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now i am really confuse
so this girl at work she's been asking me to hangout with her she says since you go surfing let me go with you teach me how the sign that i can think of attraction is there so finally i got the nerve to ask her number waited about a week to call tuesday around 8.15pm called it ring at about 4times then i heard her talking then it just ended what is that all about waited a few minutes called again she didn't pick up what is that all about
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see what happens the next time you see her at work. if she acts friendly, bring up that youll be going out surfing again and see what her reaction is. maybe she didnt pick up or picked up and accidently hung up on you (ive done that plenty of times before because phones are all touch screen now) and if she didnt recognize the number she may not want to call it back thinking its a telemarketer or something like that.
if she mentions wanting to go again you can say "well i tried to call but it sounded like someone picked up and then hung up and then i called again and no one answered so idk lol" youll be giving her the chance to explain herself and this also nicely lets you know that you didnt appreciate that.
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Who the hell knows?
She could be playing games. She also could be driving, or unavailable, or in a noisy place, or a shit ton of other things.
Don't wait a week when someone gives you their number. They will forget who the hell you are and your call will be intrusive and awkward instead of pleasant. You risk them not knowing who the hell you are. Maybe she is game playing - but if you are waiting a week to call someone - so are you. Don't do that.
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Sounds like she could be playing games. If you're into that they keep pursuing, otherwise don't bother because she could also be giving mixed signals. Also, don't always assume that just because she wants to hangout with you that it means she is romantically interested in you. She could just want to be friends or really want to learn how to surf. Not every approach from a person of the opposite (or same sex) always means that its out of romantic interest. If you have her number you can always let her know when you're planning on heading out to surf via text and give her the opportunity to respond. If she keeps ditching you, then she may that not that interested and you should move on. Getting hung up on someone like that is going to be a pain in the ass. Or you can always wait and let her ask you to take her surfing again at a time that she specifies.
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