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How to masturbate without parents knowing? And am i too young to masturbate
Ive beeen masturbating for about 3 months now but i don't think my parents know. How can i stop them from knowing? Also, I'm 12, is that too young to masturbate?
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No your not to young to masturbate. The urge to do so starts about the same time as puberty starts. This is when the hormones kick in and sexual awareness and tension become part of your life. The only time masturbation is a problem is if you masturbate to the exclusion of everything else. For someone your age doing so 4 or even 5 times a day is very normal. Masturbation is not a substitute for sex . It is a safe and pleasant alternative to sex which can be done in the privacy of your room or morning or evening shower.
Can you hide masturbating from your parents. Since masturbating is something done in private and is something we all do including adults this is a yes and o answer. When you have a need to masturbate you go someplace quiet where you will not be disturbed like your room. Close and lock the door if you can and pleasure yourself. While it is possible in some very liberal families one might announce to mom, "hey I need to masturbate call me when dinner is ready." Most families are just not that liberal. Mom will be the first to realize you are masturbating as she will see the satins on the sheets or your underwear. She most likely not say anything to you for as I said most all of us masturbate.
As a Parent I can tell you the reason we warn you not to masturbate is not because there is anything wrong with doing so. It is not harmful and it won't hurt you in any way. Fact is it is very pleasant which causes us to worry you will want to try the real thing before you are ready.
No one has ever gotten a girl pregnant from masturbating or caught an SD from it. Which is why it is the safest and healthiest way fro a teenager to relieve sexual tension and frustration.
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Hi. First off, one can't actually be too young to masturbate. Neither, in case you are wondering, can one masturbate 'too much'. It's a perfectly natural and completely harmles thing to do, and should be pleasant, relaxing and enjoyable. It is in no way 'wrong'. It is not a substitue for sex with a partner. And it's not something we only do in our youth and grow out of either. It's for anyone, anytime. I'd say that right now you are very conscious of the fact that you are 'doing it' and (perfectly understably) absolutely horrified at the idea of your parents 'knowing you are doing it'. Our attitude and thoughts about it do however change with our age and experience. Your parents would not be horrified to think that you masturbate. It's something we kind of know without dwelling on, if you see what I mean? They are as unlikley to say "Hey... I was just wondering, are you masturbating yet? as you are of saying "I'm just going to my room to masturbate Mom. Call me when dinner is ready." It's a personal, private thing and they will appreciate that. On the subject of them disturbing you unexpectedly while you are doing it, they would certainly be rather embarrassed themselves. And don't expect them to confront you about it later demanding an explanation or apology. Last thing they'll want to do is make you squirm and give you a hang-up about it. Parental love and understanding is actually far more profound and deep than you might think right now. Now, your parents can't actually look at you and know you masturbate. Or whether you just have, or are just about to. So don't worry about that. Like we said, it's something we do privately. Not because it's wrong, but because it is personal and private. Just relax and enjoy yourself. I hope my reply is making sense? Parents so much like their children (all their lives!) to be happy, healthy and normal/well-adjusted. Masturbating is as normal and natural an activity as anything. And the desire/urge/need to at around the age you are now is absolutely natural too. The fact that you don't explicitly discuss it with your parents is likewise, all perfectly normal. Have a good day. And stop worrying!!
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