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How do u treat a boy
I need help why is a boy shy to be around with a girl
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i agree, also get him to laugh, make jokes with you and find things that are funny. Try to keep things positive and if he DOES open up and start saying things about his feelings that sound deep and/or meaningful, dont judge, and just say things like "i can understand your point of view on that sure...."
his friends may still tease him and it may even effect him to the point where he may distance himself for a while because hes not sure what to do, but just know that you were a huge help to him and that guys never forget the first females that walk into their lives and help them thru awkward years.
i talked to everyone as a kid and helped alot of guy friends through this phase and i still know them now and even after years of no contact and then finding them again, they all admit that they liken me the most and that i always helped them without judging.
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Girls seem to be more social and into wanting relationships than males at the same age. Girls may not know all the proper do's and don'ts but at least they're out there doing something.
If a boy had no sisters, he really may not have a clue what a girl is like, the good and bad, and be afraid to learn or look stupid. Also, lack of experience, this being the first time for them having an interest but not knowing how to approach, how to talk to girls, and the fear of rejection will hold them back.
Another thing when young middle school and sometimes HS, boys are afraid of their friends ribbing and teasing them over liking a girl and friends can be ruthless if they've seen it before so thats enough to keep them shy and not approaching a girl.
tHERE are many reasons.
If you like him, start talking to him. Better yet, to give him permission to talk to you, ask him for help, whether you need it or not. Guys like to be of help to a girl, it gives them a mission, something to focus on so they don't feel so awkward. Tell him you want to learn how to talk to guys and how to be friends with one and you'd be willing to teach him the same to be one with girls. You are choosing him cus you like him and he seems to be the nicest guy around and most likely willing to help you with this. Then befriend him like you would a girl. Lots of topics are neutral, favorite music, bands, food, etc... but if you try to talk to him about jewelry and the latest fashions and makeup it may bore him. He may have an opinion on what he likes but lots of talk, may not be his thing unless like my husband, theres more of an interest in gems and semi precious stones than I have.
Give it a try dear.
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