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Puberty and Beauty
I'm 15 and have asymmetrical eyes, one is bigger and lower than the other one. Will this go away as I grow older? It really bothers me and I am thinking of having plastic surgery when I'm older. I know I sound as if I'm complaining when there are people out there with real problems and I get that I can come across as a whiny, spoilt brat. But this asymmetry has bothered me and I just want to feel pretty for once.
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I would think the position of the opening for the eye socket in the skull can't be messed with. But maybe changing the lids so how much eyeball is showing can be changed by cosmetic surgery but again, its expensive. Best to talk to specialists about that. As for asymnnetrical is people, just about everyone has a face where the left side doesnt match the right side. There used to be a camera at a science center i went to as a kid and teen where it would photograph one side of your face at a time and duplicate the exact same on the other side, like two right sides only the one flipped to face the right direction. Neither of them looked like me at all, like a totally different person. When my family or friends tried it, same results. No one is asymmetrical, just that some are more obvious than others. I have a daughter whose breasts are visibly easily two different sizes and has a boyfriend for whom its not a big deal at all.
If I were you, I would pay a makeup specialist, like the really good ones who do wonders with the flaws of celebrities, and have that person teach you what you can do with makeup to play the optical illusion that both eyes are the same size. If they can make a celeb with a wide nose appear to have a slender nose, it can be done with makeup for your eyes.
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Let me say this about symmetrical. Not everything in this world is symmetrical and there is beauty in the asymmetrical. Now depending just how asymmetrical your eyes are would depend on whether or not I would recommend plastic surgery.
For one thing if it is just cosmetic surgery, meaning there is no medical reason for it. You will have to pay the full cost of the surgery yourself which could run into the tens of thousands of dollars to have a good Board Certified Plastic Surgeon do the surgery. That is number one; you would want a Board Certified Plastic Surgeon as they have the proper training to do this type of surgery. Not all Plastic Surgeons are Board Certified.
Answer this question while your thing about plastic surgery. Take a good look at your breasts. Are they symmetrical? So they sit together on your jest or is one slightly lower than the other.
For most women their breast are not symmetrical and one does sit slightly higher or lower than the other. Trust me this is not a turnoff to any man. The fact that your eyes are asymmetrical is probably more of a turn off to you then to anyone else. I would say it probably make .you look more intriguing, especially with a proper haircut and eye makeup.
Your 15 and unless their is a medical reason to do the surgery no Plastic Surgeon will do this surgery before your 18 and some may ask you to wait even longer. Depending on whether all your growth plates have closed.
My advice is; Talk to a plastic surgeon or two. Find out what is initialed in this type of surgery . How much pain will you have and for how long. Can the surgeon justify a medical reason for the surgery. IF not find out what the cost will be.
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