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i want sex but not really
so im a 13 year old girl and i act a little horny when i see sexual stuff. is it normal for 13 year olds to watch porn and i want sex with a guy but protected sex. can i do anything sexual by myself to give a sex feeling to myself i know for guys they can maturbate help!
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Relax your normal. watching or reading pornography can be sexually stimulating especially to someone going through puberty with all the new hormones pulsing through them. Hence the word horny.
You are way too young to consider having actual sex with a boy. For one thing even though you may be developing a womanly body your vagina is not ready for intercourse even if you are getting your period. The muscles of your vagina may still be locked and not ready to spread to accept a penis which would make intercourse very painful.
What you can do to relieve the sexual tension is masturbate. Now there are many different ways to please yourself by stimulating your breasts, nipples, clit and vagina. If you have not done so yet type FEMALE MASTERBATION into a search engine or HOW DO FEMALES MASTERBATE. There will be plenty of information returned to show you or explain to you how to please yourself.
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Perfectly normal to respond to visual sexual stimulus (pictures and movies), and to sexual ideas in your mind/imagination. Feeling that you'd like to actually have sex is very natural too, and so also is the conflicting idea that you 'don't want to' yet at the same time. Mostly girls wait until they are somewhat older, and feel safely in a committed relationship before they first have sex. Rushing into it is too soon is very likely to be something very many regret. Not because something awful happens. It doesn't always, and you're perfectly aware of the idea of safe/protected sex (which is great to hear). Often just because it's a case of 'too much too soon' on the emotional level, of themselves and the relationship. A case of seeming like a good idea, but not feeling so good afterwards and wishing they had waited. So, we've determined that you're a perfectly normal girl of 13, with perfectly normal thoughts and urges, and the usual doubts too, then? But what do you do about feeling horny? It's not only us guys who can masturbate. Don't know where you got that idea from mate! Masturbating is simply handling your genitals in a way that provides sexual stimulation and relief. There's no definite need to penetrate your vagina at all, with fingers or objects, if you're not happy about doing that. The part mostly outside, and at the 'top' (your clitoris) is very sensitive indeed. And the tips of your fingers are all that's needed. Hope you're not sort of cringing here? Relax. We all masturbate, guys and girls. And 13 is a perfectly appropriate age to be doing it and enjoying it. How about letting your fingers 'explore' a bit next time some sexy scene makes you feel horny (and when it's convenient, of course)? See what 'feels good'. It should be very obvious when you find a good spot and action for yourself. Fair to say that us guys pretty much masturbate all the same, I think. You ladies have many more options in terms of exactly where and how and what you do. It's a case of finding something that works for YOU. You will soon find something that gives you a very enjoyable 'sex feeling' I can assure you. It's 100 percent normal, completely harmless and very enjoyable. So enjoy yourself! ps. If you want to see how sensite the whole area is, try popping a pillow between you legs (or even just crossing tour legs tightly without a pillow) and squeezing and releasing your thigh and pelvic muscles in a regular rhythm. You should find the feeling that creates is very enjoyable for a start.
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All normal, and yes you can rub your clit, play with your nipples, and finger yourself to help simulate sex without having it and give yourself relief. Have fun!
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I would say it's fairly normal. Either way, it happens a lot. At that age you're going through puberty and your hormones are raging, so things happen. Yes, girls can masterbate too, just obviously in a different way. If you look up on google or yahoo how a girl can masterbate or "pleasure" herself, you'll be sure to find results.
Hope this helps~
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