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I like my math teacher(female) and I(female) don't know if she likes me😔
Ok so I was in math class with my teacher(female) who I had a crush on and when I looked at she was always looking at me but whenever she around me she smiles and I just try not to, but idk what to do because i know that it is wrong to like a teacher bug I think she likes me...😶 but I can't tell but if she does what should I do?
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I don't believe you should act on this feeling. Your teacher is there for your education purposes. I'm going to assume that you're a teenager or around the teenage years, I apologize if I'm wrong - but when you're a teenager, your hormones are all over the place, and you feel things you wouldn't really feel. This is probably just a crush and nothing more. I think a lot of people have had a tiny crush on their teacher before, but I don't think it should be acted on.
Maybe she looks at you and smiles because she likes you as a student, I think it's rare that a teacher will have feelings for a student, they are there because it's their job, and she is probably smiling because like I said, she likes you, but also she is clearly very friendly, so maybe you're mistaking friendly for romance. Not to mention, that even if you did get in a relationship at all, she would lose her job and wouldn't be able to teach again. It's extremely risky, and all just for a crush? I don't think it's worth it, I think one day you will meet someone your own age who is lovely and you will look back and laugh about when you had a crush on your teacher. If I were you, I wouldn't do anything. If you feel she is being inappropriate with you, report it. Try and look at her as a teacher and nothing else.
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Another vote for doing nothing because really this is something that is illegal to pursue. I do know from a teacher friend that teachers can have favorites each year in their class, although they are not supposed to treat them any better or different than other students and for the most part do not. Sometimes a student has the looks or mannerisms or something of a person they know, a daughter, a niece, someone they are close to so it is natural to be drawn to look at that person with a big smile. I have come across people that remind me of my own daughters and I feel an instant mothering instinct arise in me if they look, act or talk like one of my kids. I believe it may be nothing more than that but due to your crush, your mind imagines that there must be something more.
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You do nothing. It is not only wrong for a teacher and student to have any type of relationship outside the classroom it can be illegal for the teacher depending on the type of relationship.
It is not unusual for a student to have a crush on a teacher it is part of teenage life. When I was in school I had a crush on my 7th grade Science teacher, 8th grade Math teacher and a 12 grade English teacher. Heck every guy in school had a crush on the English teacher. When we were Freshmen she was a Senior. When we were Seniors she was back doing her student teaching. Having gone to our high school also meant she lived in the area which meant we saw her at the community pool every summer.
There is nothing you can do or should do about a crush you have on any teacher. I'm positive that because of the crush you have on this teacher you are reading way too much into a returned smile. Just relax and enjoy the fact that she is obviously a great teacher or you would not have a crush on her.
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