I just want to say i appreciate the advice and my dog has come a long way since i posted that... If you read the full comment i mentioned i took him to the dog park at least 2 times a week well that was low balling it i took him almost everyday so its not like he didn't have his energy levels exhausted he was just a bad puppy lol i am sorry but he knew better Husky's are just stubborn defiant dogs till this day it still takes a stern voice to get him back inside the house .. I am happy to say he now plays great with puppies he loves playing with them they abuse him bite him he just does not care he lies on his back and lets them think they have control of him just to be nice to them i love watching it compared to how rough he plays with dogs his size
That’s great! Dogs are wonderful companions and although they cause trouble sometimes they are definitely worth it when you can enjoy how wonderful they are. So glad things have improved!
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in 2013 Adult Swim added Rick and Morty a sci fi cartoon that people are calling the smartest tv show and mostly when you type something in that show constantly gets suggested and most of it's fan pay too much attention to it saying you need to have high iqs to understand the jokes but i think that is ridiculous so how can you ignore Rick and Morty i just don't like seeing those characters everywhere i look.
Unfortunately, it’s not possible to completely ignore a show. People will talk about it, it will be advertised - there is no way to avoid hearing about it. However, you should know that the comments about having to have a high IQ to understand the jokes is completely wrong; if only people with high IQs could understand it then it wouldn’t be so popular because most people have an average IQ. I do, and I understand every joke. I would suggest watching it and giving it a go because you might actually find yourself enjoying it, especially if it bothers you that much you should try to find peace with it. Even if you don’t enjoy it, you should at least be able to see it without feeling bothered. We’ll always come across things we don’t like is, sometimes they’re just unavoidable. I wish you the best but
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Hello, so a few months back I adopted a cat from a shelter who turned out to have fleas. I know he has them because I keep spotting flea dirt (feces) where he sleeps and every once in a while a flea will jump off of him.
I have been treating him with a flea collar, flea pills (like pills I feed him that are supposed to kill the fleas in 6 hours), and the flea medication that goes on their neck once a month.
The weird part of this is that I sit him down about every 2 days and groom him with a flea comb all over his fur (short hair). Do I find any fleas? No. Do I see any flea dust? No.
I'm getting extremely frustrated because I don't know what to do. He's confined to a master bedroom and a bathroom and I routinely change the sheets and vacuum, but that's about as much as I can do because I live in an apartment with a roommate who has a dog and her own room so I can't do a flea bomb because I have nowhere else to put the cat while it's going off.
I feel like fleas are impossible to get rid of because their eggs are so tiny that they're bound to be anywhere/everywhere. I could treat the carpets and wash everything all in one day, but then one flea could be under the mattress you know?
Once several years back my family had one cat and they spent thousands of dollars treating their place and their cat who had fleas and nothing ever worked. They just learned to deal with the cat having fleas and tried to keep it to a minimum .
The only hope I feel like I have is moving in a few months to another place and having him flea bathed at the vet before I take him into the new location. However, I recall my friends doing this exact thing with their puppy who had fleas and it didn't work because the flea bath didn't kill all the fleas so the new place just got reinfested. I remember they spent a lot of money on it too!
Augh help please?
Fleas are a big problem when you have a cat, but they don't always live on the animal. For example, they can live in your home (but they're so tiny that sometimes you don't even notice) and then jump on your cat when they get the chance. Because flea treatment generally kills fleas within 24 hours of them biting your cat, you are bound to see a few. It's only really a problem if you see lots of fleas all the time, because this could mean that the treatment isn't working. Try putting down some flea powder/spray in your home to kill the fleas that are currently in your house. Unfortunately cats and dogs bring fleas in quite often from outside - cats especially! - but when they have been on your cat and your cat has been treated they are usually dying, so when they go onto the face or the paws it's because they're trying to escape; they're harmless when they're dying, they can barely jump and don't move very quick, but if you find one that is dying quickly put it into water as fleas cannot swim - if the flea is already dying, it will die straight away once put into a cup of water. I would advise you to go to your vet to see what they suggest, but you can also do a Google search to find the most effective ways of getting rid of fleas from your house. Usually the fleas are already in the corners of the rooms in your home, so it can take up to two months to get rid of them completely (the ones on the cats, the ones in the house and also the eggs). Be patient; this is a horrible and stressful issue, but once you find the perfect products (there's even some home-remedies you can try) hopefully it will decrease your stress and get rid of fleas in your home for good.
