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he is my college teacher, married and has a baby girl too. he used to say that i love you and all and i fell for him. he used to take me for drives and all. we have started being physical too. he has touched my boobs. gave me a vaginal massage from outside. i have not let him touch my vagina from inside. i know im very wrong. and i want to end all this. but he is my teacher and that scares me. he can use his powers against me. im realy confused. i want to end all this before it goes too far. please help (link)
Hey. This relationship is definitely wrong. You know it is yourself. But YOU are not wrong, HE is. He is a suppose to be an authoritative figure and he abusing his powers. If he is married and has a child, I would assume he is some years older than you and he is acting like a predator. What about him scares you? He's only as powerful as you see him, the truth is, he works for other people too (people who are more powerful than him) and trust me, those people would be very upset if they found out he does this type of behavior.


19/Male i am from Nigeria. my best friend beat up my little brother violently, and now my dad want's me to get back at him,but he's been my best friend for years. part of me want's to get back him,part of me still sees him as a friend.am very confuse,don't know what to do. (link)
That's disrespectful of him first of all. You never lay your hands on another person especially if they're smaller than you. How old is your brother 14? 15? whatever. You should always know that family comes first. Don't trust someone who doesn't treat you like family. Friends are valuable too, but trust me, good friends are hard to find. Family should come first, but I don't think you should beat your friend up for beating up your brother especially if your brother did something to instigate the problem.


so this girl at work she's been asking me to hangout with her she says since you go surfing let me go with you teach me how the sign that i can think of attraction is there so finally i got the nerve to ask her number waited about a week to call tuesday around 8.15pm called it ring at about 4times then i heard her talking then it just ended what is that all about waited a few minutes called again she didn't pick up what is that all about (link)
Sounds like she could be playing games. If you're into that they keep pursuing, otherwise don't bother because she could also be giving mixed signals. Also, don't always assume that just because she wants to hangout with you that it means she is romantically interested in you. She could just want to be friends or really want to learn how to surf. Not every approach from a person of the opposite (or same sex) always means that its out of romantic interest. If you have her number you can always let her know when you're planning on heading out to surf via text and give her the opportunity to respond. If she keeps ditching you, then she may that not that interested and you should move on. Getting hung up on someone like that is going to be a pain in the ass. Or you can always wait and let her ask you to take her surfing again at a time that she specifies.




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