to talk about everything and work some things out, including some bounderies we both had to respect.

I hope that your parents are willing to do that. But you won't know until you go to them, calmly and respectfully ( even if you feel like they don't deserve it) and ask them to listen to your concerns.

As far as your brother, hun, only time will take care of that. Brothers traditionally want to take precendent over each other and something inside just has to battle out to be the alpha guy in the pack. That is normal and will subside.

I know that it is difficult to bear but have courage, like I know you do. And patience, which you have if you've listened to everything I wrote. Let me know if I can help more or if you need to talk.


I need a good song to make me cry

about a guy i REALLY liked, and he got back with is ex =( and he never knew how i felt.

i know all taylor swift songs, so please dont give me those!
thanks! (link)
Angel by Amanda Perez


list some of your guys favorite songs! mostly slow rock kind of songs about love and heartbreak! (link)
Bleeding Heart by Leona Lewis
Angel by Amanda Perez
Breath Again by Toni Braxton


My significant other and I have been fighting a lot for the past month. I don't know whether to leave him alone or talk about it. He doesn't seem to want to talk about it, so i asked him if he wanted to break up, and he said he didn't want to do that either. What should I do? I really want to get my mind off of him, and this situation. What should I do. Talking to him about it is not an option right now. (link)
Sometimes the best thing is to just let it be and let it cool off. There may be underlying problems that are the real reasons for the fights.
Ask yourself if whatever you are fighting about is worth the pain of the fight. If it's not, then let it go. This is very hard to do, believe me, I know.

If you pay less attention to fighting and don't care who wins or loses you will notice that the fighting is lessened and maybe, if you stay quiet, he will notice that sometimes he says things that truly hurt you. Especially when you stop reacting. That is actually one of the things that happens when a woman has had enough and is just about ready to move on. He knows that deep inside. And it will be like a splash of cold water.



I am a male, 36 yrs. old. I move into a neighborhood about 5 years ago. My wife and I got friendly with another couple in the neighborhood. A few months went by, going out drinking, restaurants, movies etc., we were hanging out with this couple alot. Anyways one night i was on her couch and myself and Mrs. X were just sitting there. We notice that her husband and my wife were flirting in the kitchen and then they would disappear for a few seconds and come back. the next week end was a New Years party and I was out by a deck fire and Mrs.X came over and sat on my lap and we began to kiss, I told her that i was married and she said it was ok that her and wife decided to wife swap. It seem fun at first and went on for over a year, almost every weekend. My wife decided she had enough, she probably seen the chemistry between myself and Mrs.x, anyways its been almost 4 years now and I am still with Mrs.X only they do not know we still see each other. I fell in love, love like I never felt before. I found my soul mate and she says she found hers. I just cant take the sneeking, lying and fighting anymore. we also have 3 children a piece.This story cannot be told in 2000 characters but i could sure use some advice from someone who is willing to hear the whole story, thanks for your time. (link)
Before I answer I noticed that there is more to the story, would you like to tell me the rest?
Let me know.


16/f
so my 17th birthday is coming up next week, and i was wondering what i should do for it? i had a stupid sweet sixteen, and i dont want a "party" party. what are some fun things to do with a bunch of friends to celebrate my birthday. i dont really wanna go out to eat, no actual party or anything like that either.
i need some suggestions asap!
thanks in advance (link)
I know some girls like to have their parents get them a room at a nice hotel where she can spend the night "sleep-over" style with order in pizza and movies and the best thing is that at most hotels there is security and night people your parents can have their own room or just let you and your friends stay. Choose a hotel like Holiday Inn hotel and Suites where the rooms are inside the hotel and the front doors are locked after a certain time.