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I tried warehouse, but that still involves a lot of people. Do you think that a person with anxiety can work overnight at a gas station?
Hi there, I completely understand your struggle as I don't work because of my anxiety. I think it's very hard as you always have to communicate with people, so I would advise taking some time, if possible, to focus on your anxiety for a while; try to find things that make you calm, try to overcome your fears and then look for a job when you feel more comfortable. Obviously this depends on your age and situation whether it's even possible, but try going out a few times a week to places that are terrifying for you, maybe look into group counselling, and the more you face your fears the more you comfortable you'll feel being around other people. Eventually, you'll be able to do any job you want. You should focus on getting a little bit better first, depending on the extremity of your anxiety. Think about a job you've always wanted, a job you're passionate about, and work your way towards it. That's what I'm doing right now and it feels a lot better to just focus on my anxiety rather than force myself into work everyday - which, by the way, doesn't always make anxiety better. I wish the best for your future and I hope you find something, but please don't live in fear. Live your life freely and don't let fear get in the way! ''Feel the fear and do it anyway.''
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My wife and I have a great marriage. She and I have another male/female couple that we have regualr sex with. I currently make love to my male friend about four times a month. My wife and my male lover's wife would like us guys to have sex more often, they mentioned having sex about 15-20 nights per month. Is is a good idea?
Only do what you are comfortable with, that's the only advice I can give you. If you're unhappy with this idea, tell them, and if not then it's your right to do whatever you'd like - it's your life, afterall.
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Will anal sex disvirgin a Female
'Virginity' is just a word which only has meaning depending on your own personal morals and beliefs. However, losing your virginity is having sexual intercourse and any other type of sexual contact is technically not losing your virginity, so I would say no.
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Me and my had protected sex 2 days before.i think he came inside me. But with condom on. According to my app i was ovulating on 27th so the fertile period was over by 28th. I had sex on 30th. Today i found brown spotting. Am i pregnant? Also i feel his nails were big. Cause it hurt my vagina once. And he did finger me. And even after sex i was bleeding a bit. What are chances of me getting pregnant? Please help.
When you use a condom, there is a 98% chance that you WON'T get pregnant. However, that leaves a 2% chance that you will. It's definitely possible, but if you're missing your period there's always other factors to consider: stress of thinking you're pregnant, is a very common reason why women miss a period every so often. Spotting happens in-between periods sometimes and is not a clear sign that you are pregnant, as for the bleeding that is completely normal and happens sometimes when it goes too far in; believe it or not, it does happen more often than women will talk about. I don't think there's any reason to worry since you were protected but I would leave it a while and wait to see if you have a missed period first. If you do, go see a doctor to find out for sure. For now try to talk to your boyfriend about the possibility so you can plan for it just in case (doctor's appointments, etc.). Don't worry, many women have these concerns and there's no one way to tell that you're pregnant except waiting to see what happens and going to a doctor if you're really concerned. Good luck.
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Do I live my boyfriend for my best friend, I actually love both and do not want to loose any
You should talk to them both, leaving someone (a friend or partner) is a very difficult decision; don't decide without speaking to both of them first. As another person has said, saving time for both is a very good idea, or maybe see if they can get to know each other and see them at the same time. However, any friend would accept your boyfriend and any boyfriend would accept your best friend. There's no reason you should lose either because you love them both! I wish you the best.
