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Should I go to friends 21st?
So its my friends 21st birthday this weekend except I'm unsure I can go.
Firstly because she is a Uni friend and I am home to celebrate Easter. I don't drive so I would have to rely on my parents to drive me to her birthday (there and back). Something I'd feel bad doing.
Also, the party is at a Shisha bar and I don't smoke Shisha. Another one of my uni friends turned down the friend whose birthday it is, because she said she does not smoke. I have been to this bar before and have felt uncomfortable for not smoking.
However, it is my friends 21st birthday, and I am worried not going will mean she will not come to my celebrations later on in the year.
What do i do?
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So you are on the fence about going because of how uncomfortable it would make you feel? If you don't want to go tell her, and/or ask if she wants to hang out with a small group friends, including you, after the main event. Communication is important in any friendship.
The thing is you should only do something if you have little to no doubts, never try to talk yourself into doing something you don't want to do, especially the party, not only would it ruin your experience, but it might ruin hers as well. And how long have you two been friends? Would she really hold not going to that 21st birthday against you?
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Well there is a few choices for you:
If you do go, you can always take a cab as a form of transportation,. or you can have your parent drive you.
Now about the shisha bar. If you don't want to smoke you ABSOLUTELY Don't have to smoke! You can go, for the social aspect of celebrating your friends birthday. That will ensure that she is wanting to go to your celebrations in the future.
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