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so currently I found out that my friend likes. I never thought of him as boyfriend, just a close friend. At the same time, I've been having a crush on this other guy, and we are friends too. And the thing is that after my crush broke up with his girlfriend, he told me that he used to like me, but didn't tell me because he don't think I'll like him back. Now the ideal thing is to be in a relationship with my crush, but he didn't make any moves to show he wants to date me but maybe it is because he just ended a relationship?? I want to be in a relationship with my crush (obviously) more than my friend who said he likes me. I've never been in a relationship before but I want to try it, but I don't want my first relationship to be with my friend, but I'm afraid that if I wait any longer, the chances would be left and i'll regret it. my friend really wants me to be his girlfriend as he kept calling and messaging me, but when i asked him why he likes me he said "idk". i think its kind of weird of him saying these stuff to me and I've also asked if hes hackedor something but i know he is not. So should I give a chance to my friend or wait for my crush?
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i say if your long time crush is ope (even though he just got out of a relationship) the tell him how you feel right now but ALSO mention that because you know that he just got out of a relationship that you dont want to rush him into nything hes not ready for yet but that you do have the same feelings back.
About your friend that likes you, if you DONT want to be with him then just tell him that you really value the FRIENDSHIP you have with him and you dont want to put that at risk by taking things to the next level and potentially ruining what is already a really good friendship later. If hes one of those friends you feel like you really connect with with and you can go to when your going thru alot then TELL him that and that your afraid that if things went to the next level that if things ended badly, the friendship might never be the same again because once you go forward, it can be very hard to go back to just being friends again. It works for some but not all, and alot of times ONE of them still ends up with hurt feelings even tho they refuse to openly admit it.....= /
good luck ; )
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