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I want him!
Okay, so I have a crush on this guy, but I don't know if he likes me. Tomorrow I'll be driving around with him and his family, and I just want to know. What should I do?
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There's only one way to figure out if someone feels the same way as you, and that's to tell them how you feel. I say, give it a shot, see how it goes. If you don't go for it and tell him how you feel then you'll always be wondering 'what if?'. Try to figure out a good time to talk to him and tell him how you feel; it's worth the risk because without admitting how you feel there's no chance of you being together, but telling him how you feel raises your chance to a 50/50 chance of you being together. If he's as great as you think he is, it'll be worth that risk. Sometimes you have to take risks in life to either learn lessons or have new experiences, no matter how difficult it may be.
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If you are invited to come along with him and his family, I'd say that chances are high that he likes you and his parents like you. Otherwise, you wouldn't be invited to come along.
Being young and wanting to experience romantic interest from a male, we often tend to read into things, and imagine there is more to any actions and words than there really is. Its called wishful thinking.
He may "like' you as a friend. This is a good place to start when first interested in someone. Sometimes, over time as the friendship goes on, both may grow to actually love each other and become a couple. But if it's only one person that happens to, then its not happening and theres nothing you can do to "make it happen'.
I am sure you really want to know if he likes you as more than a friend. If he does, and he is very comfortable with you and has spent lots of times hanging out with you, getting to know each other well, learning to trust each other, then in the future, IF he is interested in the way you hope he is, then eventually it will naturally happen that he lets you know. IN the meanwhile, enjoy his friendship and spend time getting to know each other. If there are no other females your age hanging out with him and his family, then I'd say you're in a good place. Don't mess it up by pressuring him and putting him in an awkward spot by confessing your feelings to him and don't ask if he likes you as a girlfriend or if he loves you. Save that for much later after you've spent a year or couple years as just friends. If anything more is meant to be, it will happen naturally and you won't have to force or manipulate a single thing.
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