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My friend is hurting me


Question Posted Wednesday April 29 2015, 6:27 pm

I was sitting at lunch with 2 of my friends, and they took my pencil, (it wouldn't be that important but, it was my last pencil, and I was 1 warning away from getting detention.) I was trying to get it back so my friend scratched me across my hand. I said please don't do it again, but she just laughted, and punched me in the arm. The other one drove her nail into my arm during social studies and left a scar. I don't want to avoid them, and get a teacher of parent involved. Is there some way I can stop this?!

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avatarthird answered Thursday April 30 2015, 12:00 pm:
Hahaha sweetheart you remind me of myself from when I was in highschool (my graduation was a month ago), so anyway, my friends physically hurt me ALL the time. Honestly? The only thing that really hurts is the psychological choice, whether you treat it as a joke or as a serious thing. Believe me, a laugh would take the pain away, a friend's someone who literally breaks your bones after all

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adviceman49 answered Thursday April 30 2015, 9:54 am:
If they are doing these things to you I would not consider them much of a friend and would distance myself from them. since they are doing these things to you and after you have asked them to stop if they do not then I would do the following.

I would talk to one of your more understanding teacher who you share a class with. Tell him or her what is going on and ask that she or he try to keep an eye on them while in class so he or she can catch them in the act. This way you are not the one making a complaint the teacher has caught them and any disciplinary action the teacher gives them is self earned.

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday April 29 2015, 11:14 pm:
Ask them what do they think they are pulling? Tell them that friends dont hurt one another and this isnt a joke. See if you get an apology or changes in their conduct. If you dont mention to the teacher what is going on and that you want them spoken to but in a way that it doesnt out you as the complainant.

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