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Revenge on kid who called me weird


Question Posted Wednesday June 15 2016, 5:35 pm

This kid called me weird, and i am autistic and highly offended by it. All i did was tell him about an episode of a show called round the twist where a tree impregnates a young boy, then he called me weird. I tried to tell him that everyone in the world is weird to an extent and that i'm entitled to my opinion but then he began doing a squeaky impression of me. Later on that day, he made fun of me because i said i'd rather date the queen than Ariana Grande (Aparrently she's a popstar, but she can't be that popular if iv've never heard of her). He also looked up the definition of weird in the dictionary, and he said the definition is Chris (my name is Chris. He also said something really ofensive), then I told him that more than 1 person in the world is called Chris, then he told me he was joking,and called me a dumbass because I didn't realise. Also,he randomly made a sex noise, but i randomly made a sex noise he said "Don't beg it" (Just cause he's popular. What an dickhead. He also said something really offensive "Why can't you be normal and be interested in football instead of boys getting pregnant?" Everyone's different so there's no such thing as normal but then i told me to f off. I told him i'd report him but then he said he'd report me even though i haven't done anything. How to get revenge on him when he leasts expects it? (I don't know where he lives so i'd have to get revenge in school)

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lilly3675 answered Friday June 17 2016, 4:18 am:
Revenge will just show how much you care about what he said. That's what he wants. If he keeps bothering you try to ignore him or actually report him. Like you said you haven't done anything. He has done things to actually get reported for. You're better off telling an adult now. If you get revenge by sinking to his level then he could actually report you.

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Razhie answered Thursday June 16 2016, 12:54 pm:
Revenge only works in the movies.

In real life, it just makes you look weak, and mean, and gets you in trouble. I know you might think we're adults, so we just have to stay that, but adults say that, because they tried at some point to take revenge, and it didn't work. It's experience talking.

You'd be better of talking to a teacher about the ongoing bullying. Not even necessarily 'reporting' it, just talking to an adult at school about they think you could handle it or what you should do about it. This kid is a bully, and he's clearly trying to make sure that he's not quite bad enough to get into serious trouble.

Don't try to out-bully the bully. I promise you, that will NEVER actually work.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday June 16 2016, 10:30 am:
Revenge serves no purpose other than to perpetuate the problem. You get revenge on him and he then wants revenge on you. Then it starts all over again. School is just about over for the summer so the best thing to do is to ignore him and enjoy the summer.

If you really feel you must get revenge on him and you have a smartphone. Tell him you have his harassment of you recorded and stored on your computer at home. If he continues you will Email it to his parents and the principal. Let him spend the summer worrying when and if you will do so. But I would suggest you just do nothing and ignore him. That will frustrate him even more.

Fact is he is an idiot and a bully and some day he will pay for being a bully. I have a story to prove that.

In my high school class we of course had a bully who picked on everyone. Him and his pack roamed the halls with a vengeance. After graduation I joined the local volunteer fire department. Like clockwork every Sunday morning just before closing time at the bars, this happened every weekend that after a date I would not go home but go to the station and wait for the call. We would be called by the police for a rescue call to repair the damaged bodies at the local beer garden.

This one Sunday morning I walk into the beer garden and laid out on the floor is the former school bully and three of his friends. He had a head laceration that was going to need stitches to close but I still needed to clean and dress his wound. I had my choice of what to use to clean his wound with. I chose the denatured alcohol as it would burn like nothing he ever felt before and poured it on the wound.

Fortunately he was handcuffed for he screamed and cursed at me. I told him to be a man and stop crying. Then I dressed the wound and turned him over to the cops. Funny thing until I moved away I continued to answer calls at that beer garden but never saw him again. I guess he decided to drink someplace else. By the way at that time the legal drinking age was 18.

I guess you can say that I waited long enough to get my revenge and when I did there was nothing one he could do about it. For if he retaliated in any way it would have been a felony.

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