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the perfect love or the jerk who kissed you
who should i choose the one who gave me the first kiss but is a jerk and i dont love him or the one that i love he is the most handsome and perfect guy i have ever seen?
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Just because someone gave you your first kiss, it doesn't mean that you belong together, it doesn't mean that you love each other. Your first is someone you smile when you remember, not someone you keep around unless you want to. Choose the person who is going to make you happy, the person who is going to support you no matter what - only you can make that decision. If you decide who you want based on other peoples' opinions, you won't truly be happy. Take some time to figure out what you want, but don't hold onto someone just because he's your first kiss when the other guy could be your last kiss. I wish you luck.
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If you cannot seem to choose than the short answer is neither is right. Why the heck would you want to be with a guy who is a jerk and doesn't value you? That makes zero sense to me. Yes, he gave you a first kiss and you have positive memories of it but if he treats you like shit than a relationship would be a bad experience. If you know someone is absolutely perfect and you are attracted to them and they to you than it's really obvious where you should be.
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OMG. do you realize how what you typed came across to me? It sounds like you do not have a clue whether you should choose a man who treats you badly or the one who treats you good.
Do you for some reason just feel like you deserve to be treated like dirt? I highly doubt that.
Let me guess....the issue is not how the guy will treat you but with which one you feel more sexual fire and passion, even if you're only at the kissing stage. I'd venture to say that the bad boy is the one where you feel this chemistry and the handsome/perfect guy is perfect except for not having the same effect on you, you don't feel much if any passion with him. If I am correct, then my answer would be to not choose either one.
Why? The first is a jerk of course, and the second one and you, do not have the right chemistry together and that is something that mankind has not yet found a way to change.
Handsome is good, a gentleman who treats you well is good but imagine a passion less life tied to a man who is only a wonderful man but theres no passion and connection between you both. It has to be two way and the guy loving you but you not feeling anything in return will not work.
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If I guessed wrong on all of this, then please restate your question in different words dear.
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