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What do I now that my bff's parents and my other friends parent hate my gut
So I'm a very nice peron and I'm straight forward so this is how the story goes my Bff (Bri) and me were in a fight with A boy named Max and so we went to the keys and we're on vacation together and we were sitting in the Jacuzzi and I brought the subject up because this is what my grandmother had her and told me I told her straightforward "Brianna I have to tell you something "Brianna goes " what's wrong "? "I tell her that Max's dad had told us that her dad Tony wasn't right for her mom Tess and I thought everything was OK nothing was bad but then all of a sudden she's ignoring me for some reason nobody's talking to me NOBODY!! And then I'm put in the group chat with Bri and max and they think I was lying and I wasn't I don't like to liievand they told her parents and the parents are now extremely mad at me and I don't know what to do anymore and I made up with Bri and Max but Their parents hate me to death!' And I don't Know what to do because I'm not lying and neither is my grandma and I don't want us to fight anymore!! Please help me!!
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I think their parents are upset because you were gossiping about private family matters. It doesn't matter that you were telling the truth, because it was probably supposed to be a secret; Max's father likely never intended for Brianna's mom to know how he felt about her husband, or else he would've told her himself. You should never share gossip about other people, and ESPECIALLY not about family matters, even if it is true or if you are mad at the person.
At this point, you have two options; you can simply let this go and hope that it will not affect your friendships too much, or you can attempt to apologize to their parents. You should also tell your grandmother. She will most likely be angry at you for spreading gossip, but she may also be able to speak to Max and Brianna's parents on your behalf.
I hope that everything works out for the best!
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It sounds like your friend thinks you said those things to hurt her feelings. You need to apologize for what you said. Tell her you weren't lying, but that this is none of your business anyway and you regret getting involved in her family issues.
As for their parents, they sound very immature. They shouldn't care what some kid's opinion of them is. Don't let their disapproval get to you.
Apologize to your friend for getting involved in her business and let the rest blow over.
Toodles,
Miss Piggy
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