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I really want to start a blog, but the problem is, I can't seem to find a good website to start it off of. Every site I've tried lets me create a whole website, but I want something simple and basic. Are there any good blogging sites where I can just ask a question of the week, get people's feedback, give my own thoughts, and maybe do a poll every now and then?
Try Blogger - the most popular blogging site. You can add widgets and things to add polls. You don't necessarily need to make a website on there, although that's what most people use it for, you can just add widgets to your page and leave your blog posts for your own thoughts that you'd like to write about.
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so i was in a long distance relation but we broke up after 3 months and i tried to fix the problem but she just wouldn't even try and think about it and i tried texting her and she was reading those texts but not replying to any of them and she'd just say "idk what to say"
and after a while she said that i "spam" her with texts but all i sent was 3 texts telling how i feel about her and she called it "spam" and it hurt me a lot and so i blocked her on social media and also in the multiplayer game that we met ! . it's really hard for me to give up on her and i just love her a lot and at this point i'm just hurt a lot and thinking about her MOST of the time and idk what to do....
i'm thinking of reconnecting with her (i know i'm dumb but i just love her a lot) and i don't know whether this is the right thing to do....
i'm thinking of texting her in the game we met
so yea as i said before i'm just confused and don't know what to do that's why i'm asking for your help
Thank you for taking your time in reading this
I understand. It's hard to let someone go, but whether or not you try to rekindle your relationship with her is completely up to you. Try to measure out the pros and cons; you may have been happy before, but clearly you were miserable after the end of your relationship - can you really go through that pain again? If it's too much to handle, I would suggest trying to move on with your life, meet someone new and find happiness elsewhere. This decision is one only you can make, but there's nothing wrong with trying again one more time if that's what you need, you will either get her back or you will get closure and the ability to move on. So I would suggest going for it, giving it one last shot, see how it goes and if it doesn't go well, just accept it and try to get on with your life. Believe it or not, it IS possible to heal a broken heart. I wish the best of luck to you in your future.
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Hi I'm 18 years old. I had a kiss with my boyfriend and I'm worried that I might be pregnant because i don't have my periods. can it be pregnancy I'm really worried
No, this isn't humanly possible. Perhaps you're stressing about being pregnant and that's what is causing your late period. But it is one hundred percent certain you are not on pregnant because a kiss cannot make you pregnant. Maybe you ought to do some research into how women get pregnant, it's important that you understand how your body works for future reference. I think, personally, that understanding your body and how it works is something everybody needs to do. When people miss their period, they automatically assume it's pregnancy, when really it could be anything: stress, illness, change in diet - the list goes on. Our bodies are mysterious things but I can confirm that nobody in the history of the world has ever been pregnant by a kiss. I hope that decreases your nerves. Good luck to you.
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Ok so i own a Siberian Husky pup he is almost 1 year old he is a great dog love him till death. He listens when inside the house great but i feel like its only because he feels like he is trapped. As soon as i let him outside he no longer listens and if he does something bad and i have to punish him i put him in a cage in the house then it takes me a week just to get his trust back he will not come when called will not drop a item when told to do so. And Like i said this is only once we leave the house when we are out doors or in the backyard of the house. He is fast a short 50 pound little ball of fire always on the move he has a huge backyard to play in and i try to get him to the dog park at least twice a week depending on the weather. I train with him everyday but he does not seem to get it he is very hesitant when i call him to me in the backyard and does not even acknowledge my presence at the dog park. He will be bad picking on a puppy at the dog park then we get home and he jumps up on the coach with me like were best friends and i am not mad at him. He knows i am the Alpha again great in the house wont touch food dropped on the floor until told to do so sits when told to even knows when i get him in the house and he was bad he knows to go into his crate. I tried looking everywhere online and everyone says the same thing just practice in your backyard bring him out on a leash i have tried it all as soon as he gets a inch freedom he takes a lot more then a mile. If anyone has advice i really appreciate it also food does not interest him i don't know if i already said that but if anyone knows like a irresistible dog treat that would also be great
First of all, dogs don't misbehave because they think they are the dominant ones, if your dog isn't behaving then it's because it has no idea that the behaviour is wrong. He may have been trained inside but not outside, and when a dog does something for so long it gets used to it, and if you put him in a cage or go angry with them they will be confused and think they've done nothing wrong, it's merely a lack of understanding. You could try taking some of his favourite threats with you, or whatever you used to train him in the house, dogs usually respond well to treats in training. Try a different training technique, he may be confused by the one you're using. Don't worry, it's definitely normal behaviour in a dog and some things take time, remember that dogs try their hardest to get our praise so make a fuss of him when he does something good. It's a real bonding moment between a dog and an owner and dogs are so loyal that that's all it takes sometimes. If absolutely nothing works, I would suggest talking to a professional dog trainer. You can take dogs to classes or have someone show you how train your dog. But before you try training the bad behaviour out of him, try understanding why he does it. Maybe he's afraid of the outdoors and acting out of fear, maybe he's got a lot of energy so going out is the only time to let that energy out - whatever the case, try to understand him and from there try to find an acceptable approach. Good luck!
