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The one who loves you is the one who cares for you////


Question Posted Thursday January 14 2016, 9:06 pm

The one who loves you is the one who cares for you////

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FAWAMAco answered Saturday January 23 2016, 3:42 pm:
Maybe, Maybe not you may never know it depends so it's not always true but sometimes it is true.

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missundersmock answered Saturday January 16 2016, 3:45 am:
Im gonna say no on this one. Just because someone has strong feelings for you does not mean that they are thinking of your best interest and whats good for you.

There are many relationships where one person just wants control over the other and USES "love" as a way to get it, playing to the other persons emotions the whole time, and fooling them into thinking that this is what love is.

A family member can also "Love you" but not necessarily know whats best for you, because your YOU and YOU know whats best for you, and if you have half a brain in your head then you can SAY "i know that this is whats best for me and i dont need other people to make those choices for me"

Love is not control over you, possessive, name calling, yelling, or belittling.

Its devotion, loyalty, kindness even when your full of sass, and caring about your well being EVEN if its not with them and means you have to leave them for a little bit in order to get what you need.

Next time please post a question and not random statements.

; )

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday January 15 2016, 4:50 pm:
You did not exactly state a question but attempted to state a situation. However I would need clarification as to what you need to know and that might begin with knowing what you meant by the word "cares". I can take it two ways, cares as in having feelings for, of course love being the strongest which isn't a problem as far as I can see. Or the cares means as in a caregiver. If the caregiver is not ones spouse but just a hired caregiver for those with illness, elderly or mentally handicapped, then Yes, there is a problem. I used to be a caregiver. Rules at least in my state did not allow for a caregiver to have any romantic sort of relationship with a caregiving client. If this is what you are concerned about, please be clear as to what your exact situation is and I'll see if I may have any advice to give.

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