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I don't understand what this boy wants
I really like this boy. He seems to like me too. He approaches me most of the time. he always sits with me at lunch and he makes me feel special.i really suck at basketball and during gym he came over and helped me.and he was very close . He seems to find ways to be near me or touch me(not sexually just like a hug) The thing is I feel like He sees me as just a friend. He likes another girl but he doesn't talk to her anymore. He's also really unsympathetic towards everything. But we were talking and he could tell something was wrong and he actually felt bad, he was actually very comforting and I wanted to tell him how I felt so badly. so I'm just confused as to how he feels and what he wants.
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If a girl approached you and treated you like this, would you question what she wants? Maybe, maybe not. But if a girl who wants to be your friend shows she really cares, you wouldn't think she was just messing with you, would you. You'd accept her friendship if she treated you so nicely and with lots of caring. That's where any good relationship with a boy should start, with friendship. The only thing with the opposite sex, (if you're hetero) is that there is the added benefit of romance if the two of you both have those kind of feelings too.
Although, it's possible to have a male as a friend only, I think most guys are drawn to wanting to be near a girl they are attracted to, and the good ones approach her for friendship to start with, rather than approaching her for sex right at the start. If you like him so far, spend more time getting to know him, talking will help and if you still like him, later ask if he see's you as just a friend or if he has any romantic feelings towards you. Good luck.
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