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I have a date Friday night
25 female
I have a date Friday night with this guy I met that goes to my school . He is 21 and one of his friends is going wiih us because neither one of us can drive so he will be doing the driving . The date will be at Burger King . I Know not very fancy for a first date but its fine with me but I dont know what to wear to wear. I am also a little concerned becauase I dont know his friend anf i wanted to know if it would be rude to turn down the rife offer and have my cousin to drop me off?
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Might be a good idea to get your cousin (or someone) to take you there and have arrangements for him/her to pick you up at a set time (unless you phone to cnacel or rearrange the time). You'll get to know the other guy over the course of the date and decide whether you want him around/want to be driven around by him and so on. Might sound a bit over-cautious (after all you're fully acquainted with your date himself...and guy number 2 is his mate) but there's nothing wrong with 'cautious' and it woun't be rude. What if guy 2 turns up at Burger King and he's clearly had a drink or two? You'll be glad you weren't picked up in a car he was driving then, will you not?? And so on. On a lighter note...wear something you know suits you and you look good in. Most girls have a good idea about what that is so go with it. The extra-confidence you'll get will far outweigh any advantage a complicated 'wardrobe adjustment' can bring about. Good luck with the date. If you hit it off and his mate seems a sound guy based on what you see, then he can drive you next time if he wants to, eh? X
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It wouldn't be rude to turn down the ride and just tell him you'll have your cousin drop you off.
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.
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Dear I have a date,
I don't blame you for being concerned. In order to enjoy the date you need to feel safe and secure.
My advice to you is to either provide your own transportation or suggest an alternative destination.
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