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Is he flirting?
Hey,
I accidentally touched his thigh twice while we're in the car coz he was giving me a lift to town. I said sorry. we're kidding heaps but he pointed out saying, oh,you touched my thigh, you got a soft hand and soft pinky. He's a neighbour and a friend. We go to same university and we are quite frank to each other. He's just crazy, I reckon, jokes a lot. I feel like he's flirting with me or is he messing around? What do you reckon guys? Thanks a bunch!
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Sounds to me like he paid you a compliment that could be considered a form of flirting. The only way to find out is to pay him a neighborly visit and talk to him and get to know him or spend time with him to see whether he likes you as more than a neighbor. However, if you value him as a friend and you don't want to ruin the friendship, then keep it strictly friendship between the two of you. You don't want to ruin a good friendship by being intimate and it doesn't work out or go beyond friends.
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Yes, he is most likely flirting.
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Some people flirt just because it's fun, and from doing the same myself at times, I'd have to say it often feels like 'feel good' endorphins are released in me. So I am sure that even though not serious about pursuing a relationship, many do it cus its fun and feels good. Then there are others who are seriously interested in another and will flirt as a way to give the other a hint they are interested.
There's no way to know which he is doing from this one time occurance. You would need other signs like his expressions and body language. The least amount of communicaton between humans is verbal. The rest is all tone of voice, expressions, body language. Bldy language would be a good study for you. Pull up a couple different people on you tube who show "body language when a guy likes you". Put those exact words in a search on you tube and start watching. Some will be similar, keep going until you feel you have learned more examples as not every person posts all examples and many do skits to show the actions and what it looks like, subtle...but if you know what you're looking for, you will see it.
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