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Trying to understand if he's trying to say something.
Well, sorry it's bit long but straight to point, he says he trusts me and I reckon, he's been chatting about me with his friends because when i saw his few friends in town they said, (mentioned his name) he says you're kind and he loves you, we mean, he loves your personality, I looked at them and we all just smiled. However, we hardly text unless we have to but when I text him saying hi or hello, he don't seem to be into it, he does reply though. When we see each other we're like non stop chatterbox and joking with flirty comments. I ain't got a clue with this boy. I absolutely wish to confront him but not sure enough. Anyways, we've known each other for quite a while now. Good friends. Right guys, so him saying he trusts me and his friends saying he loves me, means anything or nothing at all?? Do guys talk to their friends when they are into girls and are the girls has to be trustworthy?? Thankyou. Terribly sorry it's really long.
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It is unlikely that he told his friends he loves you, but there is good evidence that he likes you.
Your best move is to ask him out. Pick something you would like to do. maybe a movie, bowling putt-putt golf, a fair, or whatever. Ask him if he wants to go with you.
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Guys don't confess feelings easily like girls do. What his friends likely picked up is from watching him, his reaction to you being mentioned, his eyes following you or even talking about you, but not feelings. Why? Cus a guy wants to avoid being ridiculed by his pals. Have no idea of the age but I am guessing teen years but the content. See, I have never heeard of older mature men going to a woman and telling her that so and so talks about them all the time and seems to really like her. Nope, that is something that school age boys and girls do.
Don't worry about him not liking to use text or answer you there. I had a dating profile and men 45 and over would write asking for my phone number cus they don't like typing or texting.
Since he loves to chat in person, he is interested in you as a friend at least. Guys dont talk to girls they dont like in some way
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Hiya! I'll see if I can help :-D
see in my opinion, we guys really never share are feelings. Its never come up to conversation with me and my friends. But we do like to talk about the girls we like. Not saying like we have a crush or what not no. But we do like to bring them up.
I say, if you like this boy, ask him. ask him out. Dont be shy, and dont be afraid to be shot down. Because if he likes you, he is bound to say yes. And to me, you make it sound like you guys are always flirting and are really close.
Hopefully this helped. I'm not the best with this kind of advice.
-Dr.D
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Hello.
Firstly, him being a little off with you by text but the complete opposite when you talk to him in person might just be how he is when it comes to using texting to keep in touch. Some people can't express themselves unless they do it by text whereas others might be the opposite way around. One of my friends is a prime example of this, he will absolutely refuse to pick up his phone to answer a phone call unless he really has to because he prefers to text instead whereas there are others who can't stand having a conversation by text and prefer to just talk instead.
As for what his friends have said to you, this all depends on how old you guys are but I have found that there is always a small amount of truth to things but to take it all with a pinch of salt because hearing something from a third party could be embellished or exaggerated. For example, he may have said he likes you, they told you he loves you because that is what they assumed he is implying. I think the one thing you can take away from it is that he clearly must like you but in what capacity he likes you is something that you may need to discover for yourself. You did say you guys joke around and flirt and stuff when around each other so you could just ask him about what his friends said and say that you heard he likes/loves you and see what he says but this might also push him away, popping something like that on him so suddenly.
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