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Okay, so how it all started.
A close friend has a tendency to ignore me when he gets upset. I hate being ignored, it hurts. He always has excuses to ignore me for days!
So the last time he did it I don't know what got into me but I just decided to cut. To my surprise, it actually helps! Not the pain but the blood. I don't know but seeing the blood makes me feel way better. I feel less bad. So after that I cut every time I get angry, frustrated or when I just feel bad. Well, my life isn't exactly great, I have other better reasons for cutting besides my dumbass friend.
I do not cut deep so I do not think its any dangerous but should I still stop? I cut my thighs and hips not my wrists so no one finds out. If I have to stop how do I stop? Its really addicting.
Nobody will tell you not to stop, and most people will tell you not to without a valid reason. Me, I know exactly how addictive self-harm can be, and I also know how good it can be. The 'high' feeling you get from self-harming is only temporary, it lasts about ten minutes before you start realising what you've done, panic about covering it up, etc. and it causes more problems than it solves. It's like smoking a cigarette, it helps for those few minutes of inhaling the smoke - but you get addicted. Very, very slowly and without knowing it until it's too late, you get addicted. Self-harm is physiologically addictive, before long you won't be able to go a week or so without cutting if it carries on. There is absolutely no reason I can give you that you should keep doing it, I can't think of a single thing that self-harm does for you that is a reason to keep doing it, because every single feeling it gives you is a lie, and getting into bad habits only makes it worse. You may think you're making your problems easier, but you're not, you're actually giving yourself more problems by getting yourself into something so incredibly addictive. Also, yes, you're right, it's not as dangerous as, say, overdosing on pills, but all it takes is one time - one single time - you decide to cut deeper, and that's it. That could mean your life. One day you might stop getting that rush from cutting and want to try something different, this could result in endless bad habits and it's the wrong road to go down. Nobody will ever tell you straight-up how awful it is to be in that situation because it's hardly even understood now, but I'm telling you, don't do it. I know self-harm makes you feel alive, but I've found that a good 30-minute workout not only helps me to feel alive but is also good for me. Think about your mental and physical health in the long-term, not the short term. Because before you know, it'll be too late, and you'll be fighting off an addiction, which is even more dangerous and makes you even more depressed because when you try to quit cutting, that'll be the hardest thing you've ever done. Trust me. Take care of yourself, bathe yourself and treat your skin, exercise and treat your heart - self-harm leaves permanent scars from temporary problems, and it's really, really not worth it. Look after yourself, you deserve it, and nothing makes you feel happier than having a healthy body.
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I have absolutely no self-esteem because of my past full of such horrible events, so this is probably why I dwell on this so heavily all the time. Deeply, I feel that I am not good enough for my fiance... maybe because I've been told all my life that I'm not good enough, but it's just no matter how hard I try... I don't feel good enough for this man.
I practice "smiling depression" everyday, because I don't ever want to bother him with my major clinical depression. I *do* get help for my depression and horrid generalized anxiety disorder, but it takes everything I have to appear "perfectly okay" to him, because... I'm never okay. My illnesses plus my chronic pain and fatigue take nearly 95% of all the energy I have. Attempting to make my fiance as happy as he should be takes away the rest of my energy. I feel as if I'm just existing. I'm ****ing (please, please, please excuse my language) miserable.
But I want to be better for him, because I love him more than I could ever love anyone or anything. He's my rock; all that I live for; I literally have nothing else to live for, which I have *NEVER* told him because I don't want to put that kind of pressure on him.
As I stated above, I practice "smiling depression" for him all the time.
I am losing weight for him. I brisk-walk like 60 minutes a day, plus exercise throughout the day.
I practice never getting upset or angry at him every second of every day as well as not ever making him upset. I don't ask him to spoil me in any way, instead I spoil him with massages and compliments and other such. There's not a day that goes by where I don't enthusiastically and genuinely tell him that he's the most gorgeous man in the universe over five hundred times.
When he does give me a gift (which is very rarely, because I don't like him spending money on me), I won't shut up about how much I appreciate it.
That's all I can think of on the top of my head.
He's so amazing. I couldn't live without him. But what kills me is that he agrees with me that I don't make him as happy as he should be, so what else should I do?
It sounds to me like you're doing enough, and he hasn't actually asked you to change. He's probably not even wishing for you to lose weight or be better than him, maybe it's just your paranoia that he is going to leave you if you're not good enough. But he chose YOU! He didn't choose anyone else, so he obviously cares about you and loves you exactly the way you are, you don't need to change. You should talk to him about how you feel and be more open with him because one of the main reasons for relationships to break apart is paranoia. I'm sure if you could see yourself through his eyes, you would love yourself as he loves you. Remind yourself that you're good enough exactly the way you are because nobody could ever love him the amount that you do. Try doing something nice for him, surprise him with something really sweet, maybe buy him something he's always wanted or take him somewhere he loves to go - remind him how much you love him. Sometimes it's not about losing weight for the man you love or being more attractive or being happy, sometimes it's just about being there for them and making them happy. If he didn't love you exactly the way you are, why would you be together? Hell, why would you be engaged? Don't change yourself because you're great the way you are - one man in particular obviously thinks you are...
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(kinda hard to write this without using my age.....)
I really need some help with this. When i go to school, I finish all my work WAY before the deadline. I get bored because my teachers do not have any more work for me. A teacher suggested moving schools, one with an IB program. I am sick of being bored, but I dont want to leave behind my best friends. I am DEFINITLY not popular but I love my school. Should I move? Thanks.
No-one can make this decision for you, but I would suggest thinking more about your future than the present. When you leave school, you're likely to leave your best friends behind anyway, as most people do when they leave. You can, however, keep in contact with them through texts and phonecalls if necessary without face-to-face meeting. Being in a school more appropriate to your intelligence could possibly help you more than being in a school you love, but that's entirely down to you. Going to a school for fitting for you may benefit you greatly, people of your intellect and passion don't come along very often, maybe you should pursue the other school because the future obviously holds great things for you. Try talking to your friends and family about this and see if you can make a decision together or compromise to still see your friends once a week so that you don't miss them or lose contact with them, but the new school could be really good for you and you may find that all the things your current school doesn't have, your new one could have. Good luck with whatever you decide, I wish you the best in your future.
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How much bleach would it take to kill a 5'4" 115 LB Female?
Drinking a small amount of bleach probably wouldn't kill you, but it would almost definitely make you sick or nauseated, possibly with diarrhea. Drinking more than a lot (I don't know the exact amount it takes to kill someone) could result in a coma, death, low blood pressure, or chest pain if you drink too much. If you're asking out of curiosity I would suggest a Google search into the scientific part of what bleach does to your body, however if you're asking because you or someone you know has done it or is thinking of doing it then I suggest calling for help because it can seriously damage your body, even just a little bit of bleach can be very painful or even harmful to your body in the short-term. Stay safe.
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So I pretty much want to forget about my dad he hurt me a lot and I even searched the internet for help but nothing helped me My dad was abusive and he cheated on my mom a lot. He also sexually assaulted me when I was little. Pretty much my mother had me at a young age around 15. And my 'father' was fine and all as I can recall. But when my mother left to work he would bring me with him and he would pick up a woman and bring them over to our house and well you know have sex with them. What was worse is that I had to be in the room with them when they were doing that, I remember when he did that and he turned all the lights off cuz u suppose he didn't want me to see I dont know and when he did I would cry silenty. He left me when I was 5 and I never knew he was abusive towards my mother till the day he hit her in front of me and my brother and I tried defending her and when she called the police he left and I heard he is in mexico now I always try forgetting him but its hard and he pretty much affected my life. Please give me some advice......
What you went through is traumatizing and you are stronger than you think, but don't put pressure on yourself to forget it right away - it's not that simple. That's the thing about trauma, even though it makes you feel horrible, in the longer-term you become stronger and less vulnerable. That's looking at the bright side of things. You should talk to someone if you need closure, maybe someone in your family who can answer any questions you may have. What you go through only makes you stronger in the end. Try talking about it, maybe you could make a blog and write about to express yourself - it's really good for seeking closure. Don't pressure yourself to get over this quickly, no-one went through something like that and got over it quickly. At some point you have to stop being the victim and start using that experience to make yourself better and stronger. I know it's a typical thing to advise therapy, but you never know, it could help. Getting your feelings out can help you to deal with your feelings and what you went through - the first step is acceptance. You've done so well to come here and tell your story and ask for help, that's a really difficult thing to do, and I hope you get your answer. Take charge of your own life and don't let him get in your way, work towards feeling better about the situation. It'll be okay in the end, I promise, but life is too short to spend it obsessing over things you can't change - you can't change the past. Just use your experience to make yourself stronger, and it'll be worth it in the end. I wish you all the best.
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Hi, what does it mean when the guy mate says, "i like you too much" over a minor situation. We do joke and flirt back and forth. Could someone help? Short and simple answers please. Thanks ever so much!
There's no explanation that can be offered because we don't know the full situation, his feelings, nor yours. You know him better than all of us, if you're not sure what he means by that then the only way to know is to ask him. Maybe he's not really a friend and he's just trying to act like you're just friends, but don't think too much into it and lose a friendship over a suspicion. It's a cliche, but the only way to know for sure is to ask him - maybe it's a misunderstanding.
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Okay, so I have a crush on this guy, but I don't know if he likes me. Tomorrow I'll be driving around with him and his family, and I just want to know. What should I do?
There's only one way to figure out if someone feels the same way as you, and that's to tell them how you feel. I say, give it a shot, see how it goes. If you don't go for it and tell him how you feel then you'll always be wondering 'what if?'. Try to figure out a good time to talk to him and tell him how you feel; it's worth the risk because without admitting how you feel there's no chance of you being together, but telling him how you feel raises your chance to a 50/50 chance of you being together. If he's as great as you think he is, it'll be worth that risk. Sometimes you have to take risks in life to either learn lessons or have new experiences, no matter how difficult it may be.
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who should i choose the one who gave me the first kiss but is a jerk and i dont love him or the one that i love he is the most handsome and perfect guy i have ever seen?
Just because someone gave you your first kiss, it doesn't mean that you belong together, it doesn't mean that you love each other. Your first is someone you smile when you remember, not someone you keep around unless you want to. Choose the person who is going to make you happy, the person who is going to support you no matter what - only you can make that decision. If you decide who you want based on other peoples' opinions, you won't truly be happy. Take some time to figure out what you want, but don't hold onto someone just because he's your first kiss when the other guy could be your last kiss. I wish you luck.
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