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My Lesbian bestfriend who had a crush on me
I was fifth grade when I noticed that she's doing
weird stuff around me.It stopped but until now she's kissing me in the forehead,"accidentally" moving closer to me and I don't know if she still likes me.If she does,What should I do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If she is your friend then she is your friend. Her sexual orientation should not be an issue just as long as she knows you are not a lesbian and do not have any sexual interest in her.
People with different sexual orientations can be friends just as people of different races or religions can be friends. Differences of these manners should not be an issue of friendship. Friendships are born of other likes and dislikes. Some are the love of literature, art, movies, sports and other activities that the two of you and others enjoy doing together.
Friendship is also knowing the other will always be therefore regardless of time and distance that may come between you. My best friend for years was someone who I worked with. He has since passed away but before he did we were never any further apart then the telephone. A phone call was all that was needed to whenever either one of us needed some type of help or cheering up.
One time I had spoken to his wife and she told me he had trouble turning 50. I went out and put together an old farts kit (a joke). It contained everything I could find to symbolize he was being a dumb ass and sent it FEDEX to him overnight. Within 20 minutes of it being delivered he called me. HE started yelling, you had to meddle you couldn't let enjoy my funk could you." An hour later we were both laughing and joking and he was in a better mood. This is what friendship is all about.
Friendship has nothing to do with a person’s beliefs, be they their sexual orientation, or religion or be it the color of their skin. The world would be a better place if we can find it within ourselves to look past these things and see the real person. Just like beauty being skin deep. The real person lies just below these other things.
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If your friend likes you, don't be afraid of her actions. In my friend group, we have a friend who we thought for a long time she was lesbian because she loved giving hugs and calling us cute names like "sarahbear" or "gabbykinz". We found out that she was straight and that all the hugging and affection is just her personality. We also have a friend in our group who also likes girls but she isn't like our affectionate friend at all. But her girlfriend is. Girls who like other girls don't necessarily like you if they're affectionate. It's just their personality. Don't be afraid of her being clingy to you or kissing you on the forehead. You are her best friend. Best friends are supposed to be abnormally close. My best friend is like that too. She's the affectionate one I talked about earlier. Just let your friend keep up her routine unless it makes you feel uncomfortable. And if it does, talk to her so you guys can set some limits. I promise you this is normal! Hope this helped! ~glasses
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