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can u pop your cherry from masturbating
im 13 and I masturbate all the time especially with brushs and I go really fast and deep and I think the cum sorta smelled like blood the other day so I was wondering if that could pop my cherry
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No you can't lose your virginity from masturbating. In order to lose you virginity the male part that is in between their legs has to go inside the female part that is in between her legs and he has to deep inside. The cum smelled like blood because you probably masturbated the day after your period left. But be careful if you masturbate really fast and hard you might stretch out your vaginal line and you might cause some pain there. One more thing losing your virginity hurts a lot and may cause bleeding for 2-3 days and make sure he is wearing protection.
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Hi there. See you've got some great answers. Very sound. The tearing of your hymen which can easily happen during masturbation does not qualify as popping your cherry/losing your virginity and it's nothing to get stressed about. Since a rather enthusiastic technique seems to work well for you, I'd suggest you might think about adding a good quality silicon-based lubricant to your shopping list next time you're out though. They're super-slippery, and even more importantly they don't dry out quickly. It's a sensitive area. Women who enjoy penetration with sex-toys when they masturbate often find it makes things more enjoyable at the time and less likely to feel sore afterwards. Especially if they enjoy vigorous (ie fast and deep, like yourself) and/or quite prolonged sessions.
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Its possible you stretch is some when you masturbate like that. However any friction without enough lubrication can irritate or even tear the fine lining of the vaginal walls at any time in life, even when married years and due to passion you didn't want to stop to use more lube.
Here's a very informative video on cherry popping by a gal who teaches teens and older about this sort of stuff.
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"Popping your cherry" is a term most people your age use to mean losing one's virginity. You cannot lose your virginity through masturbation. What can happen for the female is she will tear her Hyman which can also be done in many other ways including the use of Tampons.
Back in the dark ages when I was a teenager a girl was not considered a virgin unless her Hyman was intact. For that reason mothers told their daughter not to use tampons until after they were married.
Virginity is lost when you have sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse is defined as a male penis fully entering the female vagina. Until that has happened you have not "Popped you Cherry," something that should not happen for you for many more years.
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Yes you can absolutely break your hymen while masturbating. Especially if you masturbate by inserting things other than your fingers.
There is nothing wrong with masturbating, or breaking your hymen. Many - if not most - women break their hymen in some way long before they ever have sex with someone else. What is important is that you not hurt yourself. So if something in painful, stop.
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