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Lost earrings
When I was little my aunt always gave me bracelets or some type of jewelry. I would always loose it though. Well for my 14th birthday she got me a necklace and it was super cute! And she told me to wear it everyday. But I play field hockey and we aren't allowed to wear jewlery so I took it off but now I can't find it and I'm pretty sure I've looked everywhere. And she hasn't had a chance to see it on me when I had it so whenever she sees me she'll ask where it is and I tell her it's at home (which I think it is I just don't know where). But anyways I don't know what to tell her. What should I do? (Btw I think it was a little pricey because she said it was real silver)
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I think the best thing to do in this situation is to tell her the truth. If you are afraid she will lose trust in you, make sure she knows that next time you receive a gift from her, you will keep it safe. To do this, I suggest having a box for all your jewelry. I tend to lose a lot of jewelry myself, they are very easy to lose. When you know an event is coming up that will require you to take of your jewelry (such as a field hockey game), you can take off all your jewelry and safely store it in a box before the event. That way, you will never lose your jewelry.
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Trust me, the best possible thing to do would be to just tell her the truth. Just tell her that you lost it and your pretty sure that It's somewhere at home. Remember, that she is your aunt, she might be a little disappointed, but she'll get over it, If your completely honest with her. Good luck!
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Tell her the truth, that you have misplaced it at home and searched for it but not found it yet. If you do like wearing jewelry when you can, then you need to form a system and a habit as far as where you store it. Maybe even two places like a jewelry box in your bedroom and if theres room in the bathroom, a standing jewelry tree, wear you can hand earrings, bracelets and necklaces. I wear a ring on every finger but the pinkie and some times in kitchen working with dough or other foods would mess up my rings, so I bought a tiny ceramic container with lid that I left out always on kitchen counter and put my rings in it. Long after the meal was done or the next day, I'd realize I wasn't wearing my rings and they were all where I left them because i had a system I did not change from. If I wasnt near the kitchen or bedroom jewelry box like gardening outside and the rings got in the way, I made myself go back inside and choose one of those two places to take off and leave my rings. I knew I wouldn't remember putting them in a pocket and don't want to risk losing them as most have a sentimental value to me, regardless of the cost of the items.
So I would suggest you come up with such a plan and stick to it no matter how inconvenient at times.
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