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Is it bad to suck your bestfriend?
We're both reasonably young, in our teens and we're both guys. It doesn't really bother me, but thinking psychologically, people'd definitely react more violently for the reason that we're both guys, and not because we do blowjobs. Personally, I dont like him and he doesn't like me back, romantically that is. We just do it for fun since we've nothing better to do (I expect advice not judgement :P). Also, just for further details, we don't have any kind of disease and we never do it with one having a cold sore.
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No there is nothing wrong with it at all. Violent reactions come about as some people see it as homosexual behaviour (even if there is no romantic/emotional connection at all, as in your case). And some people are simply homophobic. The degree can vary from 'not really liking the idea' to outright hostility. It raises the issue that while it is up to us what we do or don't do, the reaction of others is not subject to our control or approval. It is and always will be, their choice. From a practical point of view, if you suspect that mentioning it to certain people will be rather like waving the proverbial red flag to a bull and provoke a hostile reaction, don't mention it to those particular people at all.
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I have a stock saying when it comes to questions concerning sex. "What happens in the privacy of ones bedroom stays in the bedroom." Meaning it is no ones business but those in the bedroom. As long as both parties consent to the sex what ever is being done is fine. Contrary to former President Clintons thinking a blow job is sex.
Given your age I would not suggest you put any labels on yourselves such as bisexual or gay. You are neither based on what you have written. For teenagers your age it is normal to experiment or even practice same having sex with the same sex. Doing so means no one gets pregnant, sexual tension is relieved and you get to practice for when the time is right to have sex with the opposite sex.
You are right though if it were known that you two are doing this it could be cause for great harm to you. Even buy others doing the same thing. So keep this to yourselves and make sure you have plenty of privacy when you do relieve each others sexual tensions.
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There's nothing wrong with fooling around with your best friend. As long as everything is consensual than you guys are fine. If you ever do decide to take it a step further, just make sure that you use protection or that you guys are getting regularly tested. Also, do what you are most comfortable with. If he ever decides to do something different and you don't want to do it, don't be afraid to say, "I'm not really comfortable with that."
And you are right that there are people out there who would view what you're doing as "wrong" or "unnatural". DO NOT LET THOSE PEOPLE DICTATE HOW YOU WANT TO LIVE YOUR LIFE. Do you. There's nothing wrong with having safe-sex or oral sex for fun.
I hope this helps.
Andrew Horton
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As long as you're okay with it, there's no reason to see it as good or bad, it just is. BTW, some people may discover as time goes on that they like both men and women romantically and therefore, sex wise, would be bi sexual. In your case, you're not engaging in sex because of romantic interest in a girl but just for the sake of sex itself. One things for sure, it's safer as far as neither of you can get each other pregnant, so a much better choice as a teen to engage in same sex sexual stuff instead of taking a chance of getting a girl pregnant.
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