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Tearing
I rarely have intercourse but I feel like every time I do the outside of my vagina tears. At first it's painful because it's like a little cut but then as it heals it gets itchy which I know is normal for healing. I have been using neosporin which helps it heal faster so the itching goes away faster. I guess I am looking for advice on how to avoid the tearing or how to better deal with it so it isn't so uncomfortable.
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The fact that you rarely have intercourse is probably behind this problem. Depending on what you mean by rarely it could be that when you do it is like having sex for the first time all over again. If you’re having sex with the same partner it could be that he is also what is called well hung meaning somewhat oversized and the fact that you do not have regular intercourse you are not use to stretching to accommodate him.
If he is overly large then two things use plenty of lube and he has to very gentle entering you. If he is your same age he is probably not as gentle entering you as he should be. One thing to remember though is what comes out of your vagina. No matter how big he may be he is smaller than what the vagina is there to deliver to the world. When you are older and have more regular intercourse you will learn to stretch and accommodate him or a guy who may be overly large.
Average Vagina Size
Relaxed
Length 3 1/2 to 4 inches
Diameter 1 Inch
Aroused
Length ("tented) 5 to 6 inches
Diameter 1 1/2 to 2 inches
The average male penis when erect is between 5.1 & 5.9 inches long and 1 to 1 ½ to 2 inches in girth.
It might be advisable to visit with your GYN and discuss this with the doctor to make sure nothing has been harmed and to see if the doctor can recommend something to help.
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have your man take it slow and you can never use too much lube. lube is your friend just trust us on this! lol.
condoms arent the only thing you should be buying when your at the store. Lube is also important as well. ; )
youll be fine.
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You should ask a doctor about this.
You should also use more lubricant when you are having sex.
I've had this happen a few times in my life - usually it means not enough lubricant. If it were happening all the time, I'd go see a doctor.
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