14/f

Ok so I did like this guy awhile ago. I am completely over him. The thing is that he found out. He wasn't the same, well he kinda was but I mean he didn't talk to me as much. But he still did. The thing is now is that I'm pretty sure he still thinks I like him. I really don't care because I don't. But being around him and him knowing that I did makes me feel really awkward. I can't talk to him. I mean I can't go up to him and tell him I don't like him. Thats just not me. I am kinda shy but not too much, but that, I can't do. He is really cool and stuff and I want to be his friend again. Well I am his friend and all but I want it back to normal. I mean, we use to walk and talk together and stuff as friends. That hasn't happened in awhile and I miss that. Thats about all I can say here and thanks so much! (link)
Just come right out and tell him. Sometimes it takes more courage than we think we have. But trust me, you have it in you. Just tell him you want to just be friends and hang out like you used to.


know of any stores or online stores where i can find "bohemian" or "stoner" styles?

thanks much appreicated;P (link)
Try freepeople.com
theworldcloset.com
bongstreet.com

I hope this helps


The situation I'm in is so complicated I myself don't understand. I met my best friend (who is a male) at a party when I was 14 years old. I was introduce to him because I wanted to dance with someone so my cousin's boyfriend at the time went to look for a partner for me and he found him. At first, I liked him so much.Me and him talk on the phone and went to other several parties with him. The problem was that my mom sometimes when she felt like gave me permissions to go to the parties and sometimes she didn't let me go. Then if she let me go I could only stay til' 12am (which sucks because usually he would get there around 10pm) and didn't even get the chance to dance with him or anything. Anyways, I enter high school and he went off to college. I realized we were better off friends, and only talked to him several times on the phone. When he had breaks, we will come see me and spend time with me and my family. One time he told me he liked me, I liked him too but the problem was my mom and myself. I was having really bad anger and mental problems at the time and spend almost all my teen years in psych hospitals. Anyways, I didn't want him to know that side of me, so I decided to tell him that we were better as friends. Years passed by and sometimes he will come see me. My sisters and my mom became really close to him, my mom even calls him "son". There's was one time that I wanted to wait for him until he finished college and then give it a shot. But then my medications increased my appetite and I got bigger and bigger. He noticed every time he came to see me and tell me "you are getting fat", "what's wrong with you?" "are you OK"? So I decided to give up and stay friends with him because I noticed that he wasn't liking me like he use to anymore due to my physical changes. About a month a go he wrote me on messenger. We talked everyday about random things. One day my best friend (a female) told me she wanted a good boyfriend, who goes to college and is a great person, fun at the same time and serious. I decided to introduce him to her through messenger. They talked for several days and I was so happy my best friend was meeting someone finally and that my other best friend was going to meet another possible girlfriend. I played the part of cupid basically. I was happy, yes but at the same time felt jealousy towards her. But my happiness was greater than my jealousy so I ignored that feeling. And anyways, I have a boyfriend now of three and a half years that I supposedly love (that's what I thought I felt) and care about, we even live together. Yesterday, we went to my mom's house for thanksgiving dinner. Here was a chance for my two best friends to meet in person and get a chance to know each other more. But things didn't go right. They had no connection what so ever and completely ignored each other. Then to screw things even more, my cousin shows up and Joseph remembers her from the party back in 2004. She is the type to flirt with anybody, and give it up the same night. Basically she is a whore. And the only reason why my best friends weren't connecting is because in the first place he just wanted a "one night stand" and my best friend is a virgin and only wanted to get to know him more and he didn't want that so he completely ignored her. Then like I was saying, when my cousin showed up they started to talk and have a conversation. Knowing my cousin I knew where she was going with this. I was so pissed off that I started to drink and trying to get drunk because I couldn't believe what was going on in front of my eyes. Then my mom and my grandma notice what I was doing and wanted me out of the kitchen because they didn't want me to do something stupid. I just wanted to hit her so bad. One thing is my best friend (who I love to death) but the other thing is my cousin (who I hate to death, don't like her for ****). And anyways he came to my house to spend time with me, my sisters and my best friend not meet my ******* cousin. Anyways, then I realized I was jealous and that I still love him, and that I want him bad. I can't believe I didn't took care of myself and not wait for him. What you think should I do with this situation? My best friend is hurt, my cousin is a ******* whore who took my best friend to her apartment (not to play Bingo) after 2 hours of conversation (what a ******* whore), and my boyfriend and family are suspicious of me being jealous of my cousin. What should I do? (link)
I know that sometimes it's really hard to hear what people are trying to tell you because as much as you want him, the thought of letting him go will hurt. But that's what you have to do. Let him go and if he cares about you like that he will notice it and he will be the one to come back. But this way you minimize the humiliation factor and also if it isn't something he wants you can both go forward with your life.

Life cannot be lived thinking back about what could have been. You have to think forward about what can be. Make yourself happy first then you will be ready to have the man of your dreams in your life. You have to make yourself someone that you can love before you are ready to let someone in your life to love you.

And then watch what happens. It will be a beautiful miracle. You have to believe that you are worth so much, because you are. Despite what has happened in your past and the issues you fight with in your life, we all have some issues similar to yours. I know you can do it, because I believe in you and your ability to love.
As far as your cousin. She needs to realize that behaving that way only shows she does not love herself enough to be true to herself. What we have is not candy to be given away in that mannter. It is something to be held precious like gold, not frivolously given to just any passer-by. It sounds like you've made good choices when it comes to that.

So from here on out. Focus on you and what you need to do to become the best you that you can love. And don't worry about other people so much. They can take care of themselves.

Blessings.


Thing is I live at home and I don't drive I am not able to with my Disbitly. well i am 23. I do have job where I go babysit and stuff. well i go otu ittle bit. bit thing is hard to find somone and meet somone.i know i shoudn't be looking he maybe come at my door. i don[t want to do online thing i try it once and i don't want paid for it and yet to many weridos. I really like try something. i was wondering how i try find that person and i want try be more you know look more my best and be me. but what is best place meet somone? (link)
If you are wanting to find someone who is a christian I would try going to your church functions when possible. They can also help you with transportation in some cases. And if you don't have a church do some research in your area and find something suitable to you. Those church socials are good places to meet people and even make some good friends.

Also there are some online Christian Singles places also. Where your being introduced to "weirdos" can be limited to the occasional if any at all.


what's the opposite of a widow's peak called?
similar to what sarah jessica parker has. it's a little crack in the hair part and is visible while there's a part that isn't in the middle or if there is no part.

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STEP 1 The first step of this look begins with dividing the hair into quarters, top, sides and back. Your hair should be damp. The top section is created by making two parts on either side of the head, about three inches apart. You will be left with a section of hair running down the middle of your head. Secure this top section of hair with a duckbill clip. Then using additional clips secure the sides and the back of the hair, so that it is now divided into four fairly even sections.


STEP 2 Beginning with the center chunk of hair, take the end of a small section (about a quarter-inch) and fold it back and forth in an accordion-like pattern until it is flat to the scalp. Spray with Kusco-Murphy setting lotion and secure with a flat hair clip. Follow this pattern for the rest of the front, as well as on the sides and end with the back of the head.

STEP 3 Apply blow dryer heat for 10 to 15 minutes. The setting should be on low blow, high heat.

STEP 4 Let cool for 10 minutes and remove clips. DON'T touch the hair yet! Let it set for another 10 minutes. This will give it time to naturally drop.

STEP 5 Separate the curls with your fingers and create a finger part. Apply a dime-sized amount of Rockster holding gel, first to the ends, and with the remainder ''scrunch'' it into the base of the hair.

STEP 6 To tame any stray ends, rub a very small amount of Kusco-Murphy Lavender Hair Cream between the palms and apply to the ends of the hair.


Of course, substitute products for those hard to find ones.


is there any free games that i can play online that can help me remember stuff like the game how you go around a circle saying random objects and you have to repeat what was said before you if that makes any sense sorry for any confusion
i need it for a maths test i am having tomorrow and im not good at remembering any of my work and ive been away from school sick for a few weeks which makes it ten times harder (link)
There's a simple one called Purble Place. Or go to buzzle.com.


okay so i really wanna read the book 'hold tight' by harlan coben and i cant find ANYWHERE online to read it! its making me so mad and ive looked for hours at a time to find it, so does anyone know where i can read it other then buying it or getting it from a library? all the sites have basically every other book in the world EXCEPT for this one!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!!
thanks in advance :) (link)
Amazon.com, sweety. Just type it into the search and it will bring it up.

Hold Tight by Harlan Coben (Hardcover - April 15, 2008)
Buy new: $26.95 $17.79213 Used & new from $1.93
Get it by Tuesday, Dec 2 if you order in the next 31 hours and choose one-day shipping.
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