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My friend is really starting to annoy me
So I am 13 and I have a friend in my class. She tries to be cool by saying things like "bruh" and "dawg" and once she giggled at the way that my tongue was slightly sticking out of my mouth and I was like "So what?" because it was really rude. She judges people just by one look at them. and she is rude to people just for one little thing. She always tries to make excuses for gym. She is so lazy and she doesn't do ANY work in school. I feel like she copies my work and sometimes when we are in groups together, I feel like I'm doing all the work. I also don't want to sit with her sometimes but she sits beside me anyway. I also don't want to be in her group at all because she distracts me and is a really bad educational influence on me. But if I don't be her partner in class, then she won't have anyone at all. Please help?
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A typical @ge 13 issue. First of all I don't agree with Danicus who advised you to confront your friend. It can have negative results.
Once a great scholar was ask where did you get all your knowledge and wisdom. He replied ' I got it from the fools around me, the things those fools used to do I never did'
So its better to have fools around you learn from their mistakes rather than learning it the hard way.
Finally, if you can accept her as a friend with all her problems then go ahead and let her be your friend and i suggest that you should but if you cannot then stop worrying about her she LL find another friend.
And if you decide to keep her as your friend stop complaining to her teach her with your actions. If you are interested I LL tell you further, hope it LL workout. Let there be love between the two of you lil angels.
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Seems like you're judging her as you say she judges others. You could tell her to stop being the way she has been and that its getting on your nerves. If maybe she'll take it down a notch, but if she doesn't. There's really no point in having a friend you can't stand.
If you don't want her as your friend, just tell her that you don't wanna be her friend anymore and to leave you alone. Its harsh, but if you're really that sick of her and you want to get rid of her, that's what you gotta do.
You could also tell the teacher to not pair you up.
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