I'm one of those people everyone goes to for advice, so I thought this would be a great opportunity to help out people other than just the ones i personally know.
Gender: Female
Age: 16
Member Since: November 30, 2008
Answers: 2
Last Update: November 30, 2008
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i feel like me and my boyfriend always do the same thinggsss. like, we go out to a movie or the mall or something, then we come home and make out since theres nothing to do at my house :P. im getting bored . and no, im not asking for like sexual advice, cause im not planning on going much further anytime soon. but like i hang out with him once or twice a weeeeek and i just need something else to do with him. advice? thankkss (link)
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Well, I've been in the situation you are in currently.
I broke up with my boyfriend becasue of it.
I'm also back together with him now because we finally fixed that problem...
Try to do things that you would never think of doing.
Or things that maybe you love that he's never tried or the other way around.
Example, I love to snowboard so I taught him how to do that and now he loves it. I loved to paint, so I took him to do that as well.
We also started hanging with groups of people or like double dating so things wouldnt just always be between the two of us. So when it was just the two of us it seemed more exciting cuz we hadnt been alone for a while.
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there was a guy, screwed me over
didnt talk to eachother for a while.
then became very good friends again, took things farther again. & i got hurt once again, he did the same thing, and ran back to the same girl, when he said he wouldnt.
the thing is, i kinda figured that would happen but i gave him a chance, because i wanted to trust him. obviously i shouldve listened to myself.
now i told him we couldnt be friends.
i havent talked to him in a month, but its hard seeing him around, and not talking to him or even looking at eachother.
i want to forgive him, but i just dont know if i should, or even if i can.
how do you know if you should?
i really miss being friends with him, im just scared things wont be the same.
i try to keep him outta my mind, but its soo hard, not to think about him.
i just really need someone to talk to about it, i guess.
any opinions or advice,
guys and girls.
please..im just so completely confused about what to do, and im sick of thing about it :/ (link)
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Well, if one person can help you it's me.. because I've been in the same exact situation.
These guys are jerks, he is a jerk.
I trusted this guy i dated over and over (it was long distance which was one of the reasons it didnt work).
But anyways he kept telling me that it would work, of course I trusted him and of course he broke my heart.
I went out with another guy and ended up breaking up with him to go back out with the jerk, who yes, did the same exact thing to me over again.
Enough about me though, I know its hard to see him and be friends with him.
But honestly you can't forgive him, because that is basically what got you into this situation in the first place, you kept forgiving him and thats why he continued to hurt you.
I guess you can try to be friends with him, but you have to be strong enough to put up a guard against him, which is one of the reasons i havent talked to my ex in months.
It's going to be alot harder in the end to try and be friends with someone who hurt you repeatedly than to ignore them for a while.
trust me.
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