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massage = cheating?
I enjoy going to massage parlors. Sometimes I get a 'happy ending' and sometimes I don't. Would this be considered cheating?
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Life isn't black and white. And as such, there are a lot of things that come into play here.
In my opinion, as a general situation, yes it would be cheating. However, it would be hard for me to say that this would always be the case.
The reason for this is that it really depends on the relationship you have with your significant other. If you have a traditional, monogamous relationship, this would indeed be cheating. However, if you have more of an open relationship, I suppose it would not.
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Yes, you are cheating. How would you feel if the roles were reversed and your partner went for a massage with a 'happy ending' ? Would you be ok with that?
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Yes.
Your partner has a completely fair expectation that you are not going to massage parlours to get off. Your purposeful keeping of this secret is a betrayal. That is what cheating is: A betrayal, a breaking of an agreement or understanding.
Unless your partner knows about the sexual nature of your massage parlour visits and agrees they are acceptable, then it is cheating.
It is also, in many many places, illegal. Many of the women who do that sort of work, are doing it under duress. If for not other reason than a desire to NOT support human trafficking, you should really stop doing that. It's not okay.
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It's cheating when it’s sexual.
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