There Is This Boy And I Think That He LikeS Me Cus When We Hang Out He Is Chill And He SoMe Times touches me but not in a way that bf and gf Way BuT Like He He Puts Gs Hand On My Shoulder And Rubs My Head And Im Not Sure I Have F33lings For HiM And So Nn So That
However we don't know if it's romantic or as a friend.
The face that he touches you is a good thing he is comfortable however there is no way to say for sure.
If you like him and it seems like you do, follow along and flirt a little and see where it takes you. Take things slow and most importantly have fun!!
Dragonflymagic answered Monday November 16 2015, 3:03 pm: He is attracted to you and likes you and feels comfortable around you.
Males don't hang out with girls they don't like. It is illogical to spend time with a person pretending to like them. THeres no reason. If he can relax and be himself more with you than others , then he feels comfortable with you and that is a good sign. It hopefully means he is slowly building trust in you as a person that you will treat him well too. The innocent touches are a way to show you that he likes you as more than a friend. On occasion, one may meet a person who is the type who freely gives hugs, and touches to people as they talk simply because its part of their personality and if so, you'll have witnessed him doing that with everyone. If he doesn't, then touching you is a sign he is interested. His interest may be at the friend level, not romantic level yet, if it ever will be, but being female and having a non romantic male friend is quite normal and common. So the question in your mind is whether his interest is on a friend level or romantic level. The best of long term couple relationships are ones where they aren't just the best of friends but have the best strongest romantic chemistry between them.
Sometimes two friends find their feelings change sometime along the way and one begins to develop romantic feelings for the other.
If hes an acquaintance and not really quite a friend yet, then enjoy the friendship and don't worry. If he ever does anything you don't like, as a friend, let him know what it is and why it makes you uncomfortable. If you sense at some point that any gestures from him seem more romantic based than friendship, and you have decided you have no such feelings for him, you need to speak up cus remaining silent gives him false hope. If you end up developing stronger feelings for him or feel you love him, then the best way to not scare a friend away is to reveal it not as a fact of you already being there, being sure you're in love but to reveal it as a process just starting, theres less pressure on him to scare him away. SO say, 'I am beginning to have stronger feelings for you than just friendship." That way if he doenst feel the same he can let you know. It works the other way too, to ask him if those new touches and the kiss means he is starting to develop feelings for you and thats the time to tell him whether you are starting to have the same feelings or whether they don't exist.
Think about how excited with anticipation you were as a little kid the night before Christmas. Now make those same feelings a whole lot grander and more special. If you do not feel these feelings from just being near him, even from innocent touches, then likely at this point you are not attracted romantically to him. I said at this point because you might be in the future. Some love isn't instant love at first sight, dynamite type of explosion in you. Some love starts as a tiny ember, as respect and friendship caring, loving, and slowly grows stronger and stronger over time to become a raging fire of love for each other and thats as valid as the other. I hope this all helps you. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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