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Whats this clear stuff?
Im 17 and my gf and i took each others virginities last night and when i was inside her she said she felt like she had to pee and that it was too late but when i took out my penis clear gooey stuff was squirting out of her vagina onto me and i just want to know ifthats
ifthat's normal or if im hurting her
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Thats a normal physical action that wasn't medically or scientifically researched enough to have much info until lately. So, no...you are not hurting her, but helping her have a G-spot orgasm.
Your girlfriend just had the female version of the males ejaculation. Not all females are able to squirt out liquid like this with a G spot orgasm but those who have these orgasms will release their own ejaculatory liquid out a much smaller hole near the hole to her urethra or if the diversionary connecting tract never developed internally which doesnt in many women, the ejaculate goes straight into their bladder which has been confirmed by tests of females pee before orgasm and after where the ejaculate was discovered in her pee.
It is thinner, runnier than the initial thicker liquid released when aroused for lubrication purposes.
I know for sure she had a G spot orgasm because you mentioned she said she felt like she had to pee, so please tell her about this, that feeling is normal because the G spot is located internally about an inch in past her pubic bone and is the patch of rougher prune like skin, much like the texture of ones testicles. It is on the tummy side of her vagina and when stimulated manually by fingers or a toy or during intercourse with a penis, this prune like area becomes engorged with blood like the males penis is engorged by blood, and makes the area super sensitive to touch. From that point on, its a matter of time til pressure builds to the point she feels she needs to pee which is what a woman feels just before her orgasm as she won't have this 'pee urge' feeling with a clitoral orgasm, thats different. Most people, myself included when younger, do not know the physics of this or even that the possibility exists. So females fear that they have to pee and shut down and stop and learn to avoid any sex that might bring on this type of feeling for fear of peeing while having sex and shut off their feelings or just stop and therefore never have a g spot orgasm or may hear about such a thing but have no way of understanding what it actually is.
If she is worried that she might be actually peeing cus it feels exactly the same, suggest that she empty her bladder first next time before sex. The bladder does not refill quickly at all so if she allows her muscles to relax at the point of urge to pee, she will have her g spot orgasm again but this time without any fears. Her liquid is okay for you to have on you and running over you just as yours is okay for her.
I do hope you both are intending to use protection. Condoms are only safe to a certain percent, even if used properly, they can be defective, have a pin sized hole, or rip while in use. Had that happen once in my life time. Now that you've both started, you're more likely to want to continue to have sex regularly so she should go get on the pill if she isn't already as while not 100% effective, its better than just condoms which are said to be good for STD protection.
If she has any specific questions or concerns about the topic, let her know she can contact me through my column here and ask.
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