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So i have this friend who gossips about her friends way too much I don't know if she does it as a topic of conversation because she just doesn't know how to start a convo with someone (that's how I was in elementary school cause I didn't know how to make friends but I'm not this way anymore) or that's how she genuinely is cause every time I talk to her it's like she's gossiping about a best friend. Then the next day you'll see her hanging out with the same person she just talked bad about. Usually the people she talks bad about are my friends too and even though I wanna tell them what she says I can't because I don't like spreading rumours and wouldn't wanna break friendships anyways. What do I do about this friend? How can I get her to stop talking bad about her friends? (link)
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You need to stand up for your friends because what she's doing isn't good that's called being fake if someone was talking about you your friends would let you know or when she starts talking about your friends say hey that's my friend you talking about so could you like stopbut let her know you don't like what she's doing but keeping quiet is telling her its okay to talk about other people behind their backs
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Hello,
22/F. In a 3 year relationship with a rocky stand point. Met a guy at a bar on of the nights that I was out with a couple friends and we were just friends getting to know each other and we started having feelings for each other. Similar life and both very ambitious. We both have very good jobs. We’re both family oriented in fact both our mothers passed with the same disease. But that’s not why I’m asking for advice. After us completely stop talking for a good month which was also the last time we saw each other. I saw him again this weekend. I was drinking my coffee and happened to look up and he had just walked in and we both made eye contact. He looked at me and he made a sad face (literally frowned) and I look at my friend next to me and completely freaked out. Mind you my boyfriend who knows nothing about this is right behind me having another conversation with someone else. The guy, let’s call him M.. M slowly makes is way over to where I was and requested for a coffee and a shot. And he started asking how I was and how work was, then he started teasing me about always drinking energy drinks when I go out instead of actual alcohol. And he pretty much implied to my friend that we should all hangout again soon. M then walks away. My boyfriend didn’t even notice that someone was talking to us. I started giving my friend the (WTF) look and he told me that when he come over he nudged his leg before he started talking to me. There isn’t a day where this guy doesn’t not cross my mind and I don’t know what to do. I don’t get what the purpose of him coming over and starting a convo with me was when we haven’t talked in a month. Even though last time we talked it was a great conversation even if he is a little on the shy side where I’m not.
Please help
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He probably thought you were playing him but its obvious you feel a connection with him and so does he so you two to just sit down the both of you and see if the connection is still their then take it up from their
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