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nice friend not nice
Hi, so this girl that I thought was really nice... I just found out she b****ed about me. I thought she was the nicest girl I knew. If people have a problem with me why don't they just tell me or feel the need to tell others?
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You will find that growing up, Girls can be quite nasty. They back stab, pretend to be your friend and lie. If this girl is your friend I would confront her and ask her what is going on?
If this girl is not a close friend, then I would move on from this friendship,. as anyone who does not treat you with respect does not deserve your time.
Hope this helps :)
<3 Jasmine
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Because alot of girls are either jealous or all about gossiping ok. If your in high school just consider it apart of the territory.
Just pretend like you know nothing about it and go on with your business and if anyone says anything to you saying that you said or did something "according to whats her face" then just say you dont know what shes talking about and that you "would never say something like that" and that it "doesnt even sound like something you would say"
What these girls are looking for is either a reaction from you in order to make you look bad so that THEY can be the victim of you, or for YOU to say something bad BACK about them so again they can be a victim. Anything to make you look bad is usually what jealous, mouthy girls who talk behind your back will do. do NOT give a reaction to this, it will only fuel the fire.
Stay calm, dont allow anyone to get an angry reaction from you. It could be a set up to get you to do something you wouldnt normally do. Just continue to be nice but put some distance between you and that girl. Dont hang out with her, be nice when you DO see her but dont tell her anything personal anymore. Dont invite her to do anything with you or a group of friends, and make sure it stays that way. she'll figure out that you probably know what she said and if she says anything to you about it then just say "well what else did you expect when you talk bad about people behind their back??" and then walk away.
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girls like this can just be DYING to start drama with others. Dont give in and let her have that. Stay calm, dont get emotional. good luck
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