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Why do guy asks personal questions?
Hello all, he asks a personal questions like, which college do you go to, which church do you go, such as birthday, says I might have seen you somewhere around here etc. So, is this normal for a bloke or is he just a another weirdo? Men point of view please?! Thank u all.
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Adviceman is right. However I watched enough video's on the net that portray what a guy is really doing when he is trying to meet a girl. The questions in themselves are normal but perhaps your subconscious picks up on something else that doesn't sit right with you. If a guy is too nervous, he may shift his body too much, like hopping from foot to foot, or lean in too close in your personal space, even just staring without smiling for a long time before getting the courage to talk will give a girl the creeps, asking the questions rapid fire or like conducting an interrogation also feels awkward as well as if the guy is stumbling over his words, stuttering or pretty much coming to a point when they can't think of anything to say and end up saying Um, or well, but nothing else. Yeah, I'm a female but sometimes us females are observant enough, and have plenty of advice on something like the behavior of a guy especially if we've lived long enough, and had plenty of different experiences, plus what is learned by reading books on the subject.
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Everyone has their own opinion on those types of questions. TO me those are icebreaking questions I would ask to get to know someone. A couple of questions I would even ask a guy if he looked like someone I might have met somewhere.
You see a girl you would like to meet. There are the standard lines such as, "Where have you been all my life," which never work by the way, or you can go up to her and introduce yourself. Maybe you ask if you can buy her a drink then what? You have just met what do you talk about. Those questions are fairly normal questions to try and get a conversation going.
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I'm not a man but will give you my opinion as well.
Sounds like he is just wanting to get to know you. Is he someone you know a little about or is he a stranger? Is he someone you are talking to online or in person? If you could add that info it might help you get some better answers.
That said, people ask all kinds of questions when they want to get to know you. If this is someone you go to school with, or work with, they may be reasonable questions after you've gotten to know them some. If you are a teen and are talking to someone online, I'm not sure I would give that kind of info. It may just be me but it seems like there is an ever increasing amount of weirdos in the world. :)
Come on men, let this lady know what you think